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re: Girlfriend Going Through Stint of Depression

Posted on 9/7/15 at 11:28 am to
Posted by 5 Deep
Crawford Boxes
Member since Jul 2010
24844 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 11:28 am to
Diagnosed with major depressive disorder. Spent a few months in an outpatient clinic last fall. Wouldn't wish it upon my worst enemy...shite sucks
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
12782 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 11:39 am to
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please tell me which diagnostic criteria of bipolar disorder have been displayed in this short op

You on Zoloft?
Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
69779 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 12:02 pm to
Sounds like she's projecting her cheating on you. Sorry bro.

She's trying to make you break up with her so she doesn't have to admit she cheated on you. Girls can be very predictable, even if they are illogical.

Wouldn't surprise me if she went out with her teammates and got dicked down.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
64718 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 12:46 pm to
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They're in their early 20s. You sound like a pussy to be honest. Go put some other woman on a pedestal somewhere and leave the op alone.




And? You're such a big man stepping up for other posters on a message board by using high school level insults.


Or, if I'm being serious, how about you try to explain what you mean instead of repeating a slapdick saying that many others have said countless times before you?

Either way, I didn't ask for your opinion and I don't care. Speak for yourself, and leave it at that mr. slapdick.
This post was edited on 9/7/15 at 12:50 pm
Posted by crawfishcharlie
Crawfishtown, USA
Member since Dec 2003
4884 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 1:10 pm to
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Run, unless you are ready to deal with this same behavior the rest of your life



True words ....
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 1:22 pm to
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I thought depressed people sex drive was way low. Her's skyrocketed


Not depressed, just crazy and manipulative.

This all sounds like a weird test to me: threatening to move back home, trying to get you to stay home with her rather than go out, telling you to go home to see what you will do.

Proceed with caution.
Posted by Loveland Tiger
Colorado
Member since Nov 2014
5259 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 1:24 pm to
How long has she been away from home? A year or so?
Posted by SohCahToa
New Orleans, La
Member since Jan 2011
7786 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 1:28 pm to
Heroin addict?
Posted by dgnx6
Member since Feb 2006
91718 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 1:29 pm to
She is a women, they all do this. They think their world is crashing down over the stupidest things. She will either snap out of it, or you just move on.
Posted by BowlJackson
Birmingham, AL
Member since Sep 2013
52881 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 1:41 pm to
Swallowing helps with depression. Shoot a load in her mouth

LINK
Posted by southernelite
Houston, TX
Member since Sep 2009
53568 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 1:45 pm to
A. Just cause she used to party do stuff doesn't mean she wasn't depressed then. It's just as easy to be depressed.

B. Maybe try doing stuff with her and her friends that don't revolve around partying, because partying all the time and having friends that only want to hang out with you when youre all partying is only going to make things worse.

I'm sure this has been said already, but its my $.02
Posted by 20MuleTeam
West Hartford
Member since Sep 2012
3862 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 1:59 pm to
Manipulate her into giving you butt sex and ATM and stuff
Posted by Zchlsu
Twin Peaks, Washington
Member since Jan 2011
7530 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 2:00 pm to
At 21, and I'm sure you do care a great deal about her, you are way too young for this shite.
Posted by phaz
Waddell, AZ
Member since Jan 2009
7093 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 2:01 pm to
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You're too young to be dealing with shite like this. Dump her and go out with some other women.


Not only that, it will get worse through the years. RUN AWAY from her. If you spent your life with her it will frick up your kids, just move on.
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
85640 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 2:02 pm to
Maybe you could suggest her taking a trip home to visit

Planning it then doing it and seeing her friends and family could help
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
85640 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 2:04 pm to
Holy shite. I think going through a rough patch is normal

Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
64611 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 2:04 pm to
Who started with the high school level insults? I'm afraid that was you. And now you're mad that someone called you on it. Go be a pussy somewhere else.
Posted by wmr
North of Dickson, South of Herman's
Member since Mar 2009
32518 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 2:12 pm to
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bi-polar


RUN. Been there, done that.

She used to like to party, now she wants to stay in and acts sad. I'm sure there is some other irrational, unexplainable stuff she's done. Likes lots of sex? (probably getting some other D somewhere else, too)

You can't win in that situation. It's best to leave now.

Even after diagnosed, medicated, etc, she'll continue to do crazy shite, but she'll just blame it on her disorder.
Posted by Skinner
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2011
352 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 2:18 pm to
When I say partying it was a means to say general socializing.
We go on trips, dates, weekend escapades, etc. Im just saying that she doesn't seem to want to socialize. She has friends that invite her to do things, and the more she declines invites the less she gets invited. Then says she doesnt get invited much anymore but its because she never goes! Its a cycle thats will only get worse if it continues.

Been dating for close to 2 years FWIW
Posted by chilge1
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2009
12139 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 2:21 pm to
Seriously... pregnancy test.

ETA: See explanation on prior page. If that's what us going on, pushing her away or making her feel alone is about the stupidest thing you could do right now.
This post was edited on 9/7/15 at 2:23 pm
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