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re: Co- worker has been paying child support for five years,just found out the baby isn’t his
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:17 am to BowDownToLSU
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:17 am to BowDownToLSU
LA RS 9:392 and 9:406 has a lot of info, if I remember correctly.
For some reason, I think an acknowledged pappy can revoke without cause for 60 days and with cause for 2 years.
He needs to speak with an attorney that handles this kind of shite. A good attorney will know about any form requirements, loopholes, etc that may allow your coworker an out.
However, I think your coworker is fricked. He'll be paying support for 13 more years, and he can't even file a wrongful death suit if the little one is killed by a dirty arse tortfeasor.
Timely blood tests are your friend, people. Louisiana doesn't have a "pussy had me a little fricked up in the head" defense.
Eta: Salviati's disclaimer; btw, you stupid if you get your legal advice from the ot
Eta 2: It appears that 9:406 has changed. The new version does not state that a baby daddy must revoke his acknowledgment within 2 years. Id assume that this law is prospective, which won't help this guy, but it definitely shows why you guys NEED TO GET AN ATTORNEY when shite happens.
For some reason, I think an acknowledged pappy can revoke without cause for 60 days and with cause for 2 years.
He needs to speak with an attorney that handles this kind of shite. A good attorney will know about any form requirements, loopholes, etc that may allow your coworker an out.
However, I think your coworker is fricked. He'll be paying support for 13 more years, and he can't even file a wrongful death suit if the little one is killed by a dirty arse tortfeasor.
Timely blood tests are your friend, people. Louisiana doesn't have a "pussy had me a little fricked up in the head" defense.
Eta: Salviati's disclaimer; btw, you stupid if you get your legal advice from the ot
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Eta 2: It appears that 9:406 has changed. The new version does not state that a baby daddy must revoke his acknowledgment within 2 years. Id assume that this law is prospective, which won't help this guy, but it definitely shows why you guys NEED TO GET AN ATTORNEY when shite happens.
This post was edited on 1/25/19 at 12:50 pm
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Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:18 am to BowDownToLSU
It’s only a presumption. He could get out of it. It’s not like he’s stuck.
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:21 am to macaronithepony
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I feel bad for the kid. Is this guy just going to not see "his" kid anymore? That is a sad situation
I don't think I could just turn it off after raising a kid as my own for 5 years.
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:21 am to TOSOV
quote:I mean there's two ways to look at this. I think legally he should have the OPTION to not care for this child, but if my wife came now and told me our 4 year old isn't mine, I'm already attached to the child wtf am I going to do?
Could be for sure. Sux arse for him. Fight it for sure though. This is the kind of anti-man thing that needs to be fought up to the SC.
Best of luck.
(I understand the difference, since we're married and I wouldn't have a choice but I'm speaking purely from an emotional standpoint, you already care about the kid)
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:23 am to Scoop
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Theoretically, absent a DNA test, no man could ever be 100% certain of paternity.
Sure you could. Lock her in a tower for 9 months
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:23 am to castorinho
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I'm already attached to the child wtf am I going to do?
Cut your losses and leave while you can.
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:25 am to fr33manator
quote:fr33, think about how much you love your kids. That wouldn't be an easy thing to do.
Cut your losses and leave while you can.
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:26 am to BowDownToLSU
I would sue her for the amount over 18 years
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:27 am to BowDownToLSU
Yep and he will have to continue paying till the kid is 18
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:29 am to BowDownToLSU
I would stop fricking working and get on food stamps if this shite ever happened to me. No way am I working 30% of the time for the government and 35% of the time to fund some hoe’s bastard.
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:30 am to BowDownToLSU
quote:This thread would do better with a visual aid for reference
Co- worker has been paying child support for five years,just found out the baby isn’t his
Owlie's Baby
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:31 am to BowDownToLSU
As bad as I want to feel for the guy who got fooled, I mourn for the child. Confusing times ahead.
This post was edited on 1/25/19 at 10:32 am
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:31 am to castorinho
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think about how much you love your kids. That wouldn't be an easy thing to do.
Of course...I love MY kids. Luckily i’ve Got strong genes and they both look just like me.
But having a betrayal rubbed in your face...I think it would just breed recentment...although it isn’t the bastards fault.
If only there was a way to punish the mother without hurting yourself or the child and not be on the hook financially for a child that isn’t yours...it’s a really screwed up situation.
Also
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:35 am to baldona
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He better hire a dang good attorney. Why would you sign something like that without getting a test done?
UNmarried couples have to do so. Married couples do not. You know this type of thing happens in marriages as well where the wife is a skank and gets knocked up by her boyfriend all the while the husband thinks it's his kid.
I don't fault the guy for signing it at all
Cut this baw some slack for getting involved with a trashcan.Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:36 am to BowDownToLSU
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Co- worker has been paying child support for five years,just found out the baby isn’t his
Somebody gone pay or die.
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:37 am to BowDownToLSU
quote:In Louisiana ... yep
He’s going to get an attorney. Another co -worker said he is still on the hook until she is 18 since he had signed an admission of paternity...... is this true?
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:37 am to PortHudsonPlaya
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He’s an idiot. Why would you ever sign that without a paternity test?
THIS!! Why would anyone do that???
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:38 am to TOSOV
quote:he had heard rumors that it wasn’t his so he had a DNA test done. I’m his supervisor actually the guy doesn’t make great money and pays $900 a month. He also has another child that lives with him
How did he find out btw?
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:39 am to BowDownToLSU
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the guy doesn’t make great money and pays $900 a month. He also has another child that lives with him
you need to either learn how to wrap it up or keep your snake in its cage
This post was edited on 1/25/19 at 10:40 am
Posted on 1/25/19 at 10:41 am to Scoop
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WTF is an admission of paternity?
Theoretically, absent a DNA test, no man could ever be 100% certain of paternity.
It should be called an assumption of paternity.
oh this is one of those terrible "policy decisions" made. the courts/lawmakers argue that this isn't about the mom/dad, but it's about the kids....so you can be stuck paying for a kid that isn't your's
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