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re: Buying an engagement ring with your future fiancee present
Posted on 3/5/20 at 12:05 pm to Gaston
Posted on 3/5/20 at 12:05 pm to Gaston
quote:I can't imagine how shitty it must be to live your life conforming entirely to all of societal norms you feel you have to instead of, ya know, just doing whatever the frick you want.
So when she picks it out and they put it in the box and hand it over the counter are you in fact engaged right then? Does she just wear it out of the store?
How does it work when she picked out the ring? She get super dressed up every time y’all go out thinking this, surely, will be the night he gives me my ring?
Prayers sent
Posted on 3/5/20 at 12:05 pm to Cosmo
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part of the surprise of a proposal is being surprised seeing what ring looks like
Old timey crap here.
As others have mentioned, she's the one that has to wear the ring. You don't have to follow someone else's rules about how these things should go.
Posted on 3/5/20 at 12:06 pm to Cosmo
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Kind of a cuck move imo.
Unless she was paying for it
Posted on 3/5/20 at 12:06 pm to ColoradoAg03
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financing
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poor
Not necessarily. But 100% can't afford the ring and should buy something less expensive.
Posted on 3/5/20 at 12:06 pm to Cosmo
We went look at a bunch together so I could get an idea of what she liked, then I went back on my own and picked one so it was somewhat of a surprise
Posted on 3/5/20 at 12:06 pm to Cosmo
Is this a gaston bait thread? It worked
Posted on 3/5/20 at 12:07 pm to shel311
Your one job is to make that moment magical.
Deal with it how you want.
Go to the fricking jewelry store and look at the goddamn rings...if you have no idea what she likes maybe you shouldn’t be getting married.
Deal with it how you want.
Go to the fricking jewelry store and look at the goddamn rings...if you have no idea what she likes maybe you shouldn’t be getting married.
Posted on 3/5/20 at 12:08 pm to Gaston
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So when she picks it out and they put it in the box and hand it over the counter are you in fact engaged right then? Does she just wear it out of the store?
How does it work when she picked out the ring? She get super dressed up every time y’all go out thinking this, surely, will be the night he gives me my ring?
Whatever you 2 decide; you COULD propose but have a note in the box that says "you get to pick out your ring" and she wear it out of the store
Posted on 3/5/20 at 12:08 pm to Gaston
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if you have no idea what she likes maybe you shouldn’t be getting married.
If you ever know what a chick wants, that's not a chick, baw.
Posted on 3/5/20 at 12:08 pm to Cosmo
I'd be bitter at the world too if Kige got engaged before I did.
Posted on 3/5/20 at 12:10 pm to Gaston
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.if you have no idea what she likes maybe you shouldn’t be getting married.
how often do you get to discover the intricate preferences of engagement rings with your s/o?
this isn't like a dress or a blouse or something that is presented for review often
Posted on 3/5/20 at 12:10 pm to Norbert
Right, she’d probably hate the ring she picked out two years down the road...if you pick her out a ring she’ll never even consider her decision...because it wasn’t hers.
Posted on 3/5/20 at 12:12 pm to Gaston
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So when she picks it out and they put it in the box and hand it over the counter are you in fact engaged right then? Does she just wear it out of the store?
How does it work when she picked out the ring? She get super dressed up every time y’all go out thinking this, surely, will be the night he gives me my ring?
What is this garbage? I'll probably get a cheap placeholder or use a family ring when I ask, and then bring her so she can help pick one at the store. It's her ring.
Posted on 3/5/20 at 12:12 pm to Saint Alfonzo
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She's the one that is going to be wearing it. Nothing wrong with having her there to pick it out.
It’s a gift that shows whether or not you’ve been paying attention to what her preference are. If you have, you don’t need her present to pick out something she’ll love. It’s not a gift if she picks it out.
Posted on 3/5/20 at 12:13 pm to Gaston
quote:You're assuming it wasn't.
Your one job is to make that moment magical.
quote:Maybe you're into women's jewelry, cool cool, if that's your thing. I'm happy for you.
Go to the fricking jewelry store and look at the goddamn rings...if you have no idea what she likes maybe you shouldn’t be getting married.
Posted on 3/5/20 at 12:14 pm to SlowFlowPro
To be honest I bought what I thought looked cool, and I bought the diamond I wanted to...because it was perfectly square and completely colorless. 5.49 by 5.49. I never considered for a second she wouldn’t like it.
Posted on 3/5/20 at 12:14 pm to Cosmo
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but part of the surprise of a proposal is being surprised seeing what ring looks like.
Not if you're proposing to a woman.
Oh, she'll be all excited at first but that's the excitement of the engagement. Once she calms down she'll start looking at it in the light of what she would have liked more.
I had my wife's ring custom made but only after we had discussed in-depth what kind of ring she wanted (stones, settings, etc).
Posted on 3/5/20 at 12:15 pm to Gaston
quote:You sound like a keeper, not caring if she'd like it!!!
I never considered for a second she wouldn’t like it
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