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re: Equal time post: Check in if your wife is awesome and you love being married

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Posted by Huck Finn
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2009
2567 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 11:27 am to
Today's our 17th anniversary, actually!
She's pretty awesome, but I want to just give it another 50 years or so to see if she's really as great as I thought.
Posted by Future LSU Tiger
Member since Jan 2024
31 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 11:28 am to
Most long term marriages are due to the following.

Low expectations, at least by one spouse.
One person allowing themselves to be a doormat.
One person that is oblivious to their partners infidelity.

Basically one spouse that is naive/innocent and doesn't know that their spouse cheats, makes everything about the other spouse, allows themselves to be the doormat without realizing that they are being treated like a doormat.
Pretty much marriages that last is where one spouse is a selfish ahole & the other spouse is a giver.

This post was edited on 1/5/24 at 11:33 am
Posted by HeartAttackTiger
Member since Sep 2009
541 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 11:31 am to
quote:

Check in if your wife is awesome and you love being married


Here Here!
Posted by CHEDBALLZ
South Central LA
Member since Dec 2009
23046 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 5:07 pm to
I love my wife, I really do and I live neing married. She works hard and makes great money, keeps a good house, is fun to talk too, gives up the boody and even initiates pretty regualry and is a wonderful mother to our kids. However, this is my first and last wife.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
72585 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 5:13 pm to
<——We just made 40 years of being exclusive.

#winning
Posted by TutHillTiger
Mississippi Alabama
Member since Sep 2010
49830 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 5:15 pm to
30 years in a few days. If you think I am bad on here imagine the shite she puts up with me
Posted by RazorBroncs
Possesses the largest
Member since Sep 2013
15748 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 5:24 pm to
quote:

Most long term marriages are due to the following.

Low expectations, at least by one spouse.
One person allowing themselves to be a doormat.
One person that is oblivious to their partners infidelity.

Basically one spouse that is naive/innocent and doesn't know that their spouse cheats, makes everything about the other spouse, allows themselves to be the doormat without realizing that they are being treated like a doormat.
Pretty much marriages that last is where one spouse is a selfish ahole & the other spouse is a giver.






Just because you're a shitty person and failure as a man doesn't mean the rest of us are.

Sorry she cheated on you, but you seem like you deserved it. That's an angry "doormat in the relationship" post if I've ever seen one.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
17298 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 5:24 pm to
Congrats
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
17298 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 5:29 pm to
quote:

One person that is oblivious to their partners infidelity.


I don't care how long you havent played tetherball with your wife's clit, she can be horny as all get out, cheating is a lack of respect. Plain and simple.

I've never seen or even heard of a man who had
the respect of his wife being cheated on.
Posted by Chief Hinge
There and Here
Member since Sep 2018
3183 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 5:33 pm to
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Hey baby.
Posted by Auburn1968
NYC
Member since Mar 2019
24916 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 5:48 pm to
My 3rd wife (Korean) and I have been together for 20 years and we are still like to teenagers in love.

I'm 77 and she's 52, but we both look way younger than we are. People think I'm 50 something and she got carded at a liquor store a few months back.
Posted by 3nOut
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Jan 2013
31703 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 5:51 pm to
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90% of the time, yes


This.

I love my wife deeply but I also have moments where I’m “FTS, it’s not worth it.”

Those are short and intrusive thoughts but easily shakeable.

It’s way better than the alternative.
Posted by Auburn1968
NYC
Member since Mar 2019
24916 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 5:51 pm to
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Mines an absolute count on wheels for one week per month.

Question for the older baws but does it better after menopause??


Menopause has some serious mood swings, but they tend to be fleeting with a little TLC.
Posted by terd ferguson
Darren Wilson Fan Club President
Member since Aug 2007
113788 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 5:52 pm to
Posted by terd ferguson
Darren Wilson Fan Club President
Member since Aug 2007
113788 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 5:54 pm to
quote:

My 3rd wife (Korean)
quote:

I'm 77 and she's 52


Tell me you were in the Army and stationed overseas without telling me you were in the Army and stationed overseas...
Posted by makinskrilla
Lafayette, LA
Member since Jun 2009
9752 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 5:54 pm to
I don’t believe you
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
61233 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 5:58 pm to
Posted by Auburn1968
NYC
Member since Mar 2019
24916 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 5:59 pm to
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In July, my wife and I will be married 52 years. Are we perfect? No. Were there rough spots? Yep. Are there still, sometimes? For sure. But I cherish my wife and our years together, and wouldn’t change us for the world.


Nothing I like more than seeing an old couple holding hands and clearly still in love.

Posted by SteelerBravesDawg
Member since Sep 2020
43337 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 5:59 pm to
Checking in.

Been together for 23 years in April and will be married for 20 in October.

I am blessed to have one of the good ones.
This post was edited on 1/5/24 at 6:01 pm
Posted by Auburn1968
NYC
Member since Mar 2019
24916 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 6:18 pm to
quote:

quote:
My 3rd wife (Korean)
quote:
I'm 77 and she's 52


Tell me you were in the Army and stationed overseas without telling me you were in the Army and stationed overseas...



My limited business partner of 10 years was a talented Korean girl who introduced me. I was on the tail end of my second marriage after a decade of low level depression. My son finished college which I didn't want to disrupt and I waited until then.

The Seekers, "I'll Never Find Another You."

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A7q40ca0LgU

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