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re: Did your wife pick out her engangement ring or drop hints on what she wanted?

Posted on 9/14/17 at 8:56 am to
Posted by Bard
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Posted on 9/14/17 at 8:56 am to
We discussed it ahead of time.



Diamond with an amethyst (my birth stone) one one side and a citrine (her birth stone) on the other. #LSU
Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
76774 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 8:59 am to
quote:

Diamond with an amethyst (my birth stone) one one side and a citrine (her birth stone) on the other. #LSU



Posted by notsince98
KC, MO
Member since Oct 2012
22343 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:00 am to
Nope. She had zero input.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:00 am to
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I'm kinda sad the pic won't load due to Photobucket. I'd love to see how trashy that looks.
This post was edited on 9/14/17 at 9:15 am
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
172004 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:01 am to
quote:

Diamond with an amethyst (my birth stone) one one side and a citrine (her birth stone) on the other. #LSU


Sounds like this would be a CZ
This post was edited on 9/14/17 at 9:01 am
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
37483 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:01 am to
I knew her preferred shape of diamond, and that she wanted a solitaire. I picked the size of the diamond. It was pretty easy.
Posted by Trauma14
Member since Aug 2010
6583 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:04 am to
If she's not dropping you hints then she doesn't want to marry you...
Posted by TigerSaint1
Member since Apr 2014
1479 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:06 am to
I knew the designer she liked, we went and looked at some in the Jewelry stores and she tried some on. Later on I went back and took pics of all the rings she liked. A family friend is a Jewelry designer and I sent him everything. It came out way better than I thought. Ring would've been 20k in the store, I paid 9.5k.
Posted by DivotBreath
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Member since Oct 2007
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Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:06 am to
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I picked it out without any help from her. She loves it.


This is the way to go. It's been 18 years and wife still tells the story that I picked it out without any input from her whenever she gets a comment on her ring. When I purchased the ring, I did make sure the jeweler would give a full refund if she wanted to change the ring within 30 days . . . or if I had changed my mind about asking
Posted by BeauCephus307
Washington, LA
Member since Jan 2007
2678 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:09 am to
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If she's not dropping you hints then she doesn't want to marry you...


She's dropping hints just not about the ring type.
Posted by Trauma14
Member since Aug 2010
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Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:09 am to
Posted by FearTheFish
Member since Dec 2007
4559 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:09 am to
I got my wife's phone and looked at her Pintrest. She had an entire board for engagement rings she liked.

When I picked the "perfect ring", she thought I was a genius because I got exactly what she wanted. She had no idea.
Posted by iluvdatiger
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Jan 2004
43026 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:12 am to
I told him what style i liked and what kind of band i liked. He researched and picked out the diamond. Did a good job too. I get lots of compliments on my ring.
Posted by Chimlim
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Jul 2005
17774 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:13 am to
She hinted on what kind of ring she wanted. I got her something completely different and she loved it.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11638 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:14 am to
At a minimum, ask her which shape of stone she prefers.
Posted by Fachie
Magnolia
Member since Mar 2017
529 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:15 am to
After listening to several wives talk about how they secretly hated their rings, I says frick that. We picked it out together. Bunch of my buddies think they like the ring they picked out on their own.
Posted by LSUtiger89
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2007
4748 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:17 am to
I designed it and loves it. Kind of got a little input of what she liked, but I still designed it in the end and she loves it more then anything she picked out. At least that is what she has told me.
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
87748 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:18 am to
It helps a lot if you're serious enough about marriage that you can casually look at rings long before you're really going to get engaged. You may not be able to do what I did, but here's how it worked:

It just so happens my tailor is next to my jeweler, so I had her go w/ me one morning to pick up a jacket. Did the whole, "I want to look at this Rolex" thing (we'd been in once before together). I'd met with this guy probably 4-5 times in the month preceding, so my jeweler already had the ring I'd picked ready to go and knew I was coming that morning. He gave us the bullshite sell (how long together, etc.), convinced her to look at rings over my objection, and showed her the one I'd picked out among 4-5 others. She picked the design I picked, and that was that.

Jeweler already had the family diamond we were using the entire time. GF was shocked, she didn't even know I'd gotten the diamond yet.
Posted by pjab
Member since Mar 2016
5775 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:18 am to
Did she get engaged or win the Peach Bowl?
Posted by Krokodil
Member since Dec 2013
852 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:19 am to
It was a little of both. I let her pick out the gum ball machine and put the quarters in but it was kind of a crapshoot which one of those little colored eggs with the rings inside was gonna come out.....
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