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re: Being There For A Parent That Abandoned You And Has Been A Source Of Pain Your Entire Life
Posted on 5/15/18 at 5:28 pm to LuckyTiger
Posted on 5/15/18 at 5:28 pm to LuckyTiger
I'd toss her a lit match when she's good and saturated with O2.
This post was edited on 5/15/18 at 5:29 pm
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Posted on 5/15/18 at 5:29 pm to SlowFlowPro
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what does that say about you if you foster similar resentment?
What if I don't want anything to do with the person and just want to forget they exist? I don't think that's resentment thats just getting the toxic out of your life.
Why should the siblings have to suffer the emotions of visiting their dying mother who abandoned them? Forget her and move on with your life.
Posted on 5/15/18 at 5:29 pm to OweO
I don't think very many people die wanting to be alone and without anyone supporting them. So I think its almost impossible to say that someone in that situation truly had a change of heart outside of their emotions from a looming death.
Given that, I'm not sure continuing to abandon a direct relative says a lot about someone personally no matter what they were put through by them.
Given that, I'm not sure continuing to abandon a direct relative says a lot about someone personally no matter what they were put through by them.
Posted on 5/15/18 at 5:29 pm to shutterspeed
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Maybe one of the many gentlemen of the OT would be willing to step into the role.
Haha yea, me!
I'm just hoping he OD's soon. At least then she'll have some closure as an adult. He's on rehab #4 and is only 31. It's only a matter of time.
Posted on 5/15/18 at 5:32 pm to baldona
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Given that, I'm not sure continuing to abandon a direct relative says a lot about someone personally no matter what they were put through by them.
It doesn't really say anything without knowing the backstory. There are perfectly valid reasons to not want relationships with people, even family.
Posted on 5/15/18 at 5:33 pm to LuckyTiger
Let her die miserable, alone, and painful.
Posted on 5/15/18 at 5:33 pm to baseballmind1212
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I'm just hoping he OD's soon. At least then she'll have some closure as an adult. He's on rehab #4 and is only 31. It's only a matter of time.
So you hooked up with a drug addict, conceived a child with a drug addict, and now act sanctimonious?
Posted on 5/15/18 at 5:36 pm to baseballmind1212
You seem like just the right amount of crazy.
How you doing?
How you doing?
Posted on 5/15/18 at 5:37 pm to LuckyTiger
Go to her. At that point it's about having no regrets in your life rather than your relationship with your mother.
I was in a similar situation but with my grandmother.
I was in a similar situation but with my grandmother.
Posted on 5/15/18 at 5:38 pm to LuckyTiger
I would show Up to Piss on her then pull the plug.
Posted on 5/15/18 at 5:39 pm to LuckyTiger
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To her, she is simply still her mother and she perhaps has a final chance at having some kind of meaningful connection before the mother dies.
She is going to be very disappointed. The mother will still be a piece of shite. She wants her children to "forgive" her so she can die without regrets. Or money. Or both.
I cut my relationship with my father as I have no chance of getting anything meaningful out of it. Dealing with him was unpleasant and each interaction was more unpleasant than the last. In the process, I gave him a chance to own up to the things he had done. He said it was all my fault. I am glad I cut him out, and I would advice the daughter not reconnect. She will only be hurt.
Posted on 5/15/18 at 5:40 pm to LuckyTiger
Sorry my life is too busy to accommodate you bitch. GFY
Posted on 5/15/18 at 5:41 pm to baldona
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Given that, I'm not sure continuing to abandon a direct relative says a lot about someone personally no matter what they were put through by them.
relationships are two sided. You get into them what you put into them. To expect someone to forget that when someone who has only taken needs more is just ridiculous.
Posted on 5/15/18 at 5:41 pm to LuckyTiger
My dad left when I was young. He named me sue
Posted on 5/15/18 at 5:41 pm to biglego
quote:"White people live and die alone" -- old Chinese saying
I never understood the blind loyalty to family
Posted on 5/15/18 at 5:41 pm to PurpleandGold Motown
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I was in a similar situation but with my grandmother.
lol there isn’t anything similar about that. Your grandmother didn’t give birth to you, she doesn’t owe you much
Posted on 5/15/18 at 5:43 pm to PurpleandGold Motown
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Go to her. At that point it's about having no regrets in your life rather than your relationship with your mother.
For sure don't ever follow this advice.
Posted on 5/15/18 at 5:43 pm to 13SaintTiger
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So you hooked up with a drug addict, conceived a child with a drug addict, and now act sanctimonious?
I'm pretty sure this is a guy and he hooked up with some chick with terrible decision making skills. And now he refers to the girl's kid as his own.
Seems like they both are terrible at decision making.
Posted on 5/15/18 at 5:45 pm to LuckyTiger
quote:And did they reconnect your hand?quote:But you reconnected right before he died?
My dad bailed on me and my sister and neither of us saw him until we were grown but he made it a point to interfere in our lives. One time he even cut off my hand
Posted on 5/15/18 at 5:48 pm to Epic Cajun
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I'm pretty sure this is a guy and he hooked up with some chick with terrible decision making skills. And now he refers to the girl's kid as his own.
Ah
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Seems like they both are terrible at decision making.
Yup
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