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Posted on 12/29/23 at 8:47 am to dyslexiateechur
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Am I the only one who thinks this is actually a good idea?
This is an absolutely horrible idea.
Posted on 12/29/23 at 8:49 am to BluegrassBelle
quote:imagine actually caring what another seemingly happy couple does in their own relationship
I think if you regularly communicate throughout the year your wants/needs in a healthy way, you don’t need a “summit”
Posted on 12/29/23 at 8:51 am to dyslexiateechur
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Am I the only one who thinks this is actually a good idea?
You mean the annual argument with your wife where she lists all the things you need to do and/or do more of (or more often) that ends with you telling her to stop being a bitch? That good idea?
Posted on 12/29/23 at 8:53 am to LSURussian
The required annual sexual harassment videos are so boring.
Posted on 12/29/23 at 8:53 am to BluegrassBelle
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I think if you regularly communicate throughout the year your wants/needs in a healthy way, you don’t need a “summit”.
But it can’t hurt to consciously take a few minutes to sit down and jot this stuff down with your spouse, right?
I doubt what either of us has to say will be a surprise but sometimes it’s good to sit down and take stock.
Posted on 12/29/23 at 8:53 am to Pilot Tiger
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imagine actually caring what another seemingly happy couple does in their own relationship
They put it out there for the world to see so they want people to care
Posted on 12/29/23 at 8:55 am to dyslexiateechur
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But it can’t hurt to consciously take a few minutes to sit down and jot this stuff down with your spouse, right?
I doubt what either of us has to say will be a surprise but sometimes it’s good to sit down and take stock.
Well, sure. The example in the video just seems really forced. If it works for them, cool. But I don’t see this practically working in most relationships.
Most healthy couples check in pretty regularly, it’s just not formal like this.
Posted on 12/29/23 at 8:57 am to Pilot Tiger
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imagine actually caring what another seemingly happy couple does in their own relationship
I mean, I’m always looking for good examples of things to share with clients I see for couples therapy.
I just don’t see this as very practical in its format. That said, they put it out there to be seen so folks are going to comment.
Posted on 12/29/23 at 9:12 am to dyslexiateechur
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But it can’t hurt to consciously take a few minutes to sit down and jot this stuff down with your spouse, right?
No, you deal with that shite as it arises. A "review" seems like a reason to find fault with your spouse.
Posted on 12/29/23 at 9:14 am to stout
quote:Three sexual harassment complaints...
Ours is quarterly...
Any recent HR complaints?
Posted on 12/29/23 at 9:18 am to stout
“Missed out on being a whore” 

Posted on 12/29/23 at 9:21 am to stout
So they met in person, discussed their favorite memories of the past year, discussed what they would like to do this year, and both seemed to enjoy it? Where's the problem here. Probably not how I would do it, but seems like there are open lines of communication and marriage conversation
Posted on 12/29/23 at 9:23 am to Rize
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man bun
Says it all, right there.

Posted on 12/29/23 at 9:25 am to N2cars
It’s not a bad idea
I remember hearing someone say that marriage should be a 5 year term where every 5 years you meet with a board or counselor and decide if you should renew or not.
I remember hearing someone say that marriage should be a 5 year term where every 5 years you meet with a board or counselor and decide if you should renew or not.
Posted on 12/29/23 at 9:29 am to dallastiger55
IDK, I loved being married.
Every day you can be with someone you love is a good day.
Treasure them, and let the small stuff slide...
Every day you can be with someone you love is a good day.
Treasure them, and let the small stuff slide...
Posted on 12/29/23 at 9:31 am to dallastiger55
My wife is the friendliest person I know but her ‘memory’ for verbal communication is abysmal. This isn’t the worst idea for our relationship at all so we can write some things down to later discuss and she can’t say we never discussed it or she doesnt remember ever discussing it.
Verbal communication in a marriage is only so good, writing some things down really does help us.
Verbal communication in a marriage is only so good, writing some things down really does help us.
Posted on 12/29/23 at 9:37 am to stout
Partners (not married), beta cuck, man bun.
Checks out.
Checks out.
Posted on 12/29/23 at 9:40 am to Pilot Tiger
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Stout you need a break from the internet for a while? You seem obsessed to an unhealthy degree with all this shite.
We may need to mount an intervention to save him. We can't lose him to something like this. He's too valuable.
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