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re: Do you feel any inclination to actively reach out and help those less fortunate than you?
Posted on 11/28/17 at 7:36 am to Methuselah
Posted on 11/28/17 at 7:36 am to Methuselah
I volunteer at the local little theatre, but I wouldn't call the actors and patrons less fortunate than me...maybe less mechanically inclined.
Posted on 11/28/17 at 7:42 am to cj35
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I feel inclined to help those more fortunate than me.
Sooo.... a job?
Posted on 11/28/17 at 7:43 am to Methuselah
I will always buy food but I don't give money to individuals.
Posted on 11/28/17 at 7:59 am to SelaTiger
It depends on what you mean by “less fortunate”
If you mean a homeless junkie begging for change? Absolutely not.
If you mean a good person down on their luck for some unlucky circumstances (fire, death, etc) absolutely.
If you mean a homeless junkie begging for change? Absolutely not.
If you mean a good person down on their luck for some unlucky circumstances (fire, death, etc) absolutely.
Posted on 11/28/17 at 8:10 am to Methuselah
Yes, but I'm not going to get scammed. Perfectly willing to do whatever I can to help those who appear to be trying to help themselves.
Not going to help anyone who I even suspect might be scamming , and there are a LOT of those scummy folks out there.
Not going to help anyone who I even suspect might be scamming , and there are a LOT of those scummy folks out there.
Posted on 11/28/17 at 8:30 am to Methuselah
We do angel tree for Christmas from each one of our kids. We donate to St. Jude. We do no charity to adults directly. Whatever that makes me is fine by me.
Posted on 11/28/17 at 8:34 am to bobaftt1212
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I will always buy food but I don't give money to individuals.
Couple years ago we're in Springfield MO doing some shopping and right outside the mall my wife likes is a McDonalds, so as we're leaving there's a family of four standing under the McD sign with the man holding a sign "will work for food, kids are hungry"
Right above their heads is a "help wanted , ask for manager" sign . So we go through the drive thru I get two happy meals and two job applications. Give the Happy Meals to the kids , and the job apps to the adults and drive off.
Posted on 11/28/17 at 8:35 am to Methuselah
Damn after reading this thread I feel like a dick for assuming most folks standing on the roads with signs are paid bums.
Posted on 11/28/17 at 8:38 am to Methuselah
Whenever I can, yes. Why not? It could easily be me or someone I know in that position. To think otherwise I think is to not recognize or even appreciate what you have and have been given in life. It’s a small thing, and I don’t announce it when I do, but yeah, why wouldn’t anyone if they can make a difference in someone else’s life? What am I doing on this planet, accumulating a big pile of dirt to be king of?
Posted on 11/28/17 at 8:40 am to 50_Tiger
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Damn after reading this thread I feel like a dick for assuming most folks standing on the roads with signs are paid bums.
Actually if you don't assume that you're dumb. Shouldn't have to, but yeah it's a safe bet that most of the people on the side of the road begging money are scammers.
Posted on 11/28/17 at 8:41 am to 50_Tiger
They are, people are awful. I used to do some volunteer work during Thanksgiving, and it just made me really hate people even more. For every grateful older person who was happy to get a box of food, there were three trashy as frick people who were pissed that the free box of food they were just handed did not have the flavor of boxed stuffing they prefer.
frick panhandlers. There is an old guy where I live whose full time job is sitting on a corner begging for money at red lights. I have never seen him without a cig in his mouth. frick that guy.
frick panhandlers. There is an old guy where I live whose full time job is sitting on a corner begging for money at red lights. I have never seen him without a cig in his mouth. frick that guy.
Posted on 11/28/17 at 8:45 am to Methuselah
I'm not one to donate money, however I have no problems donating labor to help someone out and have done so many times. I gutted several flooded homes for people I'd never met after Harvey this year. I also made several donations of food, water, and other supplies during that time and I usually will make donations to toys for tots during the holidays.
However, I don't go around buying things for adults who are responsible for their own financial pitfalls. I believe that as long as they receive handouts, they have less incentive to do better for themselves.
However, I don't go around buying things for adults who are responsible for their own financial pitfalls. I believe that as long as they receive handouts, they have less incentive to do better for themselves.
Posted on 11/28/17 at 8:47 am to Displaced
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They are, people are awful. I used to do some volunteer work during Thanksgiving, and it just made me really hate people even more. For every grateful older person who was happy to get a box of food, there were three trashy as frick people who were pissed that the free box of food they were just handed did not have the flavor of boxed stuffing they prefer.
frick panhandlers. There is an old guy where I live whose full time job is sitting on a corner begging for money at red lights. I have never seen him without a cig in his mouth. frick that guy.
Where I live there are TONS of churches, so at Christmas time every church has the same program as churches everywhere do, where they sign up poor families and have the children make up wish lists and then church members buy gifts for as many kids as they want.
Well, obviously there is only so much money to go around, so eventually all the churches got together and compared lists and what do you know, the same damn families were going to ALL the churches in town and many of the families were being chosen by multiple churches and getting gifts which meant others weren't getting anything. Simply because those families had nothing better to do then figure out how to scam systems and sign up early for every freebie being offered by anyone.
Pathetic.
Posted on 11/28/17 at 9:29 am to Methuselah
I very wary of charities. I will help through my church.
Giving of your time is just as important/helpful as money. I've been involved with tutoring reading and math to underprivileged teens here in the Memphis area for about five years. Once a week for a couple of hours.
Some these kids can barely read at a third grade level - and they're 13, 14, 15 years old. It's a sad commentary on the Memphis School system. There could be 1000 more volunteers tutoring the kids and it still would not be enough.
Giving of your time is just as important/helpful as money. I've been involved with tutoring reading and math to underprivileged teens here in the Memphis area for about five years. Once a week for a couple of hours.
Some these kids can barely read at a third grade level - and they're 13, 14, 15 years old. It's a sad commentary on the Memphis School system. There could be 1000 more volunteers tutoring the kids and it still would not be enough.
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