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re: Domestic violence; Is it ever ok for a man to hit a woman?

Posted on 11/23/17 at 8:30 am to
Posted by touchdownjeebus
Member since Sep 2010
26829 posts
Posted on 11/23/17 at 8:30 am to
No...

My ex wife jacked me in the face, scratched me up, pushed me. I walked away. Anger is no excuse. Just walk away.
Posted by SailorGator
Member since Sep 2014
1395 posts
Posted on 11/23/17 at 8:33 am to
i still say ray rice got a raw deal. bitch spit on him and charged him. just a natural reflex. someone charges at you, you hit em. i don't think he thought about it in the moment.
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
20261 posts
Posted on 11/23/17 at 8:37 am to
quote:

LeroyBrown


quote:

So, what's a guy to do - take an arse beating?


You’re not the baddest in the whole damn town?
Posted by dat yat
Chef Pass
Member since Jun 2011
5044 posts
Posted on 11/23/17 at 8:42 am to
quote:

No. If it has gotten to that point you have already stayed in the relationship too long.


This.

Toward the end, during an argument, my ex took a big swing at me. When I blocked it, her forearm got hurt and she left the room. I did not swing back, but I knew it was over. I packed up that weekend.

We ended up better friends/co-parents living in separate homes.


Posted by foshizzle
Washington DC metro
Member since Mar 2008
40599 posts
Posted on 11/23/17 at 8:53 am to
quote:

If it has gotten to that point you have already stayed in the relationship too long.


This.
Posted by Team Alpha Beast
Member since Mar 2016
743 posts
Posted on 11/23/17 at 8:58 am to
Never hit a lady!

But if a woman crosses that line and attacks you she is no longer a lady and has engaged into a fight with you and it is now ok to strike her in an act of self defense.

But the only enough force to protect yourself and stop the attack.
This post was edited on 11/23/17 at 9:01 am
Posted by rantfan
new iberia la
Member since Nov 2012
14110 posts
Posted on 11/23/17 at 9:00 am to
Self defense or in defense of a child
Posted by saint tiger225
San Diego
Member since Jan 2011
49211 posts
Posted on 11/23/17 at 9:00 am to
Dude, untie your wife and let her go, you sick bastard.
Posted by Tiger Prawn
Member since Dec 2016
26357 posts
Posted on 11/23/17 at 9:04 am to
PIIHB then donkey punch her
Posted by LordSaintly
Member since Dec 2005
43342 posts
Posted on 11/23/17 at 9:20 am to
No
Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
Member since Mar 2013
139231 posts
Posted on 11/23/17 at 9:29 am to
Posted by BananaHammock
Member since Aug 2011
13150 posts
Posted on 11/23/17 at 9:30 am to
quote:

Hypothetical. I am with my family, eating a Grand Slam, at Denny's. 6 big, loud obnoxious women waddle in and sit down. They are abusive to the waitress and order stupid stuff like Endless water w/ lemon, Grand Slams with extra sausage and bacon, extra sides of hash browns and grits, and a full desert table. Once they are through gorging, they tell the waitress that they did not enjoy it very much and do not want to pay. The waitress gets the manager who tells them that they ate every scrap of food in the restaurant and they will pay for it. They hear this as "Mike Brown and Trayvon deserved that shite" so they commence to wrecking the restaurant. They turn my table over, knocking the wind out of my daughter. They show no remorse and no signs of stopping. Does the "Never touch a woman" crowd just sit there? Of the three never touch a woman threads a week, this may be my favorite.

How did this end? Hypothetically, of course.
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
76373 posts
Posted on 11/23/17 at 9:33 am to
Personally, I'd never hit a woman unless I thought my life was in actual danger. I'd tackle her and take her to the ground or wrap her up.

That being said, I also believe men and women are equal, so technically I have no issue with a guy responding in kind to a woman's physical violence. Their body, their choice.
Posted by LSU alum wannabe
Katy, TX
Member since Jan 2004
27875 posts
Posted on 11/23/17 at 9:33 am to
quote:

Yes

If you are in physical danger with a knife or gun or a big black dildo, you can take her out


This.

Or another, I get to decide if my wife gets her arse kicked. If a loved one is being pummeled by women, it's ok to hit those women to get your family out.

I've told my French Quarter story here before. It is a wonderful holiday tale of women being women acting like men, and being shocked when they get treated like a man.

I may share it later. I wish someone could find it and link it. Its. a TLDR.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
109023 posts
Posted on 11/23/17 at 9:42 am to
From a female perspective, I've always been of the thought process that if I'm willing to put my hands on anyone (man or woman) then I'm taking the risk of getting hit back. So unless I'm truly being physically threatened, I'm not putting my hands on anyone.

It's never ok for a man or woman to hit their SO, unless they're physically being threatened.
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
103934 posts
Posted on 11/23/17 at 9:43 am to
What do you tell a woman with 2 black eyes?











Nothing. You already had to tell her twice
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
61612 posts
Posted on 11/23/17 at 9:47 am to
quote:




Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
103934 posts
Posted on 11/23/17 at 9:48 am to
quote:

quote:
Hypothetical. I am with my family, eating a Grand Slam, at Denny's. 6 big, loud obnoxious women waddle in and sit down. They are abusive to the waitress and order stupid stuff like Endless water w/ lemon, Grand Slams with extra sausage and bacon, extra sides of hash browns and grits, and a full desert table. Once they are through gorging, they tell the waitress that they did not enjoy it very much and do not want to pay. The waitress gets the manager who tells them that they ate every scrap of food in the restaurant and they will pay for it. They hear this as "Mike Brown and Trayvon deserved that shite" so they commence to wrecking the restaurant. They turn my table over, knocking the wind out of my daughter. They show no remorse and no signs of stopping. Does the "Never touch a woman" crowd just sit there? Of the three never touch a woman threads a week, this may be my favorite.


The lesson here is to not eat at Denny's.

Posted by R11
Member since Aug 2017
5675 posts
Posted on 11/23/17 at 9:49 am to
I used to say hell no.

That was before I agreed to get married.
Posted by BarnHater
Member since May 2015
8778 posts
Posted on 11/23/17 at 9:50 am to
It is ok if that woman is from Alabama.
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