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Dating question for the ladies?
Posted on 9/14/20 at 9:53 pm
Posted on 9/14/20 at 9:53 pm
If a guy ask you out, and you turn him down, do you like it when he continues to pursue you? I read where an athlete married his wife after refusing to take no for an answer when he was trying to go out with her.
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Posted on 9/14/20 at 9:55 pm to Cycledude
No always means yes.
Posted on 9/14/20 at 9:55 pm to Cycledude
She’s not into you. Move on. It’ll be ok.
Posted on 9/14/20 at 9:55 pm to Cycledude
Are you attractive?
Then yes
Are you ugly?
Then restraining order.
Then yes
Are you ugly?
Then restraining order.
Posted on 9/14/20 at 9:55 pm to Cycledude
Yes. They love it. If they didnt, why are there so many movies about it? Don't give up dude. Keep trying even if she keeps telling you no. Bitches get wet on determination. Its just her way of flirting
Posted on 9/14/20 at 9:57 pm to Cycledude
Not a woman but I can answer this. It depends. If you act like you give a shite that she turned you down and seem needy, she will view it as a turn off
If you act like its no big deal and give no fricks that she rejected you and go out and pursue other women, she will wonder why you were able to get over it so quickly and start to wonder if there is something wrong with her and then perhaps she will try to prove herself to you and try to draw you back in
It all comes down to how invested you are in her. If she knows you are too invested, turn off. If she thinks you aren't invested at all in her, she may be open to giving you a second look.
Take it from me. I went on some dates with a girl a few years ago, she called it off, and I acted like a whiny bitch about it. I tried to win her back and all of that and it just pushed her further away.
I learned my lesson. I went on a couple dates with a girl a few months later, and she also called it off. I simply said "OK" and acted like it was no big deal and went back out there. Even though I was secretly disappointed, I didn't let it affect me outwardly. I didn't try to win her back, I didn't try to ask why, I didn't try to get answers from her. I just let it be. Guess who came crawling back a few days later?
If you act like its no big deal and give no fricks that she rejected you and go out and pursue other women, she will wonder why you were able to get over it so quickly and start to wonder if there is something wrong with her and then perhaps she will try to prove herself to you and try to draw you back in
It all comes down to how invested you are in her. If she knows you are too invested, turn off. If she thinks you aren't invested at all in her, she may be open to giving you a second look.
Take it from me. I went on some dates with a girl a few years ago, she called it off, and I acted like a whiny bitch about it. I tried to win her back and all of that and it just pushed her further away.
I learned my lesson. I went on a couple dates with a girl a few months later, and she also called it off. I simply said "OK" and acted like it was no big deal and went back out there. Even though I was secretly disappointed, I didn't let it affect me outwardly. I didn't try to win her back, I didn't try to ask why, I didn't try to get answers from her. I just let it be. Guess who came crawling back a few days later?
Posted on 9/14/20 at 9:57 pm to Cycledude
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I read where an athlete married his wife after refusing to take no for an answer when he was trying to go out with her.
Athletic, in shape millionaires can get away with that.
Posted on 9/14/20 at 9:58 pm to Cycledude
quote:
If a guy ask you out, and you turn him down, do you like it when he continues to pursue you? I read where an athlete married his wife after refusing to take no for an answer when he was trying to go out with her.
This is a long shot unless you’ve got serious game.
You’ve got to pursue with confidence, not desperation, and then maybe, MAYBE,,,,
Posted on 9/14/20 at 9:59 pm to Tiguar
quote:
Are you wealthy?
Then yes
Are you poor?
Then restraining order.
Posted on 9/14/20 at 9:59 pm to Cycledude
I wouldn't chase anyone. There's always someone else.
Posted on 9/14/20 at 10:00 pm to WestCoastAg
1985: No means Yes
2020: If she says no, move on to someone else
2020: If she says no, move on to someone else
Posted on 9/14/20 at 10:03 pm to fallguy_1978
quote:
I wouldn't chase anyone. There's always someone else.
This.
Sorry but it’s true.
Posted on 9/14/20 at 10:03 pm to Cycledude
She probably later found out he was a professional athlete 
Posted on 9/14/20 at 10:03 pm to ShaneTheMaster
Girls love this shite. She might not be into you but enjoys the attention. Plus she gets to gloat about having a stalker
Posted on 9/14/20 at 10:04 pm to RICHIE APRILE
A girl rejecting you can be a test. She wants to see how you react. If you are a bitch about it then you failed the test. If you give no fricks that she rejected you, you have passed the test.
It's not always like this, she will reject guys she has no interest in as well and in that case there is nothing you can do. But sometimes she rejects guys she is unsure about to test them. Women are different then men in that they are not immediately attracted based on visual cues like guys are. Guys can take one look at a woman for 1 second and know if they are attracted. Women's attraction takes a lot longer to develop so they do things like test guys they are trying to feel out and rejection is one of those ways to do it.
It's not always like this, she will reject guys she has no interest in as well and in that case there is nothing you can do. But sometimes she rejects guys she is unsure about to test them. Women are different then men in that they are not immediately attracted based on visual cues like guys are. Guys can take one look at a woman for 1 second and know if they are attracted. Women's attraction takes a lot longer to develop so they do things like test guys they are trying to feel out and rejection is one of those ways to do it.
Posted on 9/14/20 at 10:07 pm to Cycledude
It’s her code way of saying call and text me 40 times a day
Posted on 9/14/20 at 10:09 pm to Cycledude
I was expecting this to be a Boo Krewe thread
This post was edited on 9/14/20 at 10:10 pm
Posted on 9/14/20 at 10:10 pm to Cycledude
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This post was edited on 9/24/20 at 6:12 pm
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