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re: Do you split time with your wife and Mom on Mother’s Day?

Posted on 5/11/25 at 12:33 pm to
Posted by Piebald Panther
Member since Aug 2020
613 posts
Posted on 5/11/25 at 12:33 pm to
The woman who invented the damn thing even spoke out against the commercialization of a day to recognize mothers.

It’s become nothing more than a “ you love me this about of $$” day. If you don’t meet the expectations you get wrath all day
Posted by jwalk38
Member since Nov 2021
103 posts
Posted on 5/11/25 at 12:34 pm to
I’m celebrating myself as a single dad on Mother’s Day because I’m a strong and empowered King.
Posted by forkedintheroad
Member since Feb 2025
1457 posts
Posted on 5/11/25 at 12:38 pm to
I take the opposite tac of most: I spend most of the day with my mom, and give my wife a token gesture. Kids are developing their own gift ideas.

My thought is that my wife gets her birthday, v-day, anniversary, and pretty much everything else. Also, she's not my mom. So Mom gets most of the focus today.

Wife doesn't like it, but deals. Can't give em everything.
Posted by When in Rome
Telegraph Road
Member since Jan 2011
36159 posts
Posted on 5/11/25 at 12:43 pm to
quote:

sometimes you don’t think the universe be like it is. But it do.
That’s true. It do be like that sometimes.
This post was edited on 5/12/25 at 7:25 am
Posted by FLObserver
Jacksonville
Member since Nov 2005
15754 posts
Posted on 5/11/25 at 12:49 pm to
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Kids are developing their own gift ideas. My thought is that my wife gets her birthday, v-day, anniversary, and pretty much everything else. Also, she's not my mom. So Mom gets most of the focus today.

Agree after your kids are say over 15 it's up to them to come up with something for their mom to let her know they love her. They are all here today visiting so really that's all most moms wants anyway. What can i add that would make it better for her?
This post was edited on 5/11/25 at 12:50 pm
Posted by JEC119
Alabama
Member since Apr 2024
2145 posts
Posted on 5/11/25 at 12:54 pm to
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Smoking a brisket for both of them and my sister-in-law Wife doing her own thing, Grandma playing games with the kids and I’m about to crack open my first beer. Great day with both of them


That sounds like a damn good day. Damn it man!
Posted by Ash Williams
South of i-10
Member since May 2009
18545 posts
Posted on 5/11/25 at 1:02 pm to
Had a nice dinner out with our family and my in-laws last night.

Spending the day doing whatever my wife wants.

We’re all going visit my mom later this afternoon.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
71955 posts
Posted on 5/11/25 at 1:03 pm to
I don’t have parents. That simplifies matters on Mother’s Day. This year we’ve come over to my MILs house and, per her request, I’ve grilled burgers and dogs for everyone.
Posted by The Cow Goes Moo Moo
Bucktown
Member since Nov 2012
3998 posts
Posted on 5/11/25 at 1:08 pm to
I spent this morning with my wife, and I am spending this afternoon with my mother.

Brought my daughter over to see my mom for a little bit this morning.

My wife prefers to not spend the day with my mom, so I get to deal with that every year.
Posted by blucollarskolar
Member since Sep 2014
297 posts
Posted on 5/11/25 at 1:34 pm to
We just host lunch and have all the Moms in the family over.
Posted by DownshiftAndFloorIt
Here
Member since Jan 2011
70922 posts
Posted on 5/11/25 at 1:36 pm to
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wife refuses to even compromise a little on this God forsaken day


Damn dude
Posted by fishbig
Member since Feb 2007
1599 posts
Posted on 5/11/25 at 1:43 pm to
Boiling crawfish for wife, mom, MIL and SIL. Weather is the only shitty part
Posted by Demonbengal
Ruston
Member since May 2015
4801 posts
Posted on 5/11/25 at 4:02 pm to
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Worst damned holiday of the year. Impossible to not piss somebody off.


It’s frustrating. My sister and I always take my mom and dad out along with our families on Mothers Day. My wife always seems to get angry because it’s Mother’s Day for her too. My mil passed away several years ago, and I feel that is somehow playing into it. The other possibility is she’s a woman, and she just likes to get angry over trivial things.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11592 posts
Posted on 5/11/25 at 4:12 pm to
We went to brunch with both of our moms today. It was the perfect way to see everybody early without making a bunch of separate trips. I'm about to take my son to the park to round out the day.
Posted by Aubie Spr96
lolwut?
Member since Dec 2009
43888 posts
Posted on 5/11/25 at 4:14 pm to
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Worst damned holiday of the year. Impossible to not piss somebody off.


My mom isn’t someone people like to be around. Neither my wife or my brothers’ wives enjoy being around her. Forces us to split the day.
Posted by dirtsandwich
AL
Member since May 2016
6446 posts
Posted on 5/11/25 at 4:25 pm to
First Mother’s Day without my mama. And my wife threw her back out but refuses to do anything about but complain. Been a rough one.
Posted by CrappyPants
Member since Apr 2021
1027 posts
Posted on 5/11/25 at 4:34 pm to
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i am not allowed to see my mother on mother's day because my wife refuses to even compromise a little on this God forsaken day


you better have a good story as to why youre "not allowed", otherwise your wife is a controlling bitch
Posted by dinner roll
buttery goodness
Member since Feb 2006
6483 posts
Posted on 5/11/25 at 4:49 pm to
You forgot to factor in the mother in law.
Posted by CaptainsWafer
TD Platinum Member
Member since Feb 2006
59055 posts
Posted on 5/11/25 at 5:16 pm to
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It’s not a Holiday. It’s a glorification of narcissistic consumer culture invented by Hallmark


No one is forcing you to buy your mom anything. You can go hang out with her for free.
Posted by Sugarbaker
Peachtree
Member since Jun 2023
543 posts
Posted on 5/11/25 at 5:20 pm to
Had dinner with my mom last night and saw her at church this morning.

Husband and kids took me to lunch and will cook me dinner tonight.

Now they are all gone to visit my mother-in-law leaving me to nap and read as part of my gift. Not one complaint.

So I guess my husband does kind of split time between his mom and me, albeit quite unevenly, but everyone seems pretty happy with it.
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