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Dear Facebook: need some advice with petty office neighbor drama

Posted on 11/21/19 at 9:58 am
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
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Posted on 11/21/19 at 9:58 am
OK so tis the season for gifts from all sorts of companies that either do business with me or want to do business with me. Last week, I was delivered (as in, personally delivered by an employee of the company to my hands) a gift basket by a title company. It was fancy sweet stuff.

My suite neighbor across the hall (long relationship with her over about 8 years) commented that she wanted the cookies, so I gave her the cookies. I left the bag on a corner table by my door.

Apparently, Monday (while I was out) my other suite neighbor (female owner and female employee that I don't know and haven't even really exchanged words with) came to my office looking for the package. My assistant answered and was told that the gift bag was meant for THEIR office, and they snatched it up. They were also made that I "ate all of the stuff" and left angry.

Do I try to buy some symbolic cookie gift to make up for the error, or just say frick it because they were rude? I was thinking of getting some gourmet cookies from a local shop but then when I heard they accused me of eating it all, I kind of want to get them some dollar tree cookies as as frick you.
This post was edited on 11/21/19 at 10:26 am
Posted by Ed Osteen
Member since Oct 2007
57483 posts
Posted on 11/21/19 at 9:59 am to
depends on what they look like
Posted by uway
Member since Sep 2004
33109 posts
Posted on 11/21/19 at 10:00 am to
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My assistant answered and was told that the gift bag was meant for THEIR office, and they snatched it up. They were also made that I "ate all of the stuff" and left angry.


People will want pics.

I doubt they were actually angry.
This post was edited on 11/21/19 at 10:01 am
Posted by terriblegreen
Souf Badden Rewage
Member since Aug 2011
9635 posts
Posted on 11/21/19 at 10:00 am to
How about do nothing. It's just a fricking gift basket. Who gives a shite?
Posted by BHM
Member since Jun 2012
3150 posts
Posted on 11/21/19 at 10:01 am to
Any such food items that show up at our office go in the kitchen for all to enjoy. You alone are not the only person at your company that makes everything happen so not sure why you think it all belongs to just you.

Share dog.
Posted by Philzilla2k
Member since Oct 2017
11070 posts
Posted on 11/21/19 at 10:01 am to
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People will want pics.

Hard to make a determination without pics
Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
22169 posts
Posted on 11/21/19 at 10:01 am to
I say you storm their office and get your gift basket back.
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 11/21/19 at 10:02 am to
Walk up onto the roof of the building and fling yourself off from it.
Posted by Draconian Sanctions
Markey's bar
Member since Oct 2008
84858 posts
Posted on 11/21/19 at 10:03 am to
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I say you storm their office and get your gift basket back.


Yup. time to lay down the law, baw.
Posted by Ed Osteen
Member since Oct 2007
57483 posts
Posted on 11/21/19 at 10:04 am to
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You alone are not the only person at your company that makes everything happen so not sure why you think it all belongs to just you.



they are suite neighbors, not co workers
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
Cajun Navy Vice Admiral
Member since Oct 2012
35319 posts
Posted on 11/21/19 at 10:04 am to
I have been contact by your neighbors about representation.



You can expect a demand letter by certified mail on Monday.
Posted by Tiger Prawn
Member since Dec 2016
21898 posts
Posted on 11/21/19 at 10:04 am to
Just tell them you were doing them a favor by eating all the cookies because they don't look like they need any extra calories.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
422473 posts
Posted on 11/21/19 at 10:05 am to
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I have been contact by your neighbors about representation.



You can expect a demand letter by certified mail on Monday.


Posted by FightinTigersDammit
Louisiana North
Member since Mar 2006
34670 posts
Posted on 11/21/19 at 10:05 am to
Threesome is the obvious answer.
Posted by tylercsbn9
Cypress, TX
Member since Feb 2004
65876 posts
Posted on 11/21/19 at 10:05 am to
Posted by ProjectP2294
South St. Louis city
Member since May 2007
70291 posts
Posted on 11/21/19 at 10:05 am to
quote:

personally delivered by an employee of the company to my hands


quote:

My assistant answered and was told that the gift bag was meant for THEIR office


Either the other people are lying or the employee screwed up. My guess is the other people are lying, but that's only because I think most people are trash.

Either way, you didn't do anything wrong, but a symbolic gesture of apology would be nice because you're dealing with women who will attempt to make your life miserable even though they are the ones in the wrong.
Posted by LPTReb
Member since Jul 2016
468 posts
Posted on 11/21/19 at 10:06 am to
“Bake them some cupcakes”

-Denny Perkins
Posted by uway
Member since Sep 2004
33109 posts
Posted on 11/21/19 at 10:06 am to
If single, I would treat them all to dinner at once.
Posted by LSUJuice
Back in Houston
Member since Apr 2004
17670 posts
Posted on 11/21/19 at 10:06 am to
Yeah I'd get them a makeup gift. Apologize for the misunderstanding, but make sure they know it wasn't your fault. You still have to be suite neighbors with these people. Size/expense of said makeup gift definitely depends on hotness.
Posted by shankedshot
Wham
Member since Oct 2019
233 posts
Posted on 11/21/19 at 10:07 am to
Resign and go find a company where your cookies are safe.
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