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re: Girlfriend Going Through Stint of Depression
Posted on 9/7/15 at 7:55 am to HoustonChick86
Posted on 9/7/15 at 7:55 am to HoustonChick86
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How is saying spend time with someone you love who is lonely bad advice?
Because it's highly doubtful that this is what's going on with the OP.
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Posted on 9/7/15 at 7:57 am to Rouge
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Posted on 9/7/15 at 7:59 am to Mo Jeaux
He said she is 21, in school and from out of state. It's not that big of a jump.
His going to a counselor idea was a good suggestion though.
His going to a counselor idea was a good suggestion though.
Posted on 9/7/15 at 8:00 am to Mo Jeaux
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Because it's highly doubtful that this is what's going on with the OP.
Thank you. If you truly love someone you dont ask the internet how to handle her depression.
Posted on 9/7/15 at 8:02 am to HoustonChick86
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He said she is 21, in school and from out of state. It's not that big of a jump.
He also talked about her emotionally manipulative behavior and her using sex as a weapon. My jump isn't too big either.
Posted on 9/7/15 at 8:06 am to Mo Jeaux
Either way, shitty situation. Depression sucks for everyone involved.
Posted on 9/7/15 at 8:10 am to PolyPusher86
quote:So much this. Learn it before you marry her and/or make any babies together.
Women are highly emotional, highly illogical, and have no reason. Welcome to the club buddy.
Posted on 9/7/15 at 8:11 am to harry coleman beast
She may also have a hormone imbalance. It sounds more Bi-polar though. The next steps, if bi-polar, is she will begin saying I'm bored" and expect you to do a little dance or perform a talent show for her amusement.
The sex will get crazier so there is that. Soon she will begin to blame every problem of her life on you. At this point the great sex is no longer a factor. It is time to run, never looking back.
Hopefully it is a hormone thing and getting on the pill will cure what ails her.
Either way, you are not qualified to deal with all of her personal problems and she needs a little therapy. Convince her that counseling is for re-grouping, not crazy. Be prepared for her to have every excuse not to seek help.
The sex will get crazier so there is that. Soon she will begin to blame every problem of her life on you. At this point the great sex is no longer a factor. It is time to run, never looking back.
Hopefully it is a hormone thing and getting on the pill will cure what ails her.
Either way, you are not qualified to deal with all of her personal problems and she needs a little therapy. Convince her that counseling is for re-grouping, not crazy. Be prepared for her to have every excuse not to seek help.
Posted on 9/7/15 at 8:12 am to HoustonChick86
Correct, 86
Smart to learn early if you can handle from outsider ' s perspective. Some people can handle it and others cannot. Ok either way if you know yourself and can admit the truth
Smart to learn early if you can handle from outsider ' s perspective. Some people can handle it and others cannot. Ok either way if you know yourself and can admit the truth
Posted on 9/7/15 at 8:12 am to Skinner
Piihb
Posted on 9/7/15 at 8:18 am to Skinner
OP I'm 22 so I'll give you my POV:
My most recent ex was seeing someone on campus for her anxiety/depression/bipolar behavior (normal girl shite). She started acting more reclusive and by nature I don't like hanging out with people if I don't have to so I stayed in with her a lot.
She took an internship a few states away and would call me all the time crying about how shitty she felt. Then she started hanging out with her co workers a lot, which I saw coming. TL;DR she broke up with me because I was "boring" and didn't want to ever do anything besides frick and watching netflix. It's been 30 days and she already has a new boyfriend
Don't let her get you into a rut, she will use it against you. I've seen it happen and it happened to me when I let my guard down trying to be a good partner. It's a trap.
My most recent ex was seeing someone on campus for her anxiety/depression/bipolar behavior (normal girl shite). She started acting more reclusive and by nature I don't like hanging out with people if I don't have to so I stayed in with her a lot.
She took an internship a few states away and would call me all the time crying about how shitty she felt. Then she started hanging out with her co workers a lot, which I saw coming. TL;DR she broke up with me because I was "boring" and didn't want to ever do anything besides frick and watching netflix. It's been 30 days and she already has a new boyfriend
Don't let her get you into a rut, she will use it against you. I've seen it happen and it happened to me when I let my guard down trying to be a good partner. It's a trap.
Posted on 9/7/15 at 8:19 am to Skinner
Giving her anal orgasm improves depression.
Posted on 9/7/15 at 8:25 am to Old Money
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Don't let her get you into a rut, she will use it against you. I've seen it happen and it happened to me when I let my guard down trying to be a good partner. It's a trap.
You sound wise for a 22 year old. Sorry it had to happen to you, but it sounds like you've learned from it. It will serve you well in the future.
Posted on 9/7/15 at 8:28 am to Skinner
School just started back in the last month? Did she spend the summer back home? If so she probably misses her summer frick buddy.
Posted on 9/7/15 at 8:29 am to WeeWee
I graduated a few years ago. I had a girlfriend for most of college and that's always been a big regret. It's easy to say "dump her and go frick other women", but it's really what you need to do. People told me that and I didn't listen. Dumping her will suck, but you'll forget about it once you're balls deep in some freshman skank 3 days later.
This post was edited on 9/7/15 at 8:30 am
Posted on 9/7/15 at 8:32 am to Kel Varnsen
OP, tell her to get her thyroid check. Sounds like she might be hypo.
Posted on 9/7/15 at 8:35 am to WeeWee
Anal orgasms helped your depression?
Posted on 9/7/15 at 8:36 am to Skinner
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I dont get it because we used to go party all the time and I/her friends still invite her to but she just doesnt have any of it and just wants me to stay at home with her. I told her that she needed to find a reason to get up everymorning and she said she cant. So last night in bed I told her there are counselers on campus if she feels the need to go talk to one and her response was "I'm not crazy....I want you to leave". So I went home. What do I do?
You can only suggest. Depending on how long you've been with her, I'd eventually (say maybe another month) put an ultimatum out there that she needs to see someone or your gone pecan.
You have to be careful, you can only go down that rabbit hole with someone for so long before it really starts to get at you too. Some of my darkest times were when I was trying to pull someone out and had to listen/stop people from acting out thoughts of a sick brain.
Posted on 9/7/15 at 8:38 am to Old Money
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OP I'm 22 so I'll give you my POV:
Hit submit too quick.
Wise post on your part. You will move on quickly and prosper. In a few years you may want to write her a thank you note.
This post was edited on 9/7/15 at 8:40 am
Posted on 9/7/15 at 8:38 am to Mo Jeaux
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To the OP: never take advice on women from another woman.
This one thousand million percent.
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