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re: Couples who decide not to have kids.

Posted on 8/4/14 at 9:50 am to
Posted by meauxjeaux2
watson
Member since Oct 2007
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Posted on 8/4/14 at 9:50 am to
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We can't predict what will occur after the baby, but we can control the situation that we are in before it arrives, and I'd like that situation to be as stable as possible.

this is what this thread is about,not where he's trying to steer it to.
This thread is about making the conscious decision to have kids,not what could happen in the future.
Posted by meauxjeaux2
watson
Member since Oct 2007
60283 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 9:52 am to
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Just find the financial stability argument weak.

but you throw out scenarios about things that could happen after the kids are born as if anyone has control over those things

This thread is about making the decision to/not to have kids.
Posted by Jack Bauer7
Member since Jun 2012
5174 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 9:54 am to
if yall both didn't want them then that's great, nothing wrong with that...

enjoy life without them and watch your other friends pull their hair out
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
37045 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 9:55 am to
So you're fine with people who can't pay their bills having as many kids as possible? They shouldn't factor in the fact that other people will be supporting their kids? If they want more kids, they should just give it no other thought and have as many as they want?
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
38036 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 9:57 am to
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This thread is about making the decision to/not to have kids.


right, I just believe a financial argument is a poor factor in the decision. Either you want them or you don't. its pretty simple.
Posted by Bard
Definitely NOT an admin
Member since Oct 2008
59194 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 9:59 am to
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No medical reasons not to have them. Loves kids, nieces, nephews, etc. but just mutually decided to enjoy life and grow old with no kids. Will they regret it later in life or not?


Possibly, but it wouldn't be until the very end. The longer you live, the more of your peers that pass away. For those that live very long lives, the loved ones there with them at the end are usually their kids and/or grandkids.

I believe that's stretching the coverage of the OP's question a bit, but it's about all I could think of if my wife and I decided not to have kids.
Posted by meauxjeaux2
watson
Member since Oct 2007
60283 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 9:59 am to
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Either you want them or you don't.
bruh

But,you know what. There's an entire culture that believes exactly that. And i see it everyday,you know,those who feel as you do.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
38036 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 10:02 am to
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There's an entire culture that believes exactly that.


explain
Posted by REB BEER
Laffy Yet
Member since Dec 2010
18051 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 10:03 am to
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Kids are fricking annoying and I can't figure out why anybody would want them. Yes, ALL kids. YOUR kids. They're annoying.


Maybe your parents should have opted to not reproduce.
Posted by meauxjeaux2
watson
Member since Oct 2007
60283 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 10:03 am to
nope,done here
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
38036 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 10:04 am to
understood
Posted by OceanMan
Member since Mar 2010
23191 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 10:10 am to
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Others could want to enjoy tax benefits or insurance benefits,

I'm obviously out of the loop.


I got married this year, and I can count 3 things off the top of my head that I will pay more in taxes being married than if we weren't, and income tax rate is basically a wash, no material difference.
Posted by OceanMan
Member since Mar 2010
23191 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 10:15 am to
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Why don't you file single then? If you and your wife make a lot of money and don't have write-offs then yes, it could be more tax being paid.
quote:


Married filing separately gets the worst tax treatment out of all groups.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
38036 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 10:16 am to
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Married filing separately gets the worst tax treatment out of all groups.


This fo sho!!
Posted by chryso
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
13743 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 10:18 am to
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a couple not having kids doesn't really affect me.


America needs future tax payers.
Posted by OceanMan
Member since Mar 2010
23191 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 10:31 am to
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Several people have said this already. It seems a really selfish reason to have kids.


Its the reason people might regret not having kids, not the reason to have them. That is the topic.
Posted by CaptainPanic
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Member since Sep 2011
25582 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 10:40 am to
What would you do if your kid came out like this

Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33963 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 10:42 am to
A better question is why do degenerate couples have kids? They're doing the world a greater dissesrvice by putting more degenerates in the system.
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
20293 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 10:43 am to
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Possibly, but it wouldn't be until the very end. The longer you live, the more of your peers that pass away. For those that live very long lives, the loved ones there with them at the end are usually their kids and/or grandkids.

yeah, and you are rolling the dice on whether your kids will actually take care of you when you are old.

My father shoved his mother into a home, and visited maybe 2x a year. I visited almost as much as he did. She died all alone, despite having 2 kids.

My mother lives in the same town as her mother, and visits daily.

I love kids, I just can't handle the responsibility. having a cat feels like soul crushing responsibility some time, and she is an adult cat that is well behaved.
Posted by OceanMan
Member since Mar 2010
23191 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 10:47 am to
Because those couples were never mature enough in the first place to consider whether or not they should or shouldn't do it.
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