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re: Being a teacher is tougher than any other job in the world

Posted on 7/30/18 at 1:51 pm to
Posted by High C
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Posted on 7/30/18 at 1:51 pm to
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I actually do have a clue. I know what parenthood entails - I was actually a child once with good parents who worked hard. Parenthood, and the responsibilities associated with it, isn’t some black box that we sometimes make it out to be. Parents remind you every day of how difficult it is. This isn’t a mystery


Now I really can't take you seriously. That's just a complete joke of a statement.
Posted by slackster
Houston
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Posted on 7/30/18 at 1:52 pm to
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I actually do have a clue. I know what parenthood entails - I was actually a child once with good parents who worked hard. Parenthood, and the responsibilities associated with it, isn’t some black box that we sometimes make it out to be. Parents remind you every day of how difficult it is. This isn’t a mystery


Everyone tells you you'll never understand the love a parent has for their child until you have one of your own. You actually get tired of hearing it when you're expecting your first. Then, by some miracle, you're caught off guard by how much more you love your child than you could have possibly imagined.

Parenthood is full of little things like that. You can appreciate the generic idea of parenthood, but you cannot understand the intricacies unless you're a parent yourself.
This post was edited on 7/30/18 at 1:56 pm
Posted by lsunurse
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Posted on 7/30/18 at 1:52 pm to
Sorry LNCH....not used to agreeing with you I guess
Posted by tduecen
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Posted on 7/30/18 at 1:52 pm to
Posted by shel311
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Member since Aug 2004
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Posted on 7/30/18 at 1:52 pm to
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So why does it need to be on badge?
I don't believe it "needs" to be on a badge.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
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Posted on 7/30/18 at 1:54 pm to
It doesn’t “need” to be...but a hospital may choose to decide to mandate that it is on all their badges.


Mine doesn’t....yet
Posted by Kvothe
Member since Sep 2016
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Posted on 7/30/18 at 1:55 pm to
You guys have gone way too far with this.

If teaching was that hard and that miserable, why would anyone continue to do it? Especially if you’re intelligent enough to do something else. Let’s be honest, probably 2-5% of teachers are actually “there for the kids”

It speaks volumes that they have to beg people to agree with them about how hard their jobs are constantly.
Posted by Rouge
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Posted on 7/30/18 at 1:57 pm to
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Being a teacher is tougher than any other job in the world

fair enough

based on this premise, teachers have the worst union in the history of the known universe
This post was edited on 7/30/18 at 1:57 pm
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
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Posted on 7/30/18 at 1:57 pm to
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Everyone tells you you'll never understand the love a parent has for their child until you have one of your own. You actually get tired of hearing it when you're expecting your first. Then, by some miracle, you're caught off guard by how much more you love your child than you could have possibly imagined.

Parenthood is full of little things like that. You can appreciate the generic idea of parenthood, but you cannot understand the intricacies unless your a parent yourself.


I think most, at least from the MSB, would know that I hate cliches and those mindless things we just go with just cause.


But a great many of the cliches of parenting/having kids are spot on. They were the same cliches I blew off before I had kids, but most of them are true. Keeping with the theme of this segment of the discussion, of course you can say you know that parents love their kids more than anything in the world even if you don't have a kid. But you absolutely cannot fully grasp it or know what it's like without having a kid. As pride said, that's just common sense.

Pecker is showing, I don't know if it's just immaturity or a lack of understanding of pretty basic concepts. But it's something along those lines.
Posted by Pecker
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Member since May 2015
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Posted on 7/30/18 at 1:57 pm to
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You can have an understanding, a very basic one, but you absolutely cant say "i know what its like to have kids" before you are a parent

That is far too general of a statement to make


I think we’re being a little pedantic here. I don’t think it’s necessary to get into the semantics of the word “understand.”

One doesn’t have to be x to have an understanding of what x is experiencing. To say otherwise is an attempt to shut down conversation because the next logical step is to suggest that one cannot speak on the issue because one doesn’t “truly” understand it. It’s a lazy argument.

If I have a specific opinion on parenting, it doesn’t matter if I’m a parent. My opinion is either a logical one or an illogical. My personal experiences play no factor.




Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 7/30/18 at 2:01 pm to
I just want it known that Pecker does not represent the rest of us non parents in the thread
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 7/30/18 at 2:01 pm to
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If I have a specific opinion on parenting, it doesn’t matter if I’m a parent. My opinion is either a logical one or an illogical. My personal experiences play no factor.



Except, I will guarantee you have opinions that would change with experience





Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112944 posts
Posted on 7/30/18 at 2:01 pm to
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One doesn’t have to be x to have an understanding of what x is experiencing
Disagree. I don't think it's semantics or pedantic, it's just an incorrect statement.

There is an actual meaningful difference between saying I understand it and saying something like I know it's tough or hard or whatever. That's not semantics, that's 2 completely separate thoughts.

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My opinion is either a logical one or an illogical.
Right, and your opinion that you know what it's like is illogical, like every parent and now non-parent is trying to tell you.
This post was edited on 7/30/18 at 2:02 pm
Posted by Pecker
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Member since May 2015
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Posted on 7/30/18 at 2:02 pm to
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Everyone tells you you'll never understand the love a parent has for their child until you have one of your own. You actually get tired of hearing it when you're expecting your first. Then, by some miracle, you're caught off guard by how much more you love your child than you could have possibly imagined.

Parenthood is full of little things like that. You can appreciate the generic idea of parenthood, but you cannot understand the intricacies unless you're a parent yourself.


I can understand that my love for children would change if I had a child. I don’t need to have experienced it to know that it’s a part of parenting. I don’t know what you mean by saying that I can’t “understand the intricacies.” If you explained those intricacies to me I’d understand. Again, I wouldn’t need the personal experiences to understand that those experiences exist and elicit particular feelings.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
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Posted on 7/30/18 at 2:03 pm to
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Except, I will guarantee you have opinions that would change with experience
that would be an emotional argument
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
21074 posts
Posted on 7/30/18 at 2:03 pm to
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My personal experiences play no factor.


Effective rhetoric relies on responding appropriately to the given situation and using all available means of persuasion. You might self-assess your logic as being valid, but you lack the ethos necessary to sway your audience.
Posted by ell_13
Member since Apr 2013
88425 posts
Posted on 7/30/18 at 2:05 pm to
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One doesn’t have to be x to have an understanding of what x is experiencing. To say otherwise is an attempt to shut down conversation because the next logical step is to suggest that one cannot speak on the issue because one doesn’t “truly” understand it.
Fully understand.

You may know what it's like to wake up in the middle of the night sick. But you don't know what it's like to do that for a 1 year old for a week and then have to handle going to work every one of those days in the middle of a turnaround living in a trailer because your house flooded.

That's obviously anecdotal, but you seemed to have trouble understanding the general argument as well. Can you have an opinion on parenting? Of course. Will all of those opinions be "wrong" because you aren't a parent? Of course not.

But parenting isn't some large general experience that people can just pretend to "get" without actually doing it. There are unique challenges that take place over years that are difficult to describe and understand unless you've done them. That's not lazy to say that, especially since it's true.
Posted by Zappas Stache
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Member since Apr 2009
43536 posts
Posted on 7/30/18 at 2:05 pm to
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All this time I thought being a lumberjack, a sanitation worker, a roofer, working on an oil rig, managing deepwater drilling projects, a firefighter, search and rescue, prison guard, Alaskan Crab fishermen, a farmer, an astronaut, etc. were difficult jobs. Little did I know how difficult teachers have it.




True those are tough jobs but most of us don't work those sorts of jobs. We are sitting in an office or driving around calling on clients while posting on TD. Teaching is very difficult since you have only a 30 minute break per day and are otherwise dealing with 25-30 kids and often 1 or 2 are on the spectrum or full-on autistic since they mainstream those kids these days. I wouldn't want to deal with 1 kid one on one with autism much less with another 25 kids to teach. There is no "down time" during the day for teachers. And a typical teacher puts in 10-12 hours a day including grading and lesson planning when they get home. They do get a nice summer but they also have to go to required training classes and meetings with their principal during the summer and they of course don't make much money. I wouldn't want to do it anymore than I would want to be a roofer, oil field worker, etc.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
33054 posts
Posted on 7/30/18 at 2:07 pm to
This can all be boiled down to sympathizing vs empathizing.

You can basically know what it would be like to live without an arm, but you never really know what it's like till you fall off that ladder with a chainsaw.
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
39564 posts
Posted on 7/30/18 at 2:07 pm to
Is there any other profession that gets 4 months out of the year off and still gets paid a decent amount?
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