re: Dating question for the ladies?

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where do you find women that stay fit

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Long distance runners is the answer you are looking for.

What is that the plot of?

If a girl is testing you by rejecting you, she’s playing games.
Save yourself and move on.
Also, I’ve never heard of this tactic.

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where do you find women that stay fit

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Same place where you find men that stay fit

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Restraining order?

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tigergirl10

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Whats hangin sugar?

Quite possibly

Plenty of women have gay men friends

But you might know better than me

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Women are different then men in that they are not immediately attracted based on visual cues like guys are. Guys can take one look at a woman for 1 second and know if they are attracted. Women's attraction takes a lot longer to develop so they do things like test guys they are trying to feel out and rejection is one of those ways to do it.

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I think the majority of women know within short order whether or not they would sleep with you. Now having said that and I think this applies to both men and women after they get to know you better their opinions may change. But again I think today’s women aren’t a lot different than men.

OP I think the correct answer is move on. If there is a way to keep things in the friend zone maybe she will see something in you that she overlooked. I honestly would need more details such as how long have you known this girl, etc. Getting turned down by someone you know well is different than getting turned down by some woman you just met.

op listen to me. many men like you were exactly in your shoes, and there is no way to say how bad it can go.

in the end all you can say is "it could have been worse".

but let me put myself in your shoes.

i am young and mad. And very attractive so maybe not exactly in your shoes.

I did commit once. but i also did something im very proud of. I dumped her soon, for no other reason than, wanting my life to be the best and the fullest, and never give up freedom for safety and comfort.

and dumped also other girlfriends for no specific reason. or even expected them to dump me dude.

I've learned it's always better to bang more girls, and stay sharp, than to become monogamous with 1. There are so many bad things for a man to commit, and even worse cohabitation. And i mean it in the sense of your development, your health, your energy. everything you can think of dude.

Why did i dump her, if i was in a good "comfortable" relationship?

dont you know how the Romans got weak? they started building too many walls. And instead of fighting, they just hide inside their forts. i read a lot of history and watch a lot of youtube history videos when I'm not watching nba

so thats how I learned how a man stays strong. and isnt that the natural habitat of the strong man. no walls. so its beyond me how any man knowing this, in our "easy to know" modern era, still falls for the trap of living inside 4 walls with a woman.

its like they want to lose, know what I mean dude?

Sms

so contrary to those telling you to believe in illusions of asking out this girl over and over.

i say dump her ASAp from your thoughts.

regardless of what her programming will make you believe, or what your instincts and lazyness will tell you to do.

get what you want and move. You cant lose that way. Be smart though dude. I'm begging you

the experience that you crave, sure, should not be ignored. Because otherwise you will be saying "Damn you mr perfect why did i listen to you, she was all i wanted."

listen bro if she is all you want then you will certainly not be able to stand your ground.

and not even her you will have. And all those girls around you that you want to bang will all be gone too.

and when later on after a year or 2 of cucking, and you are all rusty, then this so called unicorn will be gone too. thats the pattern of life that I've learned from many zoomer relationships I've witnessed

But it doesnt seem the case, since you seem smart and you question if thats the smart decision.

it isnt the smart decision. And i tell you why...

You are young like me, and we must experience.

so no my guy you should never commit, you falling for monogamy is the winning end of women game. But your absolute demise.

you should go and experiment, and never let yourself get attached to one woman.

the more you do that. The more you will know, and the stronger you will be. and the more successful and attractive you will be too, even for that one girl that will hate it, if you do it.

but if you cower below the skirt of this woman, you will become weak, and even her will sense that. and then there is zero chance for you dude

snd in some years, that will end too. and you will only have yourself to blame, for allowing yourself to take comfortable easy solutions and building walls and being stuck on this one girl


so my frnd I say stay free. Go experiment. you are in a jungle, only weak men will not stay on the move. a lot of weak fat married men here dude do not follow thier path

My sister turned my BIL down a few times because she thought he was too much of a party animal. They've been married over 10 years now with 4 kids. Good guy.

Sad thing is, you believe all that horseshite.

Tbh, TLDR all of it......you tip your hand early enough.