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re: Best way to deal with a kid getting bullied?

Posted on 9/30/15 at 7:34 pm to
Posted by CHEDBALLZ
South Central LA
Member since Dec 2009
23355 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 7:34 pm to
Give him the bike..... When he goes to get on the bike push him over and give him the peoples elbow.
This post was edited on 9/30/15 at 7:41 pm
Posted by Rounder1
Member since Feb 2013
522 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 7:44 pm to
I only read the OP so this may have already been said by others.

What I was taught (nearly 30 years ago) was don't start anything but if someone starts it with you then kick their arse. The standing rule of the house was that if u followed that directive all was fine. But if u instigated it u got ur arse beat at home. If the other person instigated it and u lost out.... u got ur arse beat at home. I felt both sides of those consequences but they taught me well.

Posted by Yewkindewit
Near Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Apr 2012
22033 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 7:58 pm to
Tell your son to study his hands before responding to the bully. Would make a difference on the type of response.
Posted by SamuelClemens
Earth
Member since Feb 2015
11727 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 7:59 pm to
Teach em to punch hard as they can and they may get hit back but the bully won't pick on them again.
Posted by PurpleandGold Motown
Waltzing Between the Raindrops
Member since Oct 2007
24903 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 8:00 pm to
quote:

Teach em to punch hard as they can and they may get hit back but the bully won't pick on them again.


5 year olds. They will end up rolling around on the ground for about 20 seconds and someone might get his shirt collar stretched out.
Posted by theenemy
Member since Oct 2006
13078 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 8:03 pm to
Put him in Martial Arts.

He will learn how to handle conflict and be able to defend himself.


(Make sure it a reputable dojo and not some bullshite sport karate one)
This post was edited on 9/30/15 at 8:11 pm
Posted by LSUTANGERINE
Baton Rouge and Northshore LA
Member since Sep 2006
38468 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 9:36 pm to
Just alert the teacher. They are 4. They'll be best friends tomorrow.
Posted by beauchristopher
Member since Jan 2008
74143 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 9:41 pm to
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Talk to the bullys parents


I wonder if anyone has done this and what came of it...in the time of the meeting and afterwards.



Most of the parents of bully's are hearing nothing of it.. And get all defensive and upset..
Posted by whit
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
11080 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 9:50 pm to
Tell him if he gets aggressive to dig thumbs into eyeballs.
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25428 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 9:55 pm to
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Most of the parents of bully's are hearing nothing of it.. And get all defensive and upset..


I also think that it would make things worse. It gives the bully extra motivation and ammunition to single out the kid. You can't solve all your kids problems. It seems like a last resort if things seem really bad and probably should be done through the school. I guess it can be hard to judge when that is. A lot of kids internalize this stuff and won't communicate when they have had too much.
Posted by FelicianaTigerfan
Comanche County
Member since Aug 2009
26059 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 10:23 pm to
Careful what you tell them. My 10 yr old came home saying a black kid on the bus was constantly messing with him. Slapping the back of his head and getting in his face and just antagonizing him. I told him to punch the kid in the nose.


He failed to mention the other kid was in kindergarden.
Posted by LSUTANGERINE
Baton Rouge and Northshore LA
Member since Sep 2006
38468 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 10:25 pm to
quote:

Careful what you tell them. My 10 yr old came home saying a black kid on the bus was constantly messing with him. Slapping the back of his head and getting in his face and just antagonizing him. I told him to punch the kid in the nose.


He failed to mention the other kid was in kindergarden.

Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 10:27 pm to
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He failed to mention the other kid was in kindergarden.



that's a small detail
Posted by Prosecuted Collins
The Farm
Member since Sep 2003
7364 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 10:36 pm to
That was awesome!
Posted by vjp819
South Sec. 414 / Alex Box Sec. 210
Member since Nov 2003
10882 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 11:09 pm to
tell him to kick the kid in the nuts, then uppercut the frick out of him. he won't bully after that. oh give your kid a roll of dimes.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
80857 posts
Posted on 10/1/15 at 12:41 am to
Public school problems.
Posted by Cracker
in a box
Member since Nov 2009
19320 posts
Posted on 10/1/15 at 2:20 am to
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At that age, I wouldn't risk it. I would tell the teachers and they should probably have that boy removed from school.

Pre-K is what, 3 or 4? Your child is too young to be dealing with something like that.



Pussy move good god your gonna have a alpha male removed
Posted by Ed Osteen
Member since Oct 2007
59352 posts
Posted on 10/1/15 at 4:08 am to
Kill the bullies parents dog
Posted by harry coleman beast
Left Field
Member since Aug 2008
52619 posts
Posted on 10/1/15 at 5:39 am to
Tell him frick the kid up. The country doesn't need more pussies.

Of course tell your kid check the bullies hands first.
This post was edited on 10/1/15 at 6:08 am
Posted by KG6
Member since Aug 2009
10920 posts
Posted on 10/1/15 at 5:55 am to
Teach him a monologue of the most gruesome disturbing things he would do to the bully that a kindergarten child should never know. Like " if you don't get the f*** away from me, I'm going to stick my foot so far up you a** that it comes out your mouth. Then I'm going to toe punt your mother in the p***y so that you get a face full of mom muff. So go sit your a** in the corner until I tell you it's okay to play again". Two things could happen. Kid would freak and leave him alone, or it does nothing and someone will get to witness the hilarity of a 4 year old saying that.
This post was edited on 10/1/15 at 6:03 am
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