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re: Engaged but second guessing getting married- advice
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:33 am to Tigerfan56
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:33 am to Tigerfan56
quote:
Has anyone every had similar thoughts or experiences and what happened?
Please don't anchor yourself to a life where you arent going to feel free. Right now you have no kids and complete freedom. Dont frick it up.
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Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:33 am to wheelr
Yep develop that out of the rut skill now
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:34 am to Tigerfan56
I'm assuming this is a troll job but if not, get out now. You need to move out and go plow as many chics as possible on the down low. We are talking a town or two over. Right now, it doesn't seem meant to be. If when you are done quietly sowing your oats she is still available and she is still interested in you, then you can earn her back. If she finds out you have been slamming a chic 40 minutes down the road you are fricked. If you are smart and wet your pecker without drawing attention to yourself, then you can satisfy your want for some strange without it ever being an issue in climbing back into her good graces. If you stick it out though and get married, don't be a pussy and regret not handling your business. If she is as great as you say she is, then you probably owe her that. In short, man up one way or another.
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:34 am to Tigerfan56
quote:Make her pregnant with a man child and she can move to Arkansas and take it the rest of the way from there with the boy.
She would be a great wife and mother.
Or, flip a coin.
That's always a great way to make important life decisions.
This post was edited on 1/15/17 at 11:35 am
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:34 am to CommunityCollegeFTW
quote:sometimes you have to level the yard and lay new sod
"The grass isn't always greener on the other side, it's greener where you water it"
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:35 am to biggsc
If overall she's your best friend and you are concerned that things are getting stale, get used to it. I always said, "Jesus could walk off a cloud and give me my pick of a woman and within one year, you'd be tired of the same ole same ole". Marriage is way more than sexual. If you're young, it's hard to understand because sex is such a big part of your life but the older you get, the less important that will be. What is really important is what every personal ad asks for. Everybody wants someone with "a sense of humor". When you get older, that's way more important than sex. You'll need someone on the same page and what you describe, you already have. If you're worried about always thinking about "strange", get used to it. It's normal. Whether or not you act on it is up to you. Remember when you were out looking for the right match. There is a lot of junk out there. 90% of the women in the world don't meet your expectations. If you have one that does, make the best of it. I was married the first time for 19 years. Played the field and screwed it up because I always though of "strange" and acted on it. Regret it every day. Life is more than just naked women and wet towels. Think of all your past sexual escapades. More will rank up there as "just another piece". Nothing special. Don't lose perspective. If you have a good woman and you have 90% of what you need with her and your family gets along with her, keep her and work on yourself. She probably has the same reservations about you as you do her. Remember, no woman has the market cornered on crazy. Hope this helps.
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:36 am to SuperSaint
quote:
bruhhhhhh
I was being sarcastic in a way
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:36 am to Tigerfan56
Don't jump this broom
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:37 am to Hester Carries
quote:bruhhhh
I think they forget that there isnt a drive thru window for pussy.
Have you old lame married folk not heard of bumble and tinder?
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:39 am to Tigerfan56
If you want kids, stick with her. She sounds like you pair well with her. No kids, then there is no reason to marry this day and time. It is an outdated practice.
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:40 am to Popths
quote:
If overall she's your best friend and you are concerned that things are getting stale, get used to it. I always said, "Jesus could walk off a cloud and give me my pick of a woman and within one year, you'd be tired of the same ole same ole". Marriage is way more than sexual. If you're young, it's hard to understand because sex is such a big part of your life but the older you get, the less important that will be. What is really important is what every personal ad asks for. Everybody wants someone with "a sense of humor". When you get older, that's way more important than sex. You'll need someone on the same page and what you describe, you already have. If you're worried about always thinking about "strange", get used to it. It's normal. Whether or not you act on it is up to you. Remember when you were out looking for the right match. There is a lot of junk out there. 90% of the women in the world don't meet your expectations. If you have one that does, make the best of it. I was married the first time for 19 years. Played the field and screwed it up because I always though of "strange" and acted on it. Regret it every day. Life is more than just naked women and wet towels. Think of all your past sexual escapades. More will rank up there as "just another piece". Nothing special. Don't lose perspective. If you have a good woman and you have 90% of what you need with her and your family gets along with her, keep her and work on yourself. She probably has the same reservations about you as you do her. Remember, no woman has the market cornered on crazy. Hope this helps.
Holy shite I think this is the best advice I've ever seen on here
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:41 am to jimmy the leg
quote:why would it be any of her business who he sticks his dick in while they aren't in a committed relationship??? Some people put way too much stock in sex and who someone decides to frick while single.
If you are smart and wet your pecker without drawing attention to yourself, then you can satisfy your want for some strange without it ever being an issue in climbing back into her good graces.
None of her business and also not any o his concern how many miles of dick is jammed down her turd-cutter then throat when they are broken up.
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:45 am to thelawnwranglers
Some women are predisposed to a stale existence, even if they seem to like being adventurous early on. Other women love adventure and grabbing life by the balls no matter how many kids they have. If the OP has found the second type, then go for it. But from hearing his concerns it sounds like he has not.
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:45 am to Tigerfan56
quote:
set to get married in September
NO FALL WEDDINGS!!!
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:50 am to Tigerfan56
You're basing this on what life will be like WITH her.
Think about what your life would be WITHOUT her.
If you can see yourself being happy without her, call it off.
Think about what your life would be WITHOUT her.
If you can see yourself being happy without her, call it off.
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:53 am to Popths
quote:OK, agreed, I'm with you
Life is more than just naked women...
quote:
...and wet towels.
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:55 am to Tigerfan56
Tell her this then ask her if its cool if you go around banging other chicks so you can be 100% sure before getting hitched to her.
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:57 am to Tigerfan56
Sad to say, but for her sake, you should call it off.
I think everyone has these kinds of thoughts at times, but if they are that serious at this stage, it is probably best to call it off.
Marriage just simply isn't for everyone.
I think everyone has these kinds of thoughts at times, but if they are that serious at this stage, it is probably best to call it off.
Marriage just simply isn't for everyone.
Posted on 1/15/17 at 12:02 pm to Lester Earl
quote:
If it doesn't work just get divorced
Sans half your shite, legal fees, and alimony.
Posted on 1/15/17 at 12:12 pm to Tigerfan56
You are not ready to get married.
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