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re: Do you know anybody who has an open marriage?

Posted on 5/14/26 at 7:45 am to
Posted by crimsonsaint
Member since Nov 2009
37834 posts
Posted on 5/14/26 at 7:45 am to
Yeah I heard the stories about captain dave and his wife. Never knew their actual names though. Was she attractive?
Posted by Jenious
Member since Apr 2020
981 posts
Posted on 5/14/26 at 8:00 am to
I've stated this before but my buddy and his wife are swingers. He is short, chubby and bald with a big arse beard. His wife is NOT attractive at all, like an OT 2(only because her boobs are somewhat large) but the way men fawn over her on Facebook just tells me that most men will stick their dick in anything.

He has a lot of swinger friend on his FB list(identified by "LS" at the end of their name). I went through it and not one of them were even remotely attractive.
Posted by Fat and Happy
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2013
19960 posts
Posted on 5/14/26 at 8:10 am to
Yep.

I don’t get their rationale but it has worked for the couples.

I know 4 couples that are in that lifestyle. They each have different ways they do it.

2 of them do something where they swap partners in the same room or something like that.

Not sure on the third one other than they do date other folks.

The couple that has been doing that for over 20 years lives it up. They have separate significant others and legit go on dates with them. The wife is very attractive so she has been flown to other countries and taken to all kind of cool stuff around the country.

That ain’t for me but i guess they make it work
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
70478 posts
Posted on 5/14/26 at 8:53 am to
I know a married couple that are swingers.
Posted by jaTigerfan
Nashville
Member since Oct 2011
2182 posts
Posted on 5/14/26 at 8:56 am to
Half the women on Tinder
Posted by Jenious
Member since Apr 2020
981 posts
Posted on 5/14/26 at 9:52 am to
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Was she attractive?


From her Facebook page...not really, but she is 71 now
Posted by JackaReaux
BR
Member since Feb 2017
1019 posts
Posted on 5/14/26 at 10:02 am to
I think it has to start as open, and even then idk how people do it.

Both times I’ve seen a couple bring in a female friend it just nuked the relationship.

To each their own
Posted by Seth Bullock
Member since Nov 2024
353 posts
Posted on 5/14/26 at 10:03 am to
No good lookin woman is in an open relationships

As others have said, absolutely false.

Old boss and his wife were swingers and she was an absolute smoke show.
Posted by ChestRockwell
In the heart of horse country
Member since Jul 2021
7652 posts
Posted on 5/14/26 at 10:29 am to
Bill and Hillary Clinton
Posted by BRich
Old Metairie
Member since Aug 2017
2991 posts
Posted on 5/14/26 at 10:31 am to
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Key parties were big in the 60's and early 70's

4 or more couples show up to party. Men's keys in a basket. Women pulled the key out and off they go with that man to contribute their part ...

Yeah, that's basically a myth that's been overblown by Hollywood:

Did Key Parties Ever Really Happen?

Rick Moody, author of the novel The Ice Storm, was born in 1961. He was too young to know of or participate in any Seventies key parties, even if they really existed. Moody himself acknowledges that he never witnessed or even heard of key parties until he was in his thirties, shortly before he started working on his book. Indeed, at the time, he’d never actually met anyone who’d CLAIMED to have participated in one.
Posted by Dadren
Jawja
Member since Dec 2023
3264 posts
Posted on 5/14/26 at 10:38 am to
quote:

2 of them do something where they swap partners in the same room or something like that.


quote:

That ain’t for me but i guess they make it work

Same.

To each their own (or to each, someone else’s? Idk). But even thinking about this makes my stomach knot up a little.
Posted by TigersBucs
Lake Charles
Member since Oct 2009
1814 posts
Posted on 5/14/26 at 10:42 am to
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To each their own (or to each, someone else’s? Idk). But even thinking about this makes my stomach knot up a little.



What a pussy
Posted by dgnx6
Member since Feb 2006
89786 posts
Posted on 5/14/26 at 10:43 am to
Yes. But how many of them last the distance?



Posted by Shorts Guy
BR
Member since Dec 2023
729 posts
Posted on 5/14/26 at 11:10 am to
We’ve met a few couples over the years that have made (rebuffed) attempts to swing in our direction. You’d be surprised the kind of shite you encounter when your better half is too outgoing for their own good.
Posted by StansberryRules
Member since Aug 2024
5198 posts
Posted on 5/14/26 at 11:13 am to
Considering how much easier it is for a woman to get strange then a man I think an open relationship would be fundamentally lopsided.

She could be banging 100 dudes for every one side chick you got.

But seems there's a lot of overlap between cuck culture and swingers so u guess that's not a problem for them.

Regardless none of that shite is marriage.
Posted by Rex Feral
Somewhere near Athens
Member since Jan 2014
16600 posts
Posted on 5/14/26 at 11:24 am to
I knew this one couple who were swingers. Well, she was and he tried his best. She grew up in a Christian household and didn't have sex until she got married. She's a chubby OT4 at best. He was nice enough for a skinny nerdy looking guy. After being married, she decided she didn't believe in God any more because she was sexually repressed growing up. My guess is no one paid any attention to her when she was younger, but then started getting some attention when she figured out how to dress well and put on makeup. She talked him into having an open relationship. As is life, she was banging new dudes every week, while he was lucky to get someone to smile at him. I lost track of them shortly after she had her 'awakening'. I hope he had enough sense to move on.
Posted by Dadren
Jawja
Member since Dec 2023
3264 posts
Posted on 5/14/26 at 11:41 am to
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But seems there's a lot of overlap between cuck culture and swingers so u guess that's not a problem for them.

Maybe I'm just a prude but I’m not seeing a difference at all.

He’s either watching in real time or aware that his wife is being plowed by another man. What he’s doing (sitting in a chair, having sex with a different woman) doesn’t seem relevant to me.
Posted by chinhoyang
Member since Jun 2011
26054 posts
Posted on 5/14/26 at 11:49 am to
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He'd drunk dial one of the other younger baws on the weekends and try to get him to his house to bang his wife.


that doesn't make him a swinger, it makes him a voyeur (and a cuck).
Posted by Hoovertigah
Fayetteville
Member since Sep 2013
3815 posts
Posted on 5/14/26 at 7:17 pm to
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Was she attractive?


At one time yes. The stories I heard. Just horrendous.
Posted by SobchakSecurity
Member since Sep 2025
90 posts
Posted on 5/14/26 at 7:26 pm to
The Tea is strong in this thread.

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