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re: Co- worker has been paying child support for five years,just found out the baby isn’t his

Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:41 am to
Posted by rt3
now in the piney woods of Pineville
Member since Apr 2011
146233 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:41 am to
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Sure you could. Lock her in a tower for 9 months

"He gonna de-flower her in the tower"

Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
133127 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:42 am to



Drekkinggarhylur...the solution
Posted by TygerTyger
Houston
Member since Oct 2010
10728 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:43 am to
It would take every ounce of will power not to choke a bitch.
Posted by AbitaFan08
Boston, MA
Member since Apr 2008
27882 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:45 am to
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Another co -worker said he is still on the hook until she is 18 since he had signed an admission of paternity


Unfortunately, he's probably still going to be on the hook. The law tends to favor the welfare of the child over anything else, and a loss of child support would have a large negative impact on the child.

It's an extremely unfair burden on the male who signs an admission of paternity without knowledge he is not the father, but the courts deem that the welfare of the child supersedes his burden.
Posted by teke184
Zachary, LA
Member since Jan 2007
103104 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:45 am to
He’s screwed.

There was a pretty famous case of a serviceman whose GF got knocked up and he married her only to find out it wasn’t his and she was banking on him dying in Iraq to get his survivor benefits.

It was ruled he took too long to dispute paternity and had accepted the child as his own, so he was on the hook for the kid.
Posted by castorinho
13623 posts
Member since Nov 2010
86258 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:46 am to
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The dog did it!
Posted by RLDSC FAN
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
Member since Nov 2008
58640 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:47 am to
I had a good friend this happened to. He found out when the lil girl was 2, that she wasn't his. It destroyed him for years.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
63979 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:48 am to
Your co-worker is an idiot.
Posted by Big_Slim
Mogadishu
Member since Apr 2016
3979 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:48 am to
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There was a pretty famous case of a serviceman whose GF got knocked up and he married her only to find out it wasn’t his and she was banking on him dying in Iraq to get his survivor benefits. It was ruled he took too long to dispute paternity and had accepted the child as his own, so he was on the hook for the kid.


Holy shite

We need a Gillette ad to shine light on this issue.
Posted by Salviati
Member since Apr 2006
7053 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:56 am to
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Can a party cancel an acknowledgment?
An authentic act of acknowledgment may be canceled without cause under the following conditions (whichever comes first):
A person who signed an acknowledgment may ask the court to cancel the acknowledgment upon proof of fraud, duress, material mistake of fact or error, or that the person is not the biological parent of the child. An acknowledgment cannot be canceled without a court hearing.

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This post was edited on 1/25/19 at 11:01 am
Posted by Salviati
Member since Apr 2006
7053 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 11:00 am to
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2006 Louisiana Laws - RS 9:406 — Revocation of authentic act; with and without cause
§406. Revocation of authentic act; with and without cause


A. A person who executed an authentic act of acknowledgment may, without cause, revoke it before the earlier of:

(1) Sixty days of the signing of the authentic act of acknowledgment in a judicial hearing for the limited purpose of revoking the acknowledgment or declaration.

(2) A judicial hearing relating to the child, including a child support proceeding, wherein the affiant to the authentic act of acknowledgment is a party to the proceeding.

B. At any time, a person who executed an authentic act of acknowledgment may petition the court to rescind such acknowledgment only upon proof, by clear and convincing evidence, that such act was induced by fraud, duress, material mistake of fact or error, or that the person is not the biological parent of the child.

C. Except for good cause shown, the court shall not suspend during the pendency of this proceeding any legal obligations, including a support obligation, of the person who petitions the court to revoke or rescind the authentic act of acknowledgment under this Section.

Acts 2006, No. 344, §4, eff. June 13, 2006.
Posted by oogabooga68
Member since Nov 2018
27194 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 11:08 am to
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If he loves the kid, he should keep paying though.


His love for the kid isn't contingent on honoring an agreement that is fraudulent at its core.
Posted by DavidTheGnome
Monroe
Member since Apr 2015
31247 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 11:12 am to
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The question is, does the girl consider him her/his father?
Does the coworker love the kid?


These are the only two questions. If he raised the kid as his own what does it matter at this point? Imagine explaining to the kid dad doesn’t love you anymore because of a dna test. Mom was trashy for cheating but I’d look down on the Dad even more for abandoning what has been his child up until this point.
Posted by Tortious
ATX
Member since Nov 2010
5650 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 11:15 am to
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Pics of wife?


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I’ve seen her and you wouldn’t want too.


On my behalf and that of the OT, I kindly decline the suggestion and reassert the request for a self-assessment.
Posted by whoisnickdoobs
Lafayette
Member since Apr 2012
9352 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 11:15 am to
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I'm not saying I would have killed her...but I understand.


What about what the mans accustomed to? I accustomed to her sucking my dick 3 nights a week. She can have the baby, but I want some pussy payments.
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33873 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 11:16 am to
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He’s going to get an attorney. Another co -worker said he is still on the hook until she is 18 since he had signed an admission of paternity


What an idiot.
Posted by cyarrr
Prairieville
Member since Jun 2017
3956 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 11:17 am to
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He better hire a dang good attorney.


Doesn't matter, no attorney can help at this point, the court will determine what's in the best interest of the child. Unless the biological father agrees to step in, he's stuck like Chuck.
Posted by oogabooga68
Member since Nov 2018
27194 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 11:18 am to
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Mom was trashy for cheating but I’d look down on the Dad even more for abandoning what has been his child up until this point.


I think one can still fight this fraudulent legal decision while not abandoning ones' child.

I mean the point isn't abandoning, rather it's about not paying some whore a monthly sum to distribute at her discretion, right?
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
68469 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 11:20 am to

I'm going to say something controversial and hope I don't get a PM

These types of situations - fathers losing their children to terribly difficult mothers or in this case, by a mother lying for years - is why from time to time we see murder suicide stories on TV. In those cases, we almost always jump on the man for not having more guts. But if a man loves his child and feels he is having that love stripped away by a court or by a lie, well... Sometimes I get it. I wouldn't want to see it happen to a family, but honestly, I get it. Men snap when their minds feel there's nothung left to lose.

Women and courts need to take care of dads much better than they do in this situation. I imagine the OP/Friend is losing his mind.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
88185 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 11:23 am to
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if a man loves his child and feels he is having that love stripped away by a court or by a lie, well... Sometimes I get it. I wouldn't want to see it happen to a family, but honestly, I get it. Men snap when their minds feel there's nothung left to lose.


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courts need to take care of dads much better


everything you said is the reality of the family court system, I'm convinced that the perpetual screwing over of men by the family court is the sole reason there are metal detectors in court houses
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