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re: Can a guy and a girl to be "just friends" and "best friends" and not gay?

Posted on 5/1/14 at 11:04 am to
Posted by Darth_Vader
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 11:04 am to
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no. dude is just in the friendzone.

100 times out of 100, given the chance, the dude would have sex with the girl.


exactly
Posted by QJenk
Atl, Ga
Member since Jan 2013
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 11:05 am to
It is possible, I have had really good female friends whom I would never date in a million years. Nor am I particularly interested in trying to bang. Not that they are unattractive, but I look at them almost like family. Now, that's not to say I wouldnt bang, if we are both single shite can happen. But Im not actively trying to bang, because I have other girls for that purpose

Then you have female friends who are just completely unattractive. Love them to death but in a million years there is 0% chance of anything possibly ever happening.

In my eyes, there are 3 different type of girls
1. Hit it and Quit its
2. Friendzone girls
3. Wifey types

Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George, LA
Member since Aug 2004
80695 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 11:06 am to
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be honest, does her husband know you and her were banging before they got together??



He knows that we dated for sure, so I assume he knows we banged. He may not know the extent.



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You know SG would stick it in her again given the opportunity.


Not while she is married.
This post was edited on 5/1/14 at 11:07 am
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 11:07 am to
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I don't see how you can be that close to a woman you find attractive and just turn off all your instincts. Kind of odd.



Kind of. I'll admit that connection does matter to me for sexual attraction. There are hot girls I've met that I really don't want to be around at all once I get to know them. Similarly, some girls you find hot, in time, will become too comfortable for there to be much attraction.

The latter situation can change, as noted in this thread, in some situations. Like getting shitfaced.
Posted by Darth_Vader
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Member since Dec 2011
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 11:09 am to
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It is possible, I have had really good female friends whom I would never date in a million years. Nor am I particularly interested in trying to bang. Not that they are unattractive, but I look at them almost like family. Now, that's not to say I wouldnt bang, if we are both single shite can happen. But Im not actively trying to bang, because I have other girls for that purpose

Then you have female friends who are just completely unattractive. Love them to death but in a million years there is 0% chance of anything possibly ever happening.

In my eyes, there are 3 different type of girls
1. Hit it and Quit its
2. Friendzone girls
3. Wifey types


Thanks for giving further proof to what has already been said, that is if given the chance, any straight male would bang his female friends. Thus it's impossible for guys to truly be "just friends" with a female.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 11:10 am to
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Not while she is married.


You're in denial. If this girl called you crying after fighting with her hubby and needed a place to stay, you're going to stay away from that?

Posted by KG6
Member since Aug 2009
10920 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 11:17 am to
I can be friends with a buddies girlfriend and have absolutely no desire to be anything else.

I've never had a girl that was a friend outside of that circumstance that I wouldn't have jumped on if I had the chance.
Posted by Topwater Trout
Red Stick
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 11:21 am to
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There are hot girls I've met that I really don't want to be around at all once I get to know them


amen
Posted by Happygilmore
Happy Place
Member since Mar 2009
1835 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 11:21 am to
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You're in denial. If this girl called you crying after fighting with her hubby and needed a place to stay, you're going to stay away from that?


exactly.

and he says, oh yea he knows for sure. which i take as, "im pretty sure he knows, but not 100%, and i havent asked him because that would be inappropriate."

if you didnt tell him, which i assume you didnt, you think your really good girl "friend" who would risk losing her best friend say-"hey babe, yea we used to date, now we are just best friends."
Posted by QJenk
Atl, Ga
Member since Jan 2013
17593 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 11:29 am to
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Thanks for giving further proof to what has already been said, that is if given the chance, any straight male would bang his female friends. Thus it's impossible for guys to truly be "just friends" with a female.



There are some females friends who are fairly attractive, we are good friends. But they have dated/banged so many of my friends I would never ever try to hit, and I have had the chance multiple times with both girls. I just cant go for a girl that has been with one of my bros

I once had to turn down this OT 10, good friend of mine when she came over one night. I wanted to, but when your bf is an all-american LB who benches 450 pounds, you stay away by all means necessary.
This post was edited on 5/1/14 at 11:32 am
Posted by LSU alum wannabe
Katy, TX
Member since Jan 2004
27795 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 12:05 pm to
If the guy has capacity to hang out with a woman he finds unattractive enough to NOT sleep with then the woman is in the friendzone and it would not work from that angle.

There WOULD be a drunken night of regret/awkwardness.
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George, LA
Member since Aug 2004
80695 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 12:10 pm to
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You're in denial. If this girl called you crying after fighting with her hubby and needed a place to stay, you're going to stay away from that?



Absolutely. I have an extra room. She is welcome to stay there. There are some things you just don't do.
This post was edited on 5/1/14 at 12:11 pm
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
177373 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 12:16 pm to
Only if she's ugly. I'm friends with a fat girl.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Member since Jun 2009
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 12:20 pm to
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Absolutely. I have an extra room. She is welcome to stay there. There are some things you just don't do.


And when she wants to be comforted?

You could at least be honest. No one would judge you for it.
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George, LA
Member since Aug 2004
80695 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 12:40 pm to
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And when she wants to be comforted?

You could at least be honest. No one would judge you for it.


You can give someone a hug without fricking them.

I would never take advantage of someone's emotional state that way especially someone that I care about.

Unlike most of you on here, there are actually some decent guys in this world.
Posted by Ghostfacedistiller
BR
Member since Jun 2008
17501 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 12:41 pm to
It's theoretically possible, but realistically, 99% of time I'd say no.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
477256 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 12:42 pm to
i will say this for the 1,000th time on this issue

there is a huge difference between these 2 stances:

1. i want a relationship with this person
2. i would have sex with this person
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George, LA
Member since Aug 2004
80695 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 12:45 pm to
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there is a huge difference between these 2 stances:

1. i want a relationship with this person
2. i would have sex with this person




Absolutely
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
177373 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 12:46 pm to
Oh great wise one
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
89137 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 12:47 pm to
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You can give someone a hug without fricking them.

I would never take advantage of someone's emotional state that way especially someone that I care about.

Unlike most of you on here, there are actually some decent guys in this world.


You're avoiding my question. If that girl came to you while in a fight with her hubby, and she wanted to frick you, you're going to suit here with a straight face and tell me you wouldn't? And you really want us to believe that?

Like I said, you're in denial.
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