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Dog passed a few weeks ago.

Posted on 11/25/20 at 9:42 pm
Posted by prplhze2000
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Member since Jan 2007
51439 posts
Posted on 11/25/20 at 9:42 pm
I can finally write about it here. Hurt like hell and yeah, I cried every day for a week.



Meet Max. A big ole goofball who was 11 years old. I took him in October last year when an elderly couple got sick and could no longer take care of him. The husband died a month later as it was.

He was a broken dog but he had the biggest heart. Breeding was so bad you could even see the cartilage of his actual tail. He was deaf. Had a low thyroid. He developed ulcers in each eye and I spent months fighting those. There were huge growths on his skin. He walked with a real bad limp on his front leg because his arthritis was so bad. However, there was on blessing. He didn't have the heart problems common to his breed, the Cavalier King Charles Spaniel. The lug nut was heart murmur free for all of his life.

He never whined and if he hadn't barked once at a cat, I would have thought the mutt was mute. Max might have been deaf and later half-blind but we communicated just fine. He only had one goal in life, to be around his owner as much as caninely possible. He hobbled around the house looking for me if he didn't know where I was.

He discovered he loved to ride in the car and got to ride almost every day. He learned where all the tasty drive-thru windows are in the Jackson metro area: banks, coffee shops, pharmacies, and Backyard Burgers. The chow hound eventually started recognizing them and went bonkers when I would pull up to their window. Yes, he recognized which drive'thru's gave treats and which ones didn't. He was a pretty smart dog and was still learning new tricks.

For example, the sliding patio door had no doggie door. No problem. Max created his own in the screen. Just pushed his way through the corner and voila, doggie door. It turns out Max was smarter than me (that's not saying much) as I didn't fix the screen because it turned out to be pretty convenient. The mutt would simply go outside as needed and then come right back inside. Good boy. The other dog saw it and figured it out too.

He actually enjoyed going to the vet (which was too often) and liked a good bath.

Sadly, he developed a GI virus one weekend. The symptoms didn't fully manifest themselves until Sunday evening. I took him in first thing Monday morning. He had an infection, the blood sugar shot up to 700 (he wasn't diabetic), and the increased blood sugar hit the kidneys hard. The blood sugar and infection got under control within two days but it was too late. The kidneys shut down and his body finally gave out Thursday night.

That Thursday was hard as well. The doc texted me and said we needed to look at putting him down. I went up there and spent over 2 hours with him. His breath reeked of ammonia. However, he started getting more active after an hour. He tried to stand a few times and wasn't as lethargic as before. I held his paws and he would push off of them to stand himself up. he was holding his head up and looking around, a big improvement. I had them run his bloodwork again. The kidneys were down to 66. Friggin miracle. Vet said he could not recommend putting him down. Left at 5:30 and figured I would come back the next morning when the doors opened at 7:30.

Here he is that afternoon. Youtube

Phone text alert sounded at 6. I didn't even look. I knew what it was. He passed during the night. He was a really good boy. He tried so hard. Never seen a dog push back death like that before. He was my boy.







This post was edited on 11/25/20 at 9:57 pm
Posted by bmarcs82
Member since Oct 2020
145 posts
Posted on 11/25/20 at 9:43 pm to
First downvote
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
103114 posts
Posted on 11/25/20 at 9:44 pm to
My advice. Time to move on son.
Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
8378 posts
Posted on 11/25/20 at 9:45 pm to
Sorry about your loss baw. Go bang some hookers, you’ll feel better
This post was edited on 11/25/20 at 9:45 pm
Posted by Stud Bud
MS But travel all over the country
Member since Sep 2015
6958 posts
Posted on 11/25/20 at 9:51 pm to
I’m sorry you lost your friend. Dogs are great companions. It sounds like you are getting better day by day. Maybe look into going to the Animal Rescue League. Got a wonderful pet from there because there’s always another that could use a good home.
Posted by LSUJML
BR
Member since May 2008
45692 posts
Posted on 11/25/20 at 9:53 pm to
quote:

I took him in October last year when an elderly couple got sick and could no longer take care of him.


First let me say I’m very sorry for your loss.
Major props to you for taking him in, I have rescue dogs as family dogs & just sent my 1st foster off to her forever home but my goal when I retire is to take in dogs that owners go to nursing homes or pass.
Looks like he was a very lucky boy to have 2 families to love him.

I hope you find peace in knowing he passed knowing he was loved.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
61304 posts
Posted on 11/25/20 at 9:57 pm to
Sounds like a great pup. He was lucky to have to as an owner and was certainly quite spoiled.
Posted by Yewkindewit
Near Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Apr 2012
20059 posts
Posted on 11/25/20 at 10:01 pm to
I upvoted for the love you have for Max. Shitty deal about him passing. Hang in there!
Posted by Arthur Bach
Member since Jul 2016
2009 posts
Posted on 11/25/20 at 10:02 pm to
quote:

My advice. Time to move on son.


A dog is a man’s best friend, dude. What are you talking about? Let the dude handle it how he feels.

Sorry for your loss. When you feel the time is right you can go and rescue another dog and help him like you helped your dude over the last year. :fistbump:
Posted by GumbOrgeron
Member since Feb 2018
1426 posts
Posted on 11/25/20 at 10:04 pm to
I am sorry for the loss, man. That was so gracious of you to take him in to your home and care for him. Just know you probably gave him one of the best years of his life. I loved the write up on Max that you gave us. It genuinely warmed my heart
Posted by Bawcephus
Member since Jul 2018
2747 posts
Posted on 11/25/20 at 10:07 pm to
Anyone who downvoted the OP is a certified frickwad.

Sorry for your loss, cherish the memories you have and know you did all you could.
Posted by Demshoes
Up in here
Member since Aug 2015
10208 posts
Posted on 11/25/20 at 10:08 pm to
Props to giving him a positive quality of life to the end.
Posted by Sentrius
Fort Rozz
Member since Jun 2011
64757 posts
Posted on 11/25/20 at 10:08 pm to
This is why I'm afraid of getting a dog. I just can't handle the heartbreak when they finally leave this world.
Posted by Woodreaux
OC California
Member since Jan 2008
2790 posts
Posted on 11/25/20 at 10:10 pm to
That's a fricked-up comment to leave in this sort thread. I hope a pigeon dive bomber takes a big shite all over you the next time you go outside.
Posted by DallasTiger
THE Capital City
Member since Jan 2004
4231 posts
Posted on 11/25/20 at 10:13 pm to
quote:

I am sorry for the loss, man. That was so gracious of you to take him in to your home and care for him. Just know you probably gave him one of the best years of his life. I loved the write up on Max that you gave us. It genuinely warmed my heart


This.
Posted by SNAKERIVER
Dallas, TX
Member since Mar 2016
385 posts
Posted on 11/25/20 at 10:13 pm to
Thoughts, prayers and an aching heart for you. Been there. Time slowly heals. Max knew how much you loved him.
Posted by A Menace to Sobriety
Member since Jun 2018
29141 posts
Posted on 11/25/20 at 10:21 pm to
First 3 posts all equally shitty. Yall need to fricking grow up.

Anyway these threads always depress me thinking about my old Jack Rustle buddy. He was the best. Putting him down was one of the worst days of my life. Sorry for your loss man. Beautiful dog. Takes a damn good person to take in a dog with already serious physical disabilities and yet you were still able to give him a great life. Props to you man you did good. Give it a few weeks to think about your pal and then try to get another dog. It helps trust me.
Posted by LesterFreamon
SFNM
Member since May 2017
351 posts
Posted on 11/25/20 at 10:24 pm to
Sorry for your loss. The part about the screen door made me laugh as my dogs have done the same thing and I have no intentions of fixing it. You gave him a better life over a relatively short period of time, and in return, he provided a great amount of joy. It will get easier, but I get what you’re going through. I’ll have a drink for you and that good boy.
Posted by East Coast Band
Member since Nov 2010
62822 posts
Posted on 11/25/20 at 10:24 pm to
My advice? Go rescue another.
we've adopted a couple of older dogs that we've only had a few years with and it's tough to see them go.
But, I always feel just a little better that at least I was able to help them through their last, typically more difficult years.
Posted by LSUJML
BR
Member since May 2008
45692 posts
Posted on 11/25/20 at 10:24 pm to
quote:

This is why I'm afraid of getting a dog. I just can't handle the heartbreak when they finally leave this world.


Not going to lie it hurts but the joy & memories they give you far outweighs the grief
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