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re: Does HS graduation warrant a new car

Posted on 12/17/17 at 3:10 pm to
Posted by Jizzy08
Member since Aug 2008
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Posted on 12/17/17 at 3:10 pm to
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Isn't it kind of tradition at this point?


Maybe for rich folk
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81185 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 3:10 pm to
Plus there’s no rhyme or reason - it all depends on the person.

Thinking back on my high school friends I still have.. one who grew up with nothing is the snobbiest most materialistic person I know (I love her for it). Having no help didn’t teach her to be frugal or cheap. She spends plenty of money.

Another who grew up with nothing couldn’t afford to keep up with colllege/life expenses since she had to work for everything so now she’s a career waitress..

I wasn’t super spoiled but my vehicles were bought for me (and car insurance paid). I now have a great job I love.. zero debt (and never had it). I budget well. My credit is excellent. And I never need my parents’ help anymore.

I understand wanting to teach your children the value of money but purposely stacking cards against them when you can easily afford to help them makes no sense to me.
This post was edited on 12/17/17 at 3:12 pm
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136794 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 3:16 pm to
Y'all let jackalope hijack the frick out of this thread

Point was a NEW CAR

Answer is still no. Kids are young and dumb. They are bad drivers for a reason. The other college kids are probably just as bad drivers or even worse.
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
71345 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 3:19 pm to
quote:

I see on here a lot that most people think high school graduation isn't a big deal or a major accomplishment. What are yalls thoughts on big gifts such as a new car for graduating?



There is no way in hell I'd ever buy a kid a new car, much less for something as non-note worthy as graduating high school.
Posted by Jones
Member since Oct 2005
90447 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 3:19 pm to
he specifically said a car that will break down

the worst drivers arent college kids imo
Posted by achenator
Member since Oct 2014
2944 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 3:24 pm to
I wonder how many people who say "no fricking way" either:

A) don't have kids
B) couldn't afford it anyway
Posted by Ellssu
Spying North of the Border
Member since Dec 2006
2478 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 3:25 pm to
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My son graduates this year. He's a 4.0 student with full ride scholarships to multiple schools....and he drives a 10 y.o. Pathfinder. If he wants a new ride, he'll need to buy it(and the insurance) with his own dime. I wasn't raised to be a spoiled arse, neither is he. No entitlement folks at my house.
my daughter earned a full ride with out of state tuition. I bought her a new Corrola for graduation, and made money.
Posted by Oddibe
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Member since Sep 2015
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Posted on 12/17/17 at 3:27 pm to
quote:

What are yalls thoughts on big gifts such as a new car for graduating?
Everything is relative to an individual’s income and/or personal preferences. Both of my sons got used vehicles when they turned 16. Both vehicles should last them through college.

I have no problem with someone buying their kids new cars when they graduate high school. It’s just not MY thing.

Don’t judge or be jealous if you know people who do, it’s their kids and their money.
Posted by SG_Geaux
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Member since Aug 2004
77938 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 3:31 pm to
quote:

high school graduation isn't a big deal or a major accomplishment


It is only likely the biggest life event in the kids life at that point and the very beginning of stepping into adulthood.

Nah. No big deal.
Posted by nola000
Lacombe, LA
Member since Dec 2014
13139 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 3:37 pm to
Working a part-time job through High School and paying for it themselves warrants buying a new car for graduation. Not only that but it's probably the best education they will get in high school
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
25455 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 3:38 pm to
quote:

It is only likely the biggest life event in the kids life at that point and the very beginning of stepping into adulthood.

Nah. No big deal.


If you don't have 3 rental properties and aren't the VP of your company by high school graduation you're a piece of shite snowflake millennial according to the OT
Posted by fishfighter
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Member since Apr 2008
40026 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 3:44 pm to
quote:

We(the collective OT) are still smart and athletic, but now we are all poor and frugal/cheap


Sounds like growing up and paying your own way thru life.
Posted by Aristo
Colorado
Member since Jan 2007
13292 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 3:52 pm to
They basically give you a diploma for showing up, so no. For a good college degree, yes.
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
20068 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 3:56 pm to
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My parents bought my first 3 vehicles. I graduated college with zero debt because my parents paid my tuition, books etc. They also paid a 15% downpayment on our first house as a wedding gift. I turned out just fine

When were the apron strings cut?
Posted by jdeval1
Member since Dec 2009
7525 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 4:00 pm to
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When were the apron strings cut?

Bout 26. After grad school. My dad paid my kids tuition last year even though we didn't need him to. He didn't even tell me that he did it. I asked him why and he told me "old men invest in their grandchildren"
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
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Member since May 2012
55556 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 4:03 pm to
paying your own way is so overrated. families are supposed to help their own.
Posted by EA6B
TX
Member since Dec 2012
14754 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 4:15 pm to
It must be a SEC thing, most of the Big 10 schools don't allow freshman and sometimes even sophomores to have cars on campus unless they commute.
Posted by djmicrobe
Planet Earth
Member since Jan 2007
4970 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 4:20 pm to
No graduation warrants a new car. Financial situation should determine amount of car one can afford.
Posted by Bow08tie
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2011
4220 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 4:43 pm to
Cudos and well done sir

This world needs a lot more "parents" with this approach to parenting
Posted by TBoy
Kalamazoo
Member since Dec 2007
23660 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 4:46 pm to
I bought mine a car before her senior year so she could duel enroll in college.

But to answer the question, no, unless that’s the highest educational level the kid is expected to attain. For my kid there will be at least two more graduations to go.
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