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re: Engaged but second guessing getting married- advice
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:19 am to gorillacoco
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:19 am to gorillacoco
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How old are you? If either of you is under 25, you statistically have a much higher chance of divorce.
I'm 26. Most of the advice in this thread are the things that have been going through my mind. "Get out now bc of these thoughts or I'll regret it someday" and also "I love her, I'm just having cold feet. I know she'd be a great wife".
I don't know if I'm just having one of those "grass is always greener" cold feet moments or if it's a serious indication I'm not ready and would be making a mistake
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Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:21 am to Tigerfan56
You are never not going to at least thing about strange ocassionally imho
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:23 am to Tigerfan56
Don't marry her unless she makes more money than you and will make more for the duration of your marriage.
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:25 am to Tigerfan56
True or False
A real man can romance a woman over and over for a lifetime?
Are you real or are you faux.
A real man can romance a woman over and over for a lifetime?
Are you real or are you faux.
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:26 am to Tigerfan56
she can do better than you
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:26 am to Tigerfan56
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"grass is always greener"
"The grass isn't always greener on the other side, it's greener where you water it"
Talk to her about how you're feeling. Not necessarily the cold feet, but about how you want to get some of that excitement back.
ETA: If you don't already know this, from a psychological perspective, there is more than one stage of love. The romantic 'butterfly' feeling you get at first fades eventually. That's romantic love. You're now in the committed love stage. Many people confuse this as falling out of love, when in reality it's just a psychological shift. Committed love is "a willingness to find joy and share in an ordinary life together"
This post was edited on 1/15/17 at 11:32 am
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:27 am to Tigerfan56
Everybody goes through this. The big question about staleness is are you getting stale? You coming home everyday and watching TV while she cooks dinner or you trying to do some fun stuff together? Also by living together you've already gone through the honeymoon stage. You are already a married couple. C'mon break out of the rut and do some fun shite together.
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:27 am to Tigerfan56
Don't get married
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:28 am to Tigerfan56
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Been engaged for 4 months, set to get married in September.
Are you crazy??? A wedding during football season? Call it off!!
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:28 am to Tigerfan56
Thread worthless without pictures of her
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:28 am to CommunityCollegeFTW
Weekend trip just say a little get away before wedding. See if it fire things up. If not tell you want prenup let her break it off lol
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:28 am to SuperSaint
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You come across as a teenager, why would he listen to you? I can't imagine you have any real world advice
You are a poor judge of character. Why would I give advice like that without experience? Seriously, if it's stale now, wait 10 years. my relationship wasn't stale when we got married, but it certainly has become that. Children changes women into something completely different from what you knew. The best way to not fall into this situation is to find a wife in your (and her) 30's.
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:30 am to Tigerfan56
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There are times when I'm certain I want to marry her, and others when I think I should call it off
Welcome to every day for the rest of your life regardless of who you choose to be with and for how long.
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:30 am to Honky Lips
Lol relationship found in 30s can also get stale.
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:30 am to Tigerfan56
If it doesn't work just get divorced
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:30 am to Tigerfan56
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Sometimes I just want to be free again, to be able to hook up with other women.
Committed guys say this all the time. I think they forget that there isnt a drive thru window for pussy.
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:31 am to Tigerfan56
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Sometimes I just want to be free again, to be able to hook up with other women
Said every married man ever
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:32 am to Tigerfan56
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Things just have gotten stale, no more excitement.
C'mon man. This is easy to fix. Step out of the routine sometimes.
Go out of town for the weekend. Go road trip somewhere new. Create new memories together.
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:32 am to Tigerfan56
Playing married before married and you are surprised at staleness. Would suggest you consider staying engaged but live apart and see where it goes
Posted on 1/15/17 at 11:32 am to wheelr
quote:let her stick her finger up your butt
C'mon man. This is easy to fix. Step out of the routine sometimes.
Go out of town for the weekend. Go road trip somewhere new. Create new memories together.
its worked for others
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