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re: Forgiving the person you hate the most
Posted on 7/30/18 at 1:13 pm to toosleaux
Posted on 7/30/18 at 1:13 pm to toosleaux
Forgiveness is not forgetting about the wrong, or trusting that person again. It just means you aren't going to bring it up again and again to that person. Or focus on it. Its about letting it go.
You can forgive someone, and then cut them out of your life. that has worked well for me.
You can forgive someone, and then cut them out of your life. that has worked well for me.
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Posted on 7/30/18 at 1:16 pm to toosleaux
I'll forgive them after I set them on fire and hear them beg for the permission to die. Maybe not even then.
Posted on 7/30/18 at 1:17 pm to toosleaux
I never truly forgive anyone and always treat said person with suspicion from then on. Shitty character trait but I'm a shitty person apparently.
Posted on 7/30/18 at 1:18 pm to Tester1216
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Yes but it was a tough pill to swallow. I’m glad I did, it’s liberating. I think they still have issues with me but they’re just not there yet. I even now pray for this person.
What did they do to you if it's not too personal?
Posted on 7/30/18 at 1:18 pm to dupergreenie
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I'll forgive them after I set them on fire and hear them beg for the permission to die. Maybe not even then.
Posted on 7/30/18 at 1:47 pm to toosleaux
Unforgiveness is the poison I drink hoping you will die.
Forgiveness is a process, it also rarely starts with speaking this to the other person.
Choice not an emotion.
Forgiveness is a process, it also rarely starts with speaking this to the other person.
Choice not an emotion.
Posted on 7/30/18 at 1:48 pm to toosleaux
I’ve tried, but some people are too cowardly to meet people face to face. Too craven to even have a tete â tete.
Posted on 7/30/18 at 2:18 pm to stout
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I have had some things happen to me the past 4-5 years that have completely changed my perspective on life and with that came an apology tour.
Good for you for swallowing your pride. I'm sure it was tough to do.
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it amazes me the people that are in church every Sunday and claim to be Christian yet they are the biggest backstabbers I know
Church has become a joke, I agree.
Posted on 7/31/18 at 2:31 pm to toosleaux
Here’s a piece of advice my dad once gave me:
The naive forgive and forget
The stupid neither forgive nor forget
The wise forgive but NEVER forget
This has always served me well throughout my life.
The naive forgive and forget
The stupid neither forgive nor forget
The wise forgive but NEVER forget
This has always served me well throughout my life.
Posted on 7/31/18 at 2:34 pm to Del Devereaux
Once I turn his face into a bloody pool of hamburger meat I’ll consider forgiving him.
Posted on 7/31/18 at 3:01 pm to toosleaux
This is hard to do when the person never stops disrespecting you and it is someone you have to have contact with on a regular basis.
Posted on 7/31/18 at 5:12 pm to Celery
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How bout just forgive them in your own mind? You don’t actually have to tell them about it.
Bingo. “Anger corrodes the vessel it’s stored in.”
Posted on 7/31/18 at 5:49 pm to toosleaux
Resentments can ruin your life. Best lesson I ever learned was that there are some things I have no control over.
One practice I learned that helped me deal with a resentment was to pray for that person...that God would bless them. Pray for that person's well-being, even if you don't feel like it or mean it.
Commit to pray for the person you hate. Do it every day for 30 days.
I did this because my resentment for this person was unhealthy, and the people around me were beginning to feel the consequences of this resentment.
After 2 weeks my prayers became sincere. After 30 days my resentment was gone.
It's a spiritual solution.
One practice I learned that helped me deal with a resentment was to pray for that person...that God would bless them. Pray for that person's well-being, even if you don't feel like it or mean it.
Commit to pray for the person you hate. Do it every day for 30 days.
I did this because my resentment for this person was unhealthy, and the people around me were beginning to feel the consequences of this resentment.
After 2 weeks my prayers became sincere. After 30 days my resentment was gone.
It's a spiritual solution.
Posted on 7/31/18 at 5:53 pm to toosleaux
Nope, Two years later after the back stabbing I'm still planning his murder.
Posted on 7/31/18 at 5:54 pm to toosleaux
Forgiveness isn’t for the person you forgive, it’s for your self. Once you forgive someone, the weight is no longer on you.
Posted on 7/31/18 at 5:55 pm to toosleaux
A friend once said, "the best revenge is a life well lived."
Posted on 7/31/18 at 6:02 pm to toosleaux
Forgiveness is a conscious choice. It’s not like you feel good one day and then you say I forgive them. You have to work on it and actively tell yourself I’m letting go of all this resentment. It’s gets easier with time and afterwards you realize that you no longer feel anger and stress when you think of them. It’s definitely easier to forgive someone the less that person is in your life during that process. Less opportunities to take the easy route and get worked up, dredging up the old feeling and placing you in square one.
Posted on 7/31/18 at 6:55 pm to toosleaux
When you hold on to hate, you are giving that person you dislike immense control over your life.
Your life is too valuable to give them that hold over you.
Your life is too valuable to give them that hold over you.
Posted on 7/31/18 at 7:05 pm to toosleaux
Resentments are like drinking poison and hoping the other person dies
Posted on 7/31/18 at 7:29 pm to toosleaux
Keep your friends and family close to you, keep your enemies even closer.
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