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re: Etiquette; Texting your boss on a Sunday evening saying you won’t be at work Monday

Posted on 2/22/26 at 2:36 pm to
Posted by GeauxtigersMs36
The coast
Member since Jan 2018
13238 posts
Posted on 2/22/26 at 2:36 pm to
I’d call.
Posted by WestCoastAg
Member since Oct 2012
150143 posts
Posted on 2/22/26 at 2:36 pm to
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also used to favor employees who could be counted on to show up for work over those who routinely called in sick and used up every hour of earned sick leave. frick them slackasses.
Posted by NIH
Member since Aug 2008
122867 posts
Posted on 2/22/26 at 2:50 pm to
He isn’t actually a boss if that isn’t obvious
Posted by andwesway
Zachary, LA
Member since Jun 2016
3392 posts
Posted on 2/22/26 at 2:53 pm to
I always wait until the morning of before emailing or texting them. They have lives on the weekend too.
Posted by Bard
Definitely NOT an admin
Member since Oct 2008
59280 posts
Posted on 2/22/26 at 4:05 pm to
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He isn’t actually a boss if that isn’t obvious




Duly noted for his PIP.
Posted by atxfan
Member since Jul 2004
4196 posts
Posted on 2/22/26 at 4:20 pm to
Tell him you have diarrhea. The excuse is undefeated.
Posted by RockinDood
Member since Aug 2020
1107 posts
Posted on 2/22/26 at 4:54 pm to
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I put a guy on a PIP for calling in multiple times for various reasons like dog being sick, him being ‘sick’…. Wahh wahh wahh old man yells at cloud how dare someone have priorities outside of work wahh wahh what about MEEEEEEEE!?


If the dude has PTO, then those hours are part of his compensation package and he can take them whenever he wants. As long as it’s within the boundaries of whatever operational agreement is in place regarding the scheduling of said hours you can’t do shite about it, and frankly you shouldn’t. Especially if he’s already made arrangements to take care of whatever pending bullshite busy work lower-middle management has cooked up for him to do because they are trying to justify their existence.

Now, making his life hell after or earmarking him as a “problem” and making it harder for him to move up because you think taking off work for any reason sucks… well you CAN do that, however it can be considered retaliatory and then it’s your arse on the chopping block and not his. Whoopsie.

A lot of you tough talking boss-babes forget that people don’t quit jobs they quit managers. Y’all bitch that you can’t find any good employees but you run all the good ones off because they can find better prospects elsewhere without having to deal with your petty bullshite. Probably for more money.
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
84725 posts
Posted on 2/22/26 at 4:59 pm to
Y’all ever text a dick pic to your boss? As a joke
Posted by nola tiger lsu
Member since Nov 2007
7379 posts
Posted on 2/22/26 at 7:37 pm to
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Get your lazy arse to work


Exactly. Kid is sick is a garbage excuse.
Posted by Oates Mustache
Member since Oct 2011
26630 posts
Posted on 2/22/26 at 7:45 pm to
If you're sick, why wouldn't it be ok?
Posted by Pendulum
Member since Jan 2009
8058 posts
Posted on 2/22/26 at 7:53 pm to
Depends, are you a guy that misses monday often? Wait until tomorrow morning. Are you not? Then text them now.

Youre probably in a more critical role if the latter is true anyway.
This post was edited on 2/22/26 at 7:54 pm
Posted by tigerbutt
Deep South
Member since Jun 2006
26332 posts
Posted on 2/22/26 at 10:15 pm to
Suck it up buttercup
Posted by TigerBait2008
Boulder,CO
Member since Jun 2008
40491 posts
Posted on 2/23/26 at 12:29 am to
Youre a fricking burger flipper bro..
Posted by Gee Grenouille
Member since Jul 2018
8060 posts
Posted on 2/23/26 at 4:50 am to
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He’s paid a salary to be available on Monday. Even if not in a critical role, he is an employee and critical to some project or task he is working on. Calling in sick lets his team and everyone around him down. If this is a habit (more than once), then he’d be better off finding a job he gets Mondays off. If not showing up without proper notice/planning isn’t a big deal, then maybe his role isn’t a big deal and can be eliminated. FYI, your boss has a boss he answers too, and these are the types of questions they (me) ask that he’ll need to come up with an answer for. That’s 3-4 levels of personnel having to take time out of the day just because you’ve shown you can’t manage your own life as an adult.


Can you please put the same rigor into answering the other question you were asked


“Didn’t you steal from academy”
Posted by baldona
Florida
Member since Feb 2016
24213 posts
Posted on 2/23/26 at 5:32 am to
If it’s a salaried role and non critical for the day, why would you text your boss on a Sunday? Why not send an email?

If it’s urgent enough to send on a Sunday then it is critical enough and should be considered.

If someone has kids and never misses work due to them, that great, but that’s a flag to me also they are a shite parent
Posted by Sus-Scrofa
Member since Feb 2013
11068 posts
Posted on 2/23/26 at 5:36 am to
How often is someone really so sick they can’t go in to work? That’s the bar that has moved over the years.

I bet in most workplaces, sick absences aren’t evenly distributed among the employees.

If you have sick days, use them, but don’t be shocked when you become the “he’s sick again” guy.
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
Cajun Navy Vice Admiral
Member since Oct 2012
41092 posts
Posted on 2/23/26 at 5:52 am to
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Y’all ever text a dick pic to your boss? As a joke


As a joke? No.
Posted by TaderSalad
mudbug territory
Member since Jul 2014
26443 posts
Posted on 2/23/26 at 6:00 am to
Is your boss going to think twice about texting you on the weekend? if not, then fire off the text.

If he's considerate and you never hear from him on the weekend, why not just send him an email?


Also, who's going to fix the ice cream machine today?
Posted by NBR_Exile
Houston via Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
2079 posts
Posted on 2/23/26 at 6:03 am to
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What’s the etiquette here? Is it acceptable to text your boss on a Sunday evening (if that’s your form of communication you use) if you won’t be at work Monday due to being sick or your kid(s) sick and has to miss school? What do you guys do?


I ran a small but vital team. Sure I had some upper management that was technically my boss. But I was free to run my department as my own. So I would call my second guy. Tell him what needed to be done. Probably call a client or salesperson to give them a heads up as well. I would likely text the plant president and let him know my underling was in control for the day.

ETA: we had an Online HR system for all employees to use for time off. So I would just log on and mark myself as off.
This post was edited on 2/23/26 at 6:07 am
Posted by redstick13
Lower Saxony
Member since Feb 2007
40880 posts
Posted on 2/23/26 at 6:10 am to
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How often is someone really so sick they can’t go in to work? That’s the bar that has moved over the years.


Well now that just depends on how hard that hockey gold medal was celebrated.
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