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Forgiving the person you hate the most
Posted on 7/30/18 at 11:47 am
Posted on 7/30/18 at 11:47 am
Has anyone here done this? It has been recommended to me that forgiving the person I hate the most will provide relief of the aggression and frustration I feel with that person, although the thought of telling this person “I forgive you” makes me want to puke. Supposedly the forgiveness is for me, not them. Anyone tried this technique?
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Posted on 7/30/18 at 11:47 am to toosleaux
Nope, but I prob should.
Posted on 7/30/18 at 11:48 am to toosleaux
"Never hate your enemies. It affects your judgment."
Posted on 7/30/18 at 11:48 am to toosleaux
I’ll forgove that person once I piss on that persons grave
Posted on 7/30/18 at 11:48 am to toosleaux
gotta let go of things baw. don't let them drag you down.
Posted on 7/30/18 at 11:49 am to toosleaux
You spend a lot of energy on hatred and I'm recently guilty of the same.
Once you can bring yourself to realize that this person wronged you, you can't change it and you need to move on with your own life, then you will start to heal.
It sucks, but it's necessary to move past it. Good luck sir.
Once you can bring yourself to realize that this person wronged you, you can't change it and you need to move on with your own life, then you will start to heal.
It sucks, but it's necessary to move past it. Good luck sir.
Posted on 7/30/18 at 11:50 am to toosleaux
Forgive them no. Accept that they are dead to me and I don't speak to them, think about them, worry about what they are doing, yes.
Posted on 7/30/18 at 11:50 am to beerJeep
Oh shite.
Where is Rag planted?
I gotta go forgive all over it.
Where is Rag planted?
I gotta go forgive all over it.
Posted on 7/30/18 at 11:51 am to toosleaux
I can never forgive OP
Posted on 7/30/18 at 11:52 am to toosleaux
Yes but it was a tough pill to swallow. I’m glad I did, it’s liberating. I think they still have issues with me but they’re just not there yet. I even now pray for this person.
Posted on 7/30/18 at 11:52 am to toosleaux
I think the person I hate the most is dead.
So too late.
So too late.
Posted on 7/30/18 at 11:53 am to toosleaux
Forgiveness is for you. Not him/her. Remember that.
And yes...it can be done.
And yes...it can be done.
Posted on 7/30/18 at 11:54 am to toosleaux
Holding unforgiveness in your heart is like drinking poison and expecting someone else to die. Don’t remember the quote exactly. Let it go, for you! It’s a choice you make not a feeling.
Posted on 7/30/18 at 11:54 am to toosleaux
"forgiving" is the right word. because every footstep you take from now on in "forgiving"
there is no such thing as "forgave" in the past tense. you just can't forgive and it's over with at that moment.
this is how you must treat forgiveness in the beginning and make up your mind it is a daily thing, then magically one day it won't be a daily thing and then eventually it will be in the past.
there is no such thing as "forgave" in the past tense. you just can't forgive and it's over with at that moment.
this is how you must treat forgiveness in the beginning and make up your mind it is a daily thing, then magically one day it won't be a daily thing and then eventually it will be in the past.
Posted on 7/30/18 at 11:54 am to toosleaux
..background story?
Posted on 7/30/18 at 12:00 pm to DustyDinkleman
quote:This, times two.
I think the person I hate the most is dead.
Posted on 7/30/18 at 12:05 pm to toosleaux
Forgiving doesn't mean everything's okay between you. It doesn't mean you have to let them back into your life. It just means you've let go of the anger.
Posted on 7/30/18 at 12:06 pm to toosleaux
at one time or another over my 52 years there have surely been people I hated.
now I couldn’t begin to tell you who they were or why
let go of things you cannot do anything about, and of people that no longer affect you positively or negatively. You will find as you get older the number of people you truly give a shite about in any manner grows smaller and smaller and you are better off for that
now I couldn’t begin to tell you who they were or why
let go of things you cannot do anything about, and of people that no longer affect you positively or negatively. You will find as you get older the number of people you truly give a shite about in any manner grows smaller and smaller and you are better off for that
Posted on 7/30/18 at 12:07 pm to toosleaux
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Forgiving the person you hate the most
This is what the sermon was about on Sunday. It's not something I'm very good at.
Posted on 7/30/18 at 12:10 pm to toosleaux
I would never give an undeserving person forgiveness and don’t agree with it for the sake of one’s self because it’s not true and not worth the relief the other person may feel. There are ways to block things out
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