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re: Did your wife pick out her engangement ring or drop hints on what she wanted?

Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:20 am to
Posted by BeauCephus307
Washington, LA
Member since Jan 2007
2678 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:20 am to
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At a minimum, ask her which shape of stone she prefers


I was trying to do that subtly the other day. She said "Talk to (insert best friends name) she knows what I want"

So now as soon as I do that she will know I'm looking.
Posted by crazycubes
Member since Jan 2016
5256 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:27 am to
She picked it out
Posted by mdomingue
Lafayette, LA
Member since Nov 2010
48668 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:27 am to
We went to pick it out together (in other words, she picked it out and I paid for it). We agreed what we wanted to spend, then when we talked to the first salesperson, the future wife promptly added $500 to the price limit .

That is probably the only time she has ever done that, celebrated our 25th anniversary this year.

Money well spent IMO.
Posted by HeyHeyHogsAllTheWay
Member since Feb 2017
12458 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:28 am to
Yep, I just set a price range and let her pick out her own ring. 3 months wages. That's the rule.


So, for the average OT'er that means a $2M ring.
Posted by Thracken13
Aft Cargo Hold of Serenity
Member since Feb 2010
19015 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:30 am to
nope - I knew she loved Emeralds, and was not a fan of Diamonds at all, so I found a sizable emerald ring in a nice setting and went with that.

Kay Jewelers sized it wrong, then had to send it off to get it sized right - then broke 1/3 of the emerald off, so we had to send it back again - she went a month after the proposal without being able to wear her engagement ring.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11638 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:36 am to
quote:

I was trying to do that subtly the other day. She said "Talk to (insert best friends name) she knows what I want"




It's hard to understand this. It won't be a surprise if she's coached her BFF to tell you what she wants, so why not just tell you herself?
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:37 am to
Congrats on the fiancé
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
72196 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:38 am to
I was given some parameters to work off
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Member since Jun 2009
89397 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:38 am to
quote:

So now as soon as I do that she will know I'm looking.


If she doesn't know you're considering popping the question, you may have bigger problems.

Posted by 19
Flux Capacitor, Fluxing
Member since Nov 2007
35690 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:39 am to
quote:

DO NOT BUY YOUR WIFE'S ENGAGEMENT RING OUT WITHOUT HER PICKING IT OUT.


This is the only answer.

Sorry, all you alpha wanna-bes, but something THAT important and PERMANENT needs to be EXACTLY what she wants.

Period.
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
72196 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:40 am to
That's not true at all. I know numerous happy married couples where the engagement was out of the blue.
Posted by ELVIS U
Member since Feb 2007
11935 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:41 am to
She was working at a jewelry store at the time so she picked out her own ring.
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
89397 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:42 am to
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That's not true at all. I know numerous happy married couples where the engagement was out of the blue.


I get the feeling your idea of out of the blue and what I'm talking about are two different things.
Posted by caliegeaux
Member since Aug 2004
12935 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:42 am to
i got lucky. we used my grandmother's holocaust ring.

Posted by Winston Cup
Dallas Cowboys Fan
Member since May 2016
66986 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:43 am to
1. size up her friends rings
2. get one bigger
3. ????
4.
Posted by winntiger
318
Member since Jul 2004
1456 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:43 am to
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Can we discuss equality for a moment... They're wearing a diamond that's the equivalent of a new car, and we get stuck with a washer off of a Bourbon Street urinal... how did that happen??


Haha at least give Nick Di Paolo credit. Great line and frustrating.
This post was edited on 9/14/17 at 9:44 am
Posted by Hu_Flung_Pu
Central, LA
Member since Jan 2013
22547 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:46 am to
Just got a list of things she liked and went from there. Fairly short. Sapphire accents, antique looking, Platinum, and not a solitaire,
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:49 am to
She hinted at the type of rings she liked most, so I already knew. Every time she said something though, I'd just tell her not to worry about it because if I ever propose I'm going to pick what I want, not what she wants. Which wasn't actually true, I just didn't want to feel like a ho
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112944 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:53 am to
No way in hell I was going to pick out a ring that she would wear for the rest of her life.

She picked it.
Posted by Box Geauxrilla
Member since Jun 2013
19221 posts
Posted on 9/14/17 at 9:58 am to
She picked out the design which made things much easier for me. I just had to decide on the diamond.
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