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re: Can a guy and a girl to be "just friends" and "best friends" and not gay?

Posted on 5/1/14 at 7:19 pm to
Posted by lsu480
Downtown Scottsdale
Member since Oct 2007
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 7:19 pm to
I am really good friends with a few of my exes and when we are in relationships we don't fool around with each other so its possible. I also have other friends that are girls in relationships that I sometimes meet up with but its always with groups and I wouldn't disrespect their relationship, or mine if I was in one at the time, by trying anything with them.
Posted by lsu480
Downtown Scottsdale
Member since Oct 2007
92903 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 7:36 pm to
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Most of my friends are attractive women. Only one of them would cause any temptation.



Do you have low T or something?
Posted by Cajun Revolution
Member since Apr 2009
44671 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 7:40 pm to
Damn. You're a horny old bastard huh lol geez
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
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Member since Jan 2005
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 7:45 pm to
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Do you have low T or something?


No...if I did, none of them would cause temptation. For the ones who don't it's just that my mind never goes in that direction.



This post was edited on 1/21/21 at 10:27 am
Posted by Turkey_Creek_Tiger
Member since Dec 2012
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 7:46 pm to
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Posted by Old Money
LSU
Member since Sep 2012
41799 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 7:57 pm to
No, and this is why. (And a lot of people see it wrong) Doesn't matter your current status with her or your relationship status. If you two had the right moment where a hook up would be possible, every man would do it. Say you're married - if you weren't, you'd hit it.
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Posted by Old Money
LSU
Member since Sep 2012
41799 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 7:58 pm to
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I think they can. I have become good friends with a couple of attractive girls in my math class and I'm pretty sure they only like me as a friend.


Invite them to go study
Supply alcohol
frick

Posted by Hulkklogan
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2010
43482 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 7:59 pm to
I can be friends with a chick that I wanna bang without it being awkward, but I can't be very close to her or the desire for more gets in the way. I am friends with a number of women that, should the opportunity arise, I'd have sex with, but I feel no desire to pursue them for sex or a relationship. Some of them are gay, some of them are not. Some are in relationships, some are not. But I see them occasionally and we don't talk outside of the occasions we are together, usually part of a group.
Posted by Cajun Revolution
Member since Apr 2009
44671 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 8:01 pm to
Poor Alexa. Missing out on all that friendship.
Posted by lsu480
Downtown Scottsdale
Member since Oct 2007
92903 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 8:02 pm to
Damn Cajun lowering the friend zone BOOM on Hogan! We need Jim Ross to call this one!
Posted by Cajun Revolution
Member since Apr 2009
44671 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 8:13 pm to
Posted by JombieZombie
Member since Nov 2009
7687 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 8:15 pm to
No. It will always end badly.
Posted by Turkey_Creek_Tiger
Member since Dec 2012
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 10:06 pm to
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This post was edited on 5/2/14 at 9:09 pm
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George, LA
Member since Aug 2004
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 10:10 pm to
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Damn Cajun lowering the friend zone BOOM on Hogan! We need Jim Ross to call this one!



Posted by Lester Earl
3rd Ward
Member since Nov 2003
290911 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 10:13 pm to
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yeah she is special.. as a friend. Its hard to explain, she is attractive yea.. but i never had thay animal instinct sexual attraction to her. It was like a brother sister relationship. We both are married "me for 7 yrs" and she for 3 years with twins. Still talk over text, but not meet up or nothing like that. I love my wife, my wife knows we are friends. Funny thing is i started dating my wife when i was 18, a year later my friend was a sr in high school and asked me to prom, my future wife was cool with it and i went with her. Its hard to explain, but its possible



so what do yall talk about?

I have female friends, but i dont think i could ever have a female best friend that isnt my SO. What exactly do yall have in common? What do yall talk about? I mean we are talking best friends here. Does this girl know everything about you?
Posted by jg8623
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2010
13533 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 10:21 pm to
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100 times out of 100, given the chance, the dude would have sex with the girl.



This is really the only answer
Posted by jg8623
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2010
13533 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 10:22 pm to
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i have some very attractive women friends that i am not sexually attracted to


wat
Posted by jg8623
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2010
13533 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 10:29 pm to
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yep. just b/c i think a woman is attractive/good looking doesn't mean i find them sexually attractive. Certain things can turn me off about a woman. Not having sexy eyes is a turn off and talking about crapping is a major turn off.

This does not mean I wouldn't bang them...i just don't have the urge or desire to





That makes zero sense

You admit they are attractive (which means your are attracted to them by addmitting they are attractive)

Then say you would still bang them, but you dont have the desire too

Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
73704 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 10:38 pm to
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The girl I'm seeing who I am very happy with, the only guys she actually hangs out with are gays. I hope it stays that way too.


My next door neighbor thought his old lady had her a gay BFF. He found out different when he found this gay BFF in his house, in his bed, balls deep in his wife.
Posted by Turkey_Creek_Tiger
Member since Dec 2012
12343 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 10:40 pm to
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This post was edited on 5/2/14 at 9:09 pm
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