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re: Dudes dropping out of dating game.

Posted on 1/4/24 at 9:53 am to
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
58897 posts
Posted on 1/4/24 at 9:53 am to
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women want a "$100k minimum" salary because they want to travel the IG lifestyle, have a big house, get champagne every weekend, have 5 streaming services, a new cell phone every month, etc.
little do they know, 100k doesn't get you much of that anymore
Posted by diat150
Louisiana
Member since Jun 2005
47172 posts
Posted on 1/4/24 at 9:54 am to
I think I married the last sane white woman.

if I was a young white man now I think more than ever you need to be outgoing and stand out. Take some dance lessons, get your confidence up, dress nice, travel to some international destinations alone. I dont think looks or height matter as much as being engaging and interesting. You arent going to become interesting playing video games all night. women want what they see on social media so you better be able to give them a good time. the days of women wanting the normal average white guy just because he was at the top of the food chain economically are done.

you have to put yourself out there its not just going to come to you.
This post was edited on 1/4/24 at 9:56 am
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
295355 posts
Posted on 1/4/24 at 9:55 am to
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Insecure dudes, no matter their real worth, will always struggle or quit. Don’t do that.


Lack of competitive drive.
Posted by dgnx6
Member since Feb 2006
85659 posts
Posted on 1/4/24 at 9:59 am to
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Lack of competitive drive.


Male toxicity.

What? You expect women to have to compete with men in the workforce? What are you are misogynist?

Then play on repeat for 60 years.

Posted by chinhoyang
Member since Jun 2011
25568 posts
Posted on 1/4/24 at 10:04 am to
Too many young men do not have any game.

If you have a great sense of humor and a personality that appeals to women, why can't you have success dating not using some app?
Posted by Hetfield
Dallas
Member since Jun 2013
9176 posts
Posted on 1/4/24 at 10:07 am to
Wrong. Height is one of the most important aspects for a man with the women of today unfortunately. If you are not a man that is at least 6 foot tall now, good luck to you & prayers. Ask any woman & she will agree with this. They have no idea that men 6 foot & taller are only about 16% of all men today nor do they care. They think they deserve one.
This post was edited on 1/4/24 at 10:12 am
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
295355 posts
Posted on 1/4/24 at 10:07 am to
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Too many young men do not have any game.


Yeah, the chase is the better part of the game.

Most women dont really want the shite they post on social media. Dont give up based on the advertising.

If you have moderate looks, personality you'll find some success as long as youre not a weenie.

Posted by diat150
Louisiana
Member since Jun 2005
47172 posts
Posted on 1/4/24 at 10:08 am to
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Wrong. Height is one of the most important aspects for a man with the women of today unfortunately. If you are not man that is at least 6 foot tall now, good luck to you & prayers. Ask any woman & she will agree with this. They have no idea that men 6 foot & taller are only about 16% of all men today nor do they care. They think they deserve one.




frick i am glad i am 6'3 when i stand on my wallet.
Posted by LSU Grad Alabama Fan
369 Cardboard Box Lane
Member since Nov 2019
13898 posts
Posted on 1/4/24 at 10:08 am to
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If you have a great sense of humor and a personality that appeals to women, why can't you have success dating not using some app?


What part of the story did you miss? Those are guys women want to frick in their 20s and not marry, dumb arse.
Posted by Earnest_P
Member since Aug 2021
5063 posts
Posted on 1/4/24 at 10:09 am to
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Men at the tip-top of the dating pool get everything. And the men who don’t have it all get nothing.


Sexual Power in Utopia

This has been predicted. The modern harem, populated by delusional women who don’t realize their “power” is the instrument of their own bitterness and waste and if unchecked will ultimately lead to the complete re-subjugation of women. Unless of course the robots save them, which seems to be where we are headed.

Posted by Ribbed
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2023
2745 posts
Posted on 1/4/24 at 10:15 am to
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Such lazy “journalism”. Those men she lists as alpha are only so when it comes to $$$.

Feminine imperative. It's better than self describing as a whore.
Posted by Wally Sparks
Atlanta
Member since Feb 2013
32422 posts
Posted on 1/4/24 at 10:20 am to
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I think I married the last sane white woman.


Are you sure I didn't?
Posted by drexyl
Mingovia
Member since Sep 2005
23323 posts
Posted on 1/4/24 at 10:24 am to
These are low value women. Get your arse to church and find a high value woman
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
69275 posts
Posted on 1/4/24 at 10:24 am to
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If you have a great sense of humor and a personality that appeals to women, why can't you have success dating not using some app?


Gen Z has gotten so addicted to the apps that it’s extremely rare to meet someone in a social situation where it is acceptable to approach them. Gen Z is conditioned to only meet men in public AFTER they have vetted them through an app. The problem with this is it creates a serious selection bias.

When meeting a man in public, personality and attitude matter FAR more to a woman than looks do. However, on an app, looks are the only thing they have to go off of initially. So, when selecting purely based on looks and height (they even have height sliders so they won’t even see profiles for guys under 6’ tall), they go for only a small subset of guys that are so overwhelmingly attractive that it doesn’t matter what their personality is. Shocker: those guys don’t form strong relationships with them because they’re that level attractive to most every woman so they can just string any number of women along at a time and play the field indefinitely.

So, yeah, if you’re a confident, funny, stable guy you absolutely have advantages approaching in real life. The problem is that:

1. Finding women irl is harder than ever because people go out less and usually only do so for specific planned occasions rather than just meeting at a regular spot.

2. Women are being indoctrinated to believe that EVERY man who approaches them in public is a serial killer, and that the only “safe” way to meet people is to get them through an internet app, so approaching a woman in public is a MASSIVE gamble.

The system is broken.
This post was edited on 1/4/24 at 10:24 am
Posted by FlyFishinTiger
Fayetteville,AR
Member since Mar 2021
1010 posts
Posted on 1/4/24 at 10:24 am to
Chrome Daddy,

Posted by Old Money
LSU
Member since Sep 2012
41267 posts
Posted on 1/4/24 at 10:24 am to
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Too many young men do not have any game.


You're right about this. A lot of younger guys I know aren't even getting rejected in person so they have no way to refine their game to learn how to keep the sexual tension going. Their only experience is saying some pick up line on a dating app and their profile sucks so the conversation goes no where. God forbid they get a date, they're shy and awkward so it only reinforces negative thoughts....

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Height is one of the most important aspects for a man with the women of today unfortunately. If you are not a man that is at least 6 foot tall now, good luck to you & prayers. Ask any woman & she will agree with this. They have no idea that men 6 foot & taller are only about 16% of all men today nor do they care. They think they deserve one.


Those girls are getting positive feedback because the 6' guy they're chasing bangs them so they feel satisfied sexually. They don't get knocked down to reality until their looks fade and you have desprate guys that will wife up a hoe... those girls don't have to go out with shorter guys as long as tall ones are around to frick them, or until they get sick of just being a fleshlight. We all already know this though.
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
58461 posts
Posted on 1/4/24 at 10:26 am to
Is it really that hard to be 6’+? Like yall complain about women being fat and yall won’t even do your height exercises
Posted by rintintin
Life is Life
Member since Nov 2008
16955 posts
Posted on 1/4/24 at 10:34 am to
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Too many young men do not have any game.

If you have a great sense of humor and a personality that appeals to women, why can't you have success dating not using some app


I think there's some truth to this.

The pendulum has swung so far away from non-internet socialization in the younger generations, that it wouldn't take much to stand out as the confident alpha in a group. I don't care what generation you're in, girls will always flock to that guy.

Young dudes should take notice.
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33886 posts
Posted on 1/4/24 at 10:36 am to
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One New York City–based psychologist, David Gordon, says many of the high-powered men he treats—including doctors, lawyers, and financiers—fret over their ability to attract a woman, despite their enviable salaries or careers.



If you lead with money, you're just going to attract gold-diggers.

But a gold-digger doesn't care if you make $500k if you're not going to spend any of it on her. She'd rather date the guy who makes $70k and blows his check every week on her.
Posted by Wally Sparks
Atlanta
Member since Feb 2013
32422 posts
Posted on 1/4/24 at 10:53 am to
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Is it really that hard to be 6’+?


If you're 5'10-5'11, just round up.
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