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Does your family eat dinner “family style”? Have I been doing it wrong?

Posted on 7/17/20 at 6:42 pm
Posted by SixthAndBarone
Member since Jan 2019
11356 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 6:42 pm
Have you ever noticed on moves and tv (especially for Thanksgiving dinners), the family brings plates and bowls of food to the table, sits down, and passes the bowls around so they can fix their plates sitting at the table? This is known as family style. And I’m starting to wonder if I’ve been doing dinner wrong my whole life. Because I’ve never done that, we fix our own plates off the counter and bring the plates to the table and sit down. I have never family-styled.
Posted by jamboybarry
Member since Feb 2011
33256 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 6:43 pm to
My family eats from a collective trough at the table. It’s our way of bonding
Posted by OldmanBeasley
Charlotte
Member since Jun 2014
11230 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 6:44 pm to
quote:

“family style”

Has a completely different meaning in Alabama
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
56777 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 6:44 pm to
Mrs. Wilkes' Dining room tGOAT
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53839 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 6:45 pm to
A little bit of both. We put the food on the table in the formal dining room when we have guests over. We usually buffet style it when it's just us and eating at the breakfast table.
This post was edited on 7/17/20 at 7:15 pm
Posted by AmosMosesAndTwins
Lake Charles
Member since Apr 2010
19015 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 6:46 pm to
Family style growing up. I’m dish and sit now, noticed the same of my parents. Unless you have a few kids, I don’t see the sense in dirtying additional serving dishes for the table.
Posted by GetCocky11
Calgary, AB
Member since Oct 2012
53509 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 6:48 pm to
I haven't in probably 20 years
Posted by Eightballjacket
Member since Jan 2016
8101 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 6:51 pm to
Nope. Only have enough room in the table for plates, cups, the 2 liters and Granny's pill bottles.
Posted by McCaigBro69
TigerDroppings Premium Member
Member since Oct 2014
45352 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 6:52 pm to
My family did this growing up. When I’m home now it’s the same as your experience unless it’s a holiday.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
40276 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 6:53 pm to
No — not enough room on the table and more dishes to wash.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
61653 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 6:53 pm to
quote:

we fix our own plates off the counter and bring the plates to the table and sit down.
trashy
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
42807 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 6:56 pm to
Sometimes, but right now with little kids we serve them a plate and eat together.

It’s really Important for everyone to eat together.
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 6:58 pm to
Growing up I did and we would say the blessing. Good times

Now I eat alone. I still thank God.

Posted by ksayetiger
Centenary Gents
Member since Jul 2007
70474 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 7:00 pm to
I am not giving my kids more opportunity to spill shite.

I male their plates
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
37494 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 7:01 pm to
My wife’s family is usually half and half, my family is usually buffet style. If it’s just my wife and I, it’s buffet style.
Posted by PhillyTiger90
Not Phillytiger9
Member since Dec 2015
11969 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 7:04 pm to
My dads side of the family only has like 10 people total so we’re able to do family style

My mom’s Irish Catholic side of 35-40 is all self serve
Posted by Lawyered
The Sip
Member since Oct 2016
38819 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 7:06 pm to
Didn’t have a big enough dinner table for all that

But we did eat at the same table. As a family. Every night.
Posted by Hulkklogan
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2010
43482 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 7:09 pm to
No


Growing up we ate a lot of fast food or easy quick food like spaghetti, we'd just fix our own bowl or plate and go sit in the living room. Big events like Thanksgiving were a little more formal but generally food was left in pots and pans and every fixed their own plate.


My little family sits at the table for meals. Whoever cooks usually plates the food for everyone then we bring the plates out to the table and we eat. For Thanksgiving/Christmas we will have some stuff on the table like wine, gravy, rolls but otherwise good stays in the kitchen.

If we had serving bowls/plates at the table I'd be overeating at every meal. Screw that.
This post was edited on 7/17/20 at 7:11 pm
Posted by CHEDBALLZ
South Central LA
Member since Dec 2009
23359 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 7:10 pm to
Only when we have boiled seafood.
Posted by CrownTownHalo
CrownTown, NC
Member since Sep 2011
3086 posts
Posted on 7/17/20 at 7:11 pm to
Only 3 of us...and I just cannot eat at 6pm. Sometimes I didn’t eat lunch till 2/3pm.
It’s one of our greatest failures as parents...but I read an article once about this very subject that gave me peace that I wasn’t totally fricking up my kid.

We do dine out together frequently and eat holiday meals together..but day in day out. Nope.
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