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re: Does your family eat dinner “family style”? Have I been doing it wrong?

Posted on 7/17/20 at 7:13 pm to
Posted by skyisfalln
Member since May 2013
283 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 7:13 pm to
Growing up in BR we never did family style. My sister in-law from BR now lives in GA and certain things at her house are family style. For example, at breakfast jelly, condiments, juice, fruit salad, sausage are placed on table to add to your biscuit and eggs. For dinner, bread basket and salad and dressings are on table. Everything else fixed in kitchen.

We stayed at a family owned inn in Bryson City, NC last year and breakfast and dinner was served in the dining room family style every day (think tv show Newhart). Big lazy susan in the middle of the table and you were seated with at least one other family you didn’t know. Tables sat about ten. My children, ages 6, 4, 2 loved it. It made me rethink how we do dinner. The children were more inclined to try stuff.
Posted by Swamp water
Member since Nov 2019
151 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 7:15 pm to
My in laws do family style. They are very formal and it’s uncomfortable for me personally. My family does buffet style. It’s more relaxed (and practical); in turn, our time together is much more relaxed and enjoyable.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
80890 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 7:31 pm to
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I’ve never done that, we fix our own plates off the counter and bring the plates to the table and sit down
You are doing it properly. Family style is trashy.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Mackinac Island
Member since Jul 2009
38579 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 8:03 pm to
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Has a completely different meaning in Alabama
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
21088 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 8:06 pm to
I’m wanting to start serving family style for our nightly meals. I’m sick and tired of fixing dinner, fixing my plate, and then watching my family piddle around while it gets cold.

Posted by Harry Morgan
Member since Sep 2019
10340 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 8:07 pm to
Posted by CuyahogaTigerJr
Northeast ohio
Member since Aug 2018
2398 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 8:08 pm to
Yep
When I was a kid especially at any family gathering
Posted by BayouENGR
Seagrove Beach
Member since Nov 2015
2926 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 8:18 pm to
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A little bit of both. We put the food on the table in the formal dining room when we have guests over. We usually buffet style it when it's just us and eating at the breakfast table.


This. Why wash extra dishes?
Posted by Clark14
Earth
Member since Dec 2014
27162 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 8:45 pm to
Growing up we always ate at the table,pass the beans or meat,type of thing.Clean your plate.

But my parents were very old school and mom was what was called a housewife and she took her job very seriously.Probably the hardest working woman I've ever seen.She did it all,sewing,laundry,ironing,cleaning and doctor.Bless her heart,I think that's why she left this earth first.


My family was much more lax,because my wife worked outside the house,and we basically made due for supper,though the kids ate well.

Holidays are old school though.


The one thing about these old type meals was we talked and had good times around the table.

And we were all a-holes for eating and leaving mom the mess.

No wonder she was so happy when deer season came around and we went to camp.
This post was edited on 7/17/20 at 8:51 pm
Posted by Clark14
Earth
Member since Dec 2014
27162 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 8:47 pm to
double post
This post was edited on 7/17/20 at 8:50 pm
Posted by Ric Flair
Charlotte
Member since Oct 2005
13879 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 8:48 pm to
Buffet style for casual meals/daily meals

For thanksgiving, buffet for the meat, but all sides/bread/gravy get passed family style.
Posted by Mid Iowa Tiger
Undisclosed Secure Location
Member since Feb 2008
25170 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 8:50 pm to
You’re doing it wrong.

The servants make our plates and place them in front of us at the table.
Posted by LSUJML
Central
Member since May 2008
56855 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 8:52 pm to
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we fix our own plates off the counter and bring the plates to the table and sit down. I have never family-styled.
Posted by Tortious
ATX
Member since Nov 2010
5776 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 8:54 pm to
We're lazy and trashy. No guests make yo plate out of what it was prepared in. No need for extra dishes for presentation.
Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
Member since Jul 2009
56608 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 9:04 pm to
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we fix our own plates off the counter and bring the plates to the table and sit down. I have never family-styled.
this
Posted by TigerstuckinMS
Member since Nov 2005
33687 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 9:14 pm to
Buffet style at my house growing up. Serving from the pot and then eating together was just fine by us kids because we had to clean the dishes.

Now that I have my own home and have a dishwasher, it's like I try to see how many dishes I can dirty. I had beanie weenies tonight. I dirtied three bowls, a knife, two spoons, and the plastic splatter cover in the microwave.
This post was edited on 7/17/20 at 9:18 pm
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