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Dog seems depressed about new puppy.

Posted on 5/13/24 at 3:11 pm
Posted by Roll Tide Ravens
Birmingham, AL
Member since Nov 2015
42956 posts
Posted on 5/13/24 at 3:11 pm
Long story short, we got a new puppy yesterday and our dog we already had is very down about it. The look on her face is like the dogs in those ASPCA commercials. I’ve continued to give her the normal amount of love and attention, but she is just in a funk over it. She is almost entirely avoiding the new puppy.

She’s a perfectly healthy dog that is only 7 years old. She’s not being replaced and I hope to have her around for many years to come.

Any advice on getting her to come around? I guess it probably just takes time, but I just feel bad seeing her look so sad. I’ve never had a dog act quite like this when I got another dog.
This post was edited on 5/13/24 at 3:13 pm
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George
Member since Aug 2004
78074 posts
Posted on 5/13/24 at 3:12 pm to
She'll get over it
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
57438 posts
Posted on 5/13/24 at 3:14 pm to
quote:

we got a new puppy yesterday

Geez give the dog some time. No one likes being the only child to having to share and be besties in one day.
Posted by gjackx
Red Stick
Member since Jan 2007
16525 posts
Posted on 5/13/24 at 3:14 pm to
Time fixes a lot of things, this is no different. She may never FULLY get over it though, and you'll know!
Posted by Mr Clean
New Iberia
Member since Aug 2006
49529 posts
Posted on 5/13/24 at 3:15 pm to
In time, they'll be great friends.

After I agreed to adopt Beaux, I was dreading picking him up the next day because I was worried about how my first dog would react.

It was one of the best decisions I've made. Both dogs are happy and content. They keep each other company when I have to leave.

Adopted Beaux two years ago.
This post was edited on 5/13/24 at 3:16 pm
Posted by Roll Tide Ravens
Birmingham, AL
Member since Nov 2015
42956 posts
Posted on 5/13/24 at 3:15 pm to
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Geez give the dog some time.

That’s what I plan to do, was just asking if there were any recommendations on what I might be able to do to cheer her up in the meantime.
Posted by chili pup
Member since Sep 2011
2795 posts
Posted on 5/13/24 at 3:16 pm to
Time will heal that. Give the new dog attention, but try not to rub it in the face of the older dog.

Take the older dog for walks.
The new one has time to advance.
This post was edited on 5/13/24 at 3:18 pm
Posted by Chad504boy
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Member since Feb 2005
166508 posts
Posted on 5/13/24 at 3:16 pm to
have you tried talking to her?
Posted by Roll Tide Ravens
Birmingham, AL
Member since Nov 2015
42956 posts
Posted on 5/13/24 at 3:17 pm to
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have you tried talking to her?

I did, but the conversation was pretty one-sided.
Posted by Motorboat
At the camp
Member since Oct 2007
22707 posts
Posted on 5/13/24 at 3:20 pm to
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I did, but the conversation was pretty one-sided.


Whipping with the business end of a leash should work then.

j/k Good luck with your new pup
Posted by Dantheman504
N/A
Member since Jun 2013
3625 posts
Posted on 5/13/24 at 3:20 pm to
quote:

have you tried talking to her?


I did, but the conversation was pretty one-sided.


Have you tried a therapist? They are usually pretty good with these ruff situations. Maybe she's just barking up the wrong tree.
Posted by keakar
Member since Jan 2017
30130 posts
Posted on 5/13/24 at 3:20 pm to
quote:

I did, but the conversation was pretty one-sided.


just make sure that any attention you give the pup, is directly followed by giving her plenty of attention with a good girl thrown in.

thats how they judge if you still love them, right now she is paying attention and tracking how much attention she gets compared to the pup
This post was edited on 5/13/24 at 3:49 pm
Posted by Boudreauboudreaugoly
Land of the Rice n Son
Member since Oct 2017
1187 posts
Posted on 5/13/24 at 3:28 pm to
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Take the older dog for walks.
The new one has time to advance.


Nope, nope, nope. Take THEM on walks TOGETHER. Great way to create bonding between the two.
Posted by BigAppleTiger
New York City
Member since Dec 2008
10390 posts
Posted on 5/13/24 at 3:31 pm to
Had a 7lb three year old (at the time)Chihuahua/Yorkie Mix that was a cute little lapdog that was and is the center of attention. She is more like a cat than a dog and has eyes that everyone melts for and wants to hold her.

I brought home my Rottweiler puppy and she wouldn't even look at him. I would hold her up to his face and she would turn her head away from every direction to avoid looking at him. It took her 3 months but one day she walked up to him and started to play with him. It was unusual for her because she doesn't play with anything- no toys, no ball, no ANYTHING.

She has learned to tolerate him and they are a pack, but there is very little interaction between them since he grew to full size. He will lick her and she will allow it and they will sleep a few feet away from each other. But when he starts to get playful with anyone in the room and she has had enough she will bark and let him know. she will bite his jowl and growl if he gets too rambunctious in the house or on the patio. She still rules him and puts up with him, and he allows it. They will find their own level of understanding.
This post was edited on 5/13/24 at 3:34 pm
Posted by GruntbyAssociation
Member since Jul 2013
3873 posts
Posted on 5/13/24 at 3:31 pm to
quote:

did, but the conversation was pretty one-sided.


Download the whine and bark translator app.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
57438 posts
Posted on 5/13/24 at 3:35 pm to
quote:

That’s what I plan to do, was just asking if there were any recommendations on what I might be able to do to cheer her up in the meantime.

One thing I did was make sure my dogs I already had still had their things.

Like I have two chihuahuas. I have one I watch TV with every morning for a bit and he sits on my laps. He's 15. The new one will sit next to us or just sleep elsewhere. She kind of understands that is his place and she doesn't take over. But when it is her time to sit with us and he walk by she will growl so fast. Like its my turn.

They tolerate each other. It takes time.
Posted by ragincajun03
Member since Nov 2007
21419 posts
Posted on 5/13/24 at 3:35 pm to
Put yourself in your dog's shoes.

If your wife showed up one day with some new, young, better looking dude who was going to live with ya'll, lay with her and be petted by her and ears and belly scratched, how would you feel?
This post was edited on 5/13/24 at 3:37 pm
Posted by The Mick
Member since Oct 2010
43228 posts
Posted on 5/13/24 at 3:52 pm to
My 30 year old son is still like this.
Posted by gumbo2176
Member since May 2018
15267 posts
Posted on 5/13/24 at 3:52 pm to
So, kind of like the oldest kid when a new baby gets brought home from the hospital. By my experience, it is more drama if the oldest is a girl. They learn to hate competition early in life------or it's in their DNA.
Posted by Gee Grenouille
Bogalusa
Member since Jul 2018
4915 posts
Posted on 5/13/24 at 4:07 pm to
First dog avoided new dog. Wouldn’t play with her. Would walk away any time it came around. A month later dog 2 was sleeping on top of dog 1. Dog 2 is is much smaller, she now sticks her head completely inside the mouth of dog 1 and he won’t bite down. It’s really fascinating to watch their dynamic.
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