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re: Daughter overuses the word "like"

Posted on 12/13/25 at 2:46 pm to
Posted by cattus
Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 12/13/25 at 2:46 pm to
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Her and every other teenage daughter that speaks English around the World, just their vernacular
FIFY in fact it's not only teenage girls but adults of both sexes around the world when speaking English whether it's their mother tongue or not.

It started to get really bad in the late 90s and I fought hard to stop it but I had no idea that it would get much worse and become one of our worst exports.
This post was edited on 12/13/25 at 2:48 pm
Posted by PetroBabich
Donetsk Oblast
Member since Apr 2017
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Posted on 12/13/25 at 2:51 pm to
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As an employer of mainly 18-23 year old women


Pics?
Posted by Strannix
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Member since Dec 2012
52879 posts
Posted on 12/13/25 at 2:55 pm to
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ummm


In college speech class any umm was a letter grade drop in our weekly presentation. I cringe when an adult uses this in a business setting.
Posted by ProbyOne
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2004
1943 posts
Posted on 12/13/25 at 2:57 pm to
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n college speech class any umm was a letter grade drop in our weekly presentation. I cringe when an adult uses this in a business setting.


Umm has a place

Not in presentations though
Posted by Ponchy Tiger
Ponchatoula
Member since Aug 2004
48826 posts
Posted on 12/13/25 at 2:58 pm to
Be thankful if she isn't saying that stupid 6-7 shite. Take that as a win and move on.
Posted by ob1pimpbobi
College Station
Member since Jul 2022
2982 posts
Posted on 12/13/25 at 3:12 pm to
My college daughter uses the word lowkey so much I’ve lost track. It’s annoying
Posted by lsugorilla
PNW
Member since Sep 2009
6489 posts
Posted on 12/13/25 at 3:15 pm to
She’ll like grow out of it bruh
Posted by BigLSUNut
Prairieville, La.
Member since Oct 2007
1469 posts
Posted on 12/13/25 at 3:19 pm to
Had a daughter and nieces at that age over using like.
If she said it was like 9:00, I would say 9:15?
If she said there were like 10 people there, I would say 9?

She grew weary and eventually quit saying it in front of me.
Posted by soccerfüt
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Member since May 2013
72778 posts
Posted on 12/13/25 at 3:21 pm to
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I always heard that strip club managers can dock their girls' pay if they're late or miss a shift without technically violating any employment laws. How do you do it at your club?
jmarto keeps his pimp hand skrong
Posted by soccerfüt
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Member since May 2013
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Posted on 12/13/25 at 3:23 pm to
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My college daughter uses the word lowkey so much I’ve lost track.
Gonna need pics of her to guide us in our lowkey advice to you on a path forward.

TIA
Posted by TrueTiger
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Member since Sep 2004
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Posted on 12/13/25 at 3:26 pm to


Like Totally!


Posted by TT9
Global warming
Member since Sep 2008
90480 posts
Posted on 12/13/25 at 3:27 pm to
I've had it with the "Super" bullshite, super this super that.


Can anyone be different anymore?
Posted by awestruck
Member since Jan 2015
13297 posts
Posted on 12/13/25 at 3:30 pm to
Might try recording her and then ask if that's how she really wanted to sound.

My dad did that to slow me down. I was a non-stop full steam ahead and it helped.
Posted by 6R12
Louisiana
Member since Feb 2005
11531 posts
Posted on 12/13/25 at 3:34 pm to
She will swap to UMMM when she's in college. Just saying.
Posted by Kirby59
Rocket City
Member since Nov 2016
972 posts
Posted on 12/13/25 at 3:37 pm to
“Like” to millennials is the same as “you know” to boomers.
Posted by solid_citizen
Member since Jun 2022
80 posts
Posted on 12/13/25 at 3:44 pm to
I had a teacher in 2nd grade that would interrupt and ask”like what?” every time one of us of said “like”…. Same with “so” and “um”. Other students started doing the same and it became a game. Within 2 weeks the class was cured of filler words and we were all conscious and ridded of the dreaded like, um and so disease.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
120102 posts
Posted on 12/13/25 at 3:47 pm to
When I was in middle school we had an English teacher that gave us a weekly assignment where we had to get in front of the class and talk about whatever the assignment was and if you said like... "its like when" "its like how".. We would have to start over from the point we were on. In the beginning of the year everyone would have to start over 3 or 4 times, it was frustrating. It was everyone's least favorite class.. By the end of the year the assignments wasn't hard at all and you didn't worry about saying "like" because some shite is this or that, its not like anything.

Try that with her. Ask her to try saying some shite without saying like. Either reward or punish in some way every time she does it.

Give her $100 in $5s. But tell her you will do an assignment where every time she messes up she has to pay you $5. Do it over a few months and she will get better with not saying.
Posted by WoodCrafter
Member since Jan 2010
1070 posts
Posted on 12/13/25 at 4:10 pm to
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My teenage daughter uses the word "like" multiple times in every sentence and it's driving me bonkers. I've tactfully brought it to her attention several times, worked with her to slow things down but it seems as if it's just getting worse, akin to a Tourette's tick. It's so bad that it's hard to follow along with what she's saying. Is there anything that can be done?


I broke my Niece of that by pulling the the old "Say like again monkey fighter" thing on her, she looked at me like grew another head but she stopped that, plus her Dad and my Dad and me all high fived and shite
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
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Posted on 12/13/25 at 4:16 pm to
There's a reason fathers used to offer livestock as a dowry to get someone to marry their daughters
Posted by Motownsix
Boise
Member since Oct 2022
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Posted on 12/13/25 at 4:23 pm to
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My teenage daughter uses the word "like" multiple times in every sentence and it's driving me bonkers. I've tactfully brought it to her attention several times, worked with her to slow things down but it seems as if it's just getting worse, akin to a Tourette's tick. It's so bad that it's hard to follow along with what she's saying. Is there anything that can be done?


A nervous coping system could be the blame and making the remedy more challenging.
Typically vocabulary and speaking style is strongly influenced by the parents. The number of words children use in their working vocab comes from home. Some of how kids talk through development is mimicking their peer groups.
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