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Can a guy and a girl to be "just friends" and "best friends" and not gay?
Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:17 am
Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:17 am
I think the sexual tension will be there and hormones have a way making things get weird at times. Do you have a best friend that is opposite sex and no hanky panky ever? I have a few life girls that are friends now that I am married and they are too, so we can be friends. Before it was too confusing. If I liked them and they were hot, must bang used to be my mentality. 
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:19 am to rebeloke
no. dude is just in the friendzone.
100 times out of 100, given the chance, the dude would have sex with the girl.
100 times out of 100, given the chance, the dude would have sex with the girl.
Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:20 am to Displaced
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100 times out of 100, given the chance, the dude would have sex with the girl.
Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:21 am to rebeloke
I can be just friends with a buddies GF, but a single girl and a single guy? Not likely gonna work.
Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:21 am to rebeloke
Find one of the girls good friends and start going after her. You'll be out of the friend zone shortly with that approach
This post was edited on 5/1/14 at 9:22 am
Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:21 am to rebeloke
i have some very attractive women friends that i am not sexually attracted to...i am very particular. No sexual tension for me.
Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:21 am to rebeloke
I have a lot of married female friends I have no sexual attraction to, even though they're relatively attractive. But I think that is just a getting older and not being that close to them (husband being the buffer). If I really got close to them, I imagine it would change.
I do have some good girl friends I'm not interested in. But they're not my best friends, nor are they particularly good looking.
I do have some good girl friends I'm not interested in. But they're not my best friends, nor are they particularly good looking.
Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:22 am to SouthOfSouth
But what if you are not attracted to the girl in the slightest? Would it still be considered friend zone? Or would one not even be friends with a girl they weren't attracted to?
Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:24 am to DosManos
Oh, it is possible but guys have moments of weakness and with alcohol it is possible to get beer goggles.
Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:24 am to DosManos
i had one in hs.. we were just friends. She was hot, but just wasnt anything other than friends. I stayed at her house multiple times, slept in her bed, just friends. She had boyfriends "who hated me" i had girlfriends "who hated her" We are both married now and still friends to this day. She was just more like a sister to me.. always has been, always will be
Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:26 am to oleyeller
Damn that is confusing.
Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:26 am to oleyeller
quote:In high school?
I stayed at her house multiple times, slept in her bed, just friends
Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:26 am to Topwater Trout
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i have some very attractive women friends that i am not sexually attracted to..
Can you really say someone is attractive but you aren't attracted to them?
I'm not buying that.
Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:27 am to rebeloke
Just bang to get it over with, then carry on.
"The only way to remove temptation is to give into it."-Oscar Wilde
"The only way to remove temptation is to give into it."-Oscar Wilde
Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:28 am to LNCHBOX
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Can you really say someone is attractive but you aren't attracted to them?
I'm not buying that.
Yeah me neither. If a girl is attractive, I will want to bang her.
This post was edited on 5/1/14 at 9:29 am
Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:29 am to rebeloke
I don't think it is possible. You guys need to read about The Ladder Theory. I swear by this now. It's long but worth it (that's what she said)
Ladder Theory
Ladder Theory
Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:29 am to rebeloke
Nope.
Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:30 am to oleyeller
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She was hot, but just wasnt anything other than friends. I stayed at her house multiple times, slept in her bed, just friends. She had boyfriends "who hated me" i had girlfriends "who hated her" We are both married now and still friends to this day. She was just more like a sister to me.. always has been, always will be
I had one of these. Then one night we got drunk and hooked up. Dated for over a year.
I don't see how you can be that close to a woman you find attractive and just turn off all your instincts. Kind of odd.
Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:33 am to Pettifogger
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This post was edited on 5/3/14 at 10:17 am
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