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re: For men going thru divorce in LA.- Just know Community Property is 50/50: Update Page 5.

Posted on 1/2/20 at 5:11 pm to
Posted by Lsupimp
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Posted on 1/2/20 at 5:11 pm to
The thing about “ not marrying a psycho “ is that a person might change a lot over a decade or two or three of marriage. Sometimes the CRAZY comes on over time . Either you or her . People unravel all the time.
Posted by PeteRose
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Posted on 1/2/20 at 5:15 pm to
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Try not marrying a psycho next time


Did Michael Jordan married a psycho? Tiger woods? Greg norman? Sometimes people just change over time so being crazy got nothing to do with it.

Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
41061 posts
Posted on 1/2/20 at 5:15 pm to
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Part of the theory of child support is so that your child doesn't live in poverty with one parent. I get that the Child Support Guidelines Louisiana uses are absolute shite, but if he's paying $1000 a month, he's probably making decent money or has several kids with her.



I completely understand the concept of child support, and yes, he makes good money (one child is his, the ex has other children from new man).

But the ex-wife could give their child 4th-generation hand down clothes and feed her beans and rice.

The ex wifes / baby mama should have to provide some sort of accounting to him of how she spent the money, IMHO
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53535 posts
Posted on 1/2/20 at 5:17 pm to
My buddy's ex wife became a millionaire after they divorced. She still busted his balls for that $850 per month of child support though.
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10734 posts
Posted on 1/2/20 at 5:18 pm to
Just curious, but when you married her was she exactly the same way she is now or did she magically change overnight???
Posted by GumplandTiger
Hoover, AL
Member since Jan 2015
1263 posts
Posted on 1/2/20 at 5:20 pm to
Just don’t get married, break up when you want. Make sure you know your laws for “common law” and you’ll never get screwed!!
Posted by BigB0882
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2014
5422 posts
Posted on 1/2/20 at 5:20 pm to
Finally, a plus for being gay. We both have expendable income, no kids, etc. Plus, neither one of us are vindictive women.
Posted by Lsupimp
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Posted on 1/2/20 at 5:21 pm to
Upvote.
Posted by Taurus
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Member since Feb 2015
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Posted on 1/2/20 at 5:21 pm to
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Sometimes people just change over time so being crazy got nothing to do with it.


Called menopause-usually happens in their 40's, maybe early 50's. Men beware, it's the devil incarnate. You will not know the woman you married for at least a year or maybe ever again. Happens w/ the quickness! Her head may just spin all the way around before your eyes.
Posted by Elleshoe
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Posted on 1/2/20 at 5:21 pm to
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This thread is boucoup trashy


So is using the word “boucoup” and not speaking French
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
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Posted on 1/2/20 at 5:23 pm to
In 1970, my father was ordered to pay $200 per month child support. He later “nicely” increased it to $250 per month —not sure how old I was when he did but it stayed $250 until I was 18.

That didn’t come close to being what he should have paid by my mother refused to deal with him. He was a lawyer and CPA and did quite well.

Thank goodness my step father (my daddy) loved me like his own and willingly did what a “father” should do without ever saying a word about it or about me not being “his”.

Some people are just assholes. I went to dinner with my real father at dinner one time when I was in college and the meal was equivalent to that $250. Yes now as an adult and parent, I get pissed when I think about it.
This post was edited on 1/2/20 at 5:33 pm
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53535 posts
Posted on 1/2/20 at 5:24 pm to
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Finally, a plus for being gay. We both have expendable income, no kids, etc. Plus, neither one of us are vindictive women.

The first time I saw a set of tits in a movie at about 9-10 yrs old I knew that I wanted to see a lot more of them. Half of my shite could be the cost
Posted by Taurus
Loozianna
Member since Feb 2015
4955 posts
Posted on 1/2/20 at 5:28 pm to
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Just curious, but when you married her was she exactly the same way she is now or did she magically change overnight???


Big change, I asked her to see her doc (female), the doc knew what was going on and gave her meds to help her thru menopause, but she stopped taking meds after about 2 months and refused to go see her doc again. Complete off the rails change.
This post was edited on 1/2/20 at 5:29 pm
Posted by Bedhog
Denham Springs
Member since Apr 2019
3741 posts
Posted on 1/2/20 at 5:31 pm to
She is entitled to half of your retirement as well
Posted by swamplynx
Lake Chuck
Member since Oct 2014
1277 posts
Posted on 1/2/20 at 5:34 pm to
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The ex wifes / baby mama should have to provide some sort of accounting to him of how she spent the money, IMHO


Hit enter too quick,

Louisiana does provide for the accounting of child support. I've never seen it done before, but take a look at Revised Statute 9:312. If he's got good cause to ask for it, she'd have to provide an accounting. There are penalties for frivolous filings, etc.
This post was edited on 1/2/20 at 5:39 pm
Posted by Globetrotter747
Member since Sep 2017
5688 posts
Posted on 1/2/20 at 5:36 pm to
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The thing about “ not marrying a psycho “ is that a person might change a lot over a decade or two or three of marriage

Or they might just hide who they really are until they know they have a firm grip on your bank account.
Posted by DaTroof
Louisiana
Member since Jun 2015
992 posts
Posted on 1/2/20 at 5:47 pm to
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I'm amazed at men in this state that bow down to threats of their ex over financial control. 50/50


I'm amazed that so many men are so eager to enter into what amounts to a business contract whereby whenever she's ready to leave she gets half your shite plus lives comfortably off of alimony and child support while 'finding herself' with Dae'quan and the squad
Posted by SCLibertarian
Conway, South Carolina
Member since Aug 2013
42143 posts
Posted on 1/2/20 at 5:48 pm to
For every 1 guy that's a dbag like your father, there are 10 good guys who are ruined because courts are requiring men pay glorified prostitutes obscene amounts of money that very rarely go to those for whom it's intended (the children).
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
33511 posts
Posted on 1/2/20 at 5:52 pm to
Sorry your wife cheated on you baw
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
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Posted on 1/2/20 at 5:54 pm to
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