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re: Being There For A Parent That Abandoned You And Has Been A Source Of Pain Your Entire Life

Posted on 5/15/18 at 7:36 pm to
Posted by castorinho
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Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 5/15/18 at 7:36 pm to
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I have to deal with his affairs.
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He has no money
Hmmmm...
Posted by JohnnyTour11
Member since Sep 2011
1001 posts
Posted on 5/15/18 at 7:36 pm to
Fully support the son for saying to hell with her.
Posted by castorinho
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Posted on 5/15/18 at 7:39 pm to
I think it's easy for the people on the outside to say frick that bitch.
I think that's what I'd say, but I'm not as convinced as most of you guys are.
Posted by liz18lsu
Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
17302 posts
Posted on 5/15/18 at 7:43 pm to
No, frick her, she doesn't get to play puppeteer.
Posted by Saskwatch
Member since Feb 2016
16543 posts
Posted on 5/15/18 at 7:43 pm to
I'd send her a nice bouqeuet of flowers that said "Frick off, rot in hell, hope your last days on this world are filled with physical pain and misery"
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
68076 posts
Posted on 5/15/18 at 7:45 pm to
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What would you do?
Stand on her oxygen mask tube.
Posted by AUsteriskPride
Albuquerque, NM
Member since Feb 2011
18385 posts
Posted on 5/15/18 at 7:45 pm to
If she had shown remorse when the kids were 20, sure. But she didn't until on her death bed, and even tried to hurt them further by telling them how much of a whore she is. She can ponder that moment alone until she takes her last breath.
This post was edited on 5/15/18 at 7:47 pm
Posted by umop_apisdn
Member since Sep 2017
3673 posts
Posted on 5/15/18 at 7:46 pm to
Never met my dad, and never seen a pic of him. Abandoned by mom at 5, my grandparents raised me and both have passed over 10 years ago. it's been a long lonely road of pain.

Don't care about a MiA dad and part time mom, Cant miss a person you never knew.

Live your life, make the most of it for you and be the best person you could always be for your kids, do twice as much for them to help them have more than anyone else could ever have, need or want for their own good and to heal your history and troubles.

This is how you man up. At least it's how I handled it.

life isn't always easy, make the best of it.
Posted by liz18lsu
Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
17302 posts
Posted on 5/15/18 at 7:50 pm to
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umop_apisdn


Posted by Eightballjacket
Member since Jan 2016
7313 posts
Posted on 5/15/18 at 7:51 pm to
Your friends need to contact their fathers families and establish that they are kin.
Posted by liz18lsu
Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
17302 posts
Posted on 5/15/18 at 7:56 pm to
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Your friends need to contact their fathers families and establish that they are kin.


BS, my dad adopted me, HE is my "kin". I would never disrespect the man who raised me to find my spermdonor.
Posted by Meatball
Member since Sep 2009
4939 posts
Posted on 5/15/18 at 7:56 pm to
To hell with her!

She would die alone!
Posted by soccerfüt
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Posted on 5/15/18 at 8:02 pm to
I can sympathize, my parents abandoned me at the Grand Canyon.

Come to find out they were from Baton Rouge!

Posted by Geauxtiga
No man's land
Member since Jan 2008
34377 posts
Posted on 5/15/18 at 8:18 pm to
They are both right. Either choice any given person, under those circumstances, decided is ok.

Not sure what I'd do but leaning towards telling her too late, frick off.
This post was edited on 5/15/18 at 8:19 pm
Posted by shawnlsu
Member since Nov 2011
23682 posts
Posted on 5/15/18 at 8:21 pm to
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I have to deal with his affairs.
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He has no money
Hmmmm...

Which means I have to deal with Medicaid and the government for his healthcare. I wish he had some money so I could just dump it in his account as t the nursing home and tell them to draft it as necessary. Would be much easier.
Posted by LSUAlum2001
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Member since Aug 2003
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Posted on 5/15/18 at 8:22 pm to
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What would you do?


She made that bed years ago, and now she has to die in it.

Alone.
Posted by CrimsonTideMD
Member since Dec 2010
6925 posts
Posted on 5/15/18 at 8:34 pm to
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SlowFlowPro

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you get over it


You know, not everyone is half-Aspergers and can compartmentalize years of pint up emotions.

Just FYI.

As for the OP, I’d leave her to the bed she made for herself.

Like Pimp, I wasn’t blessed with decent parents. Every step I’ve made since I was a teenager was to create a life for myself and my family completely different than what I grew up with.

Posted by Sneaky__Sally
Member since Jul 2015
12364 posts
Posted on 5/15/18 at 8:36 pm to
It doesn't say anything about a person, its a unique situation every time. I would never think less of someone who said enough is enough so they wouldn't be hurt anymore after a lifetime of hurt. There is no way to know if the parent is being legitimate in this effort or not as they spent their entire lives eroding any trust their children may have had for them.

Hard to say if they are having a legitimate change of heart and want to apologize in a true and unselfish manner or they simply see the end and are trying to clear their own conscious in yet another self-serving manner.

That said, i think a conversation if they are seeking to apologize is worth hearing, certainly wouldn't go out of my way in any way shape or form to make them feel better about what they did or try and take care of them at the end of their live sin some manner.
This post was edited on 5/15/18 at 8:41 pm
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
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Member since May 2012
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Posted on 5/15/18 at 8:40 pm to
this sounds like the plot to a lifetime movie.
Posted by MrLarson
Member since Oct 2014
34984 posts
Posted on 5/15/18 at 8:48 pm to
She'd mean nothing to me and I'd hope she died alone.

A mother that abondens a child is a heartless bitch and deserves her comeuppance.

Embrace death alone, bitch.
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