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re: Feels great to not have kids

Posted on 8/9/19 at 11:02 am to
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
19897 posts
Posted on 8/9/19 at 11:02 am to
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It's not like a kid is a car or house and the newness wears off after a few weeks or months.. its a human being


Wait they're not? frick, I was planning on trading in my 2.5 year old for the newer model before he hits 3
Posted by Howyouluhdat
On Fleek St
Member since Jan 2015
9188 posts
Posted on 8/9/19 at 11:02 am to
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You're right. Everyone should have unlimited children that they have no desire to take care of.



Once you have a child it will change you unless you are just a complete POS with no desire to take care of a little human being that looks just like you
Posted by EarlyCuyler3
Appalachia
Member since Nov 2017
27290 posts
Posted on 8/9/19 at 11:03 am to
Shoot the girl I was trying to get to go on a date with me said her mom is on her constantly about kids. And she's only 29. Seems like it starts pretty early.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 8/9/19 at 11:05 am to
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Once you have a child it will change you


I'm sure he would do what he needed to do in that situation to be a good parent.

However, how hard is it for others to understand that some people simply have no desire whatsoever to go this route.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
61530 posts
Posted on 8/9/19 at 11:05 am to
Ehh... 29 really isn’t that young for a woman
Posted by stapuffmarshy
lower 9
Member since Apr 2010
17507 posts
Posted on 8/9/19 at 11:05 am to
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Once you have a child


Well I planned not to and it worked as far as I know.

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take care of a little human being that looks just like you


Posted by Janky
Team Primo
Member since Jun 2011
35957 posts
Posted on 8/9/19 at 11:06 am to
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stapuffmarshy


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Well I planned not to


Please don't.
Posted by cattus
Member since Jan 2009
16056 posts
Posted on 8/9/19 at 11:11 am to
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all these people who "love" being single would become pussy-whipped in a thanos-second if a female gave them the time of day.
I don't have a dad bod like you probably do.
I say that because we're the same age(we've talked 70s toys) and 4 kids ages you and I also stay fit. Still dating women in their 20s & 30s and it's not because I have money. I'll get a shite ton of downvotes but trying to make a point. I swear kids age you, my friends with kids look 10/15 years older than me.
Posted by Mike da Tigah
Bravo Romeo Lima Alpha
Member since Feb 2005
61883 posts
Posted on 8/9/19 at 11:11 am to
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all these people who "love" being single would become pussy-whipped in a thanos-second if a female gave them the time of day. funny stuff


Such complete horseshite.

Ive been married, single, and hit more than my fair share of tail over the course of my life, and I honestly prefer single, but it’s not because I can’t find tail. It’s because I don’t want the drama in my life, and I enjoy a quality of life that nagging and drama would destroy. I date occasionally, but nothing serious. Now, if the right woman came along that wanted to build a relationship without all that nonsense, I’d perhaps change my tune, but I haven’t found one yet, and not really worried about it anymore to be quite honest with you. It lost it’s luster. I have an arse load of friends, make friends really easily, and am very comfortable in my own skin.

Marriage isn’t for everyone, and neither is having kids. Contrary to many on here, life is not about being alone or being with someone, or having kids, as all can be lonely, but it’s about finding a quality of life that fits for you, and living your life, because it only comes once. You have the choice to enjoy it or waste it. It’s all up to you.






Posted by mdomingue
Lafayette, LA
Member since Nov 2010
48586 posts
Posted on 8/9/19 at 11:11 am to
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Feels great to be kid free



It's even better for the rest of us that you have not procreated.
Posted by MarkFromBuffalo
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2018
624 posts
Posted on 8/9/19 at 11:12 am to
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This post was edited on 8/13/19 at 9:31 am
Posted by stapuffmarshy
lower 9
Member since Apr 2010
17507 posts
Posted on 8/9/19 at 11:26 am to
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I have an arse load of friends, make friends really easily, and am very comfortable in my own skin.

Marriage isn’t for everyone, and neither is having kids. Contrary to many on here, life is not about being alone or being with someone, or having kids, as all can be lonely, but it’s about finding a quality of life that fits for you, and living your life, because it only comes once. You have the choice to enjoy it or waste it. It’s all up to you.


Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
45520 posts
Posted on 8/9/19 at 11:28 am to
I hope you’ve at least had the chance to sleep with a pregnant woman.

If not, have you really even lived?
Posted by Howyouluhdat
On Fleek St
Member since Jan 2015
9188 posts
Posted on 8/9/19 at 11:32 am to
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how hard is it for others to understand that some people simply have no desire whatsoever to go this route.



It's very hard to understand how someone wouldn't want to experience the best thing they have ever in their life seen and that is the birth of a human being you created and seeing them for the first time and looking them in the eyes and you just immediately have an instant connection like no other in your life. That's some fricking special shite. I can understand people not being ready at certain points in their life but to never want to experience that ever, well your just a selfish POS.
Posted by HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Member since Jul 2011
33741 posts
Posted on 8/9/19 at 11:35 am to
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I’ve been away on business all week. The thing I looked forward to the most was getting home to see my kids.

Supported 10,000%
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 8/9/19 at 11:36 am to
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but to never want to experience that ever, well your just a selfish POS.




So Mother Teresa was a selfish POS?

Is that what you are saying?
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
33054 posts
Posted on 8/9/19 at 11:38 am to
You've used her as an example multiple times. It's a shitty false comparison.

She didn't live any aspect of her life selfishly...
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
94675 posts
Posted on 8/9/19 at 11:38 am to
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Still dating women in their 20s & 30s and it's not because I have money.

my wife just turned 35 and shes
Posted by Thib-a-doe Tiger
Member since Nov 2012
36799 posts
Posted on 8/9/19 at 11:39 am to
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worry about spending extra money on another being





What’s it like to be this broke?
Posted by Mike da Tigah
Bravo Romeo Lima Alpha
Member since Feb 2005
61883 posts
Posted on 8/9/19 at 11:41 am to
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It's very hard to understand how someone wouldn't want to experience the best thing they have ever in their life seen and that is the birth of a human being you created and seeing them for the first time and looking them in the eyes and you just immediately have an instant connection like no other in your life. That's some fricking special shite. I can understand people not being ready at certain points in their life but to never want to experience that ever, well your just a selfish POS.


Everything you just stated was from a point of personal gain, or what you get out of it, but let’s be clear here, there are millions of selfish POS human beings who have kids and neglect them for their own POS agendas. Our current society in large part is a mirror reflection of all of that. Having kids does not mean you aren’t just as capable of being a selfish POS.
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