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re: Anyone have dark family secrets revealed by DNA testing??

Posted on 5/28/21 at 12:06 pm to
Posted by GetCocky11
Calgary, AB
Member since Oct 2012
53509 posts
Posted on 5/28/21 at 12:06 pm to
Guy in our family cheated and had a kid with the woman. Found out 75 years later through the DNA test.

Guy was a traveling salesman so mystery child was hundreds of miles away.
This post was edited on 5/28/21 at 12:09 pm
Posted by Pitt Road
Mid-Florida
Member since Aug 2017
1195 posts
Posted on 5/28/21 at 12:08 pm to
The Third Leg

Have an up vote, my man!
Posted by MattA
Member since Nov 2019
2019 posts
Posted on 5/28/21 at 12:09 pm to
Plus side of me and my brother doing the test...My bro is actually my bro. Mom and dad kept it 100.

Downside was seeing you had family out there you never knew existed. The answers for which/how you probably don’t want to know lol.

So unless you really want to find out this stuff, I’d just leave it alone. Ignorance can really be bliss.
Posted by Rick9Plus
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2020
2498 posts
Posted on 5/28/21 at 12:23 pm to
I bet a lot of people were crapping themselves when DNA testing came out.
Posted by BigDropper
Member since Jul 2009
8618 posts
Posted on 5/28/21 at 12:25 pm to
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Not from those results. 2+1+1+<1 does not equal 5-8%
Damn... why did you have to call me out. If you click on each Ethnicity Estimate, it provides a range. Look below the displayed % to see where is says "You ethnicity estimates is _%, but can range from 0-_%.

So the real estimate is 0-8%. I provided 5% as a baseline because of the displayed %.

Here are the expanded Ethnicity Estimates for each:




3+2+1+2=8
Posted by Nguyener
Kame House
Member since Mar 2013
21057 posts
Posted on 5/28/21 at 12:27 pm to
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I confront her.... come to find out. My great grandfather used to rape his daughters. One had a baby and later killed herself way before I was born.



Well I quit the OT today. Maybe forever. Goodbye.
This post was edited on 5/28/21 at 12:36 pm
Posted by sabanisarustedspoke
Member since Jan 2007
5865 posts
Posted on 5/28/21 at 12:30 pm to
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Apparently I’m 0.5% from the Congo. Seems pretty dark, like Eddie Murphy dark.




My dad has told me I was 50% for years...
Posted by CitizenK
BR
Member since Aug 2019
15663 posts
Posted on 5/28/21 at 12:41 pm to
Disguised as an alien anal probe?
Posted by Packer
IE, California
Member since May 2017
8699 posts
Posted on 5/28/21 at 12:42 pm to
A friend of mine had a Korean Mom and white Dad. She took a DNA testing and found out she was 100% Korean. Turns out the Dad married the Mom when she was pregnant and they never told her until she took the test at 28. Not the biggest of secrets, but it did shake her up pretty well about being lied to her whole life.
Posted by southpawcock
Member since Oct 2015
17722 posts
Posted on 5/28/21 at 1:11 pm to
I'm pretty sure it's easy to tell when someone is 100% Korean vs. 50% Korean/50% white.
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
102633 posts
Posted on 5/28/21 at 1:29 pm to
Sometimes it’s better to not know things
Posted by Packer
IE, California
Member since May 2017
8699 posts
Posted on 5/28/21 at 1:34 pm to
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I'm pretty sure it's easy to tell when someone is 100% Korean vs. 50% Korean/50% white.



She's also married to a white guy and her kids look just like her, despite being 1/2 white, 1/2 Korean, so it must not be that easy. Unless, maybe she is lying to the kids too
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
102633 posts
Posted on 5/28/21 at 1:37 pm to
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You should build a relationship with that baw.

He’s been shunned his whole life due to something he had no control over.


Yea frick the others for acting like that. shite happened, it’s not his fault and I’m sure it’s just as shameful and embarrassing for that guy. No reason to shun him
Posted by ElderTiger
Planet Earth
Member since Dec 2010
7780 posts
Posted on 5/28/21 at 2:27 pm to
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So my darker complexion and affinity for big booty white women comes from a different part of the globe.


LMAO
Posted by Nole Man
Somewhere In Tennessee!
Member since May 2011
9091 posts
Posted on 5/28/21 at 2:27 pm to
Yeah me. Always knew I was adopted. Never cared. Parents that raised me were my parents. As kids started getting older, they wanted to know my health and origins. Did Ancestry.com. For years it was like 3rd cousin type matches. Then one day I got a very high match, "half sibling" match. Then another. Both on the dad side. I asked some questions and got some answers.

Then eventually petitioned the court in my home county to see if they'd agree with the State to open up the original birth records. Wasn't actually much on the original birth certificate. Mother had put down a fake name. No father listed. Without Ancestry.com, there'd have been nothing more you could have done.

Eventually matched with a 1st cousin and he'd been doing research and believe his dad had sisters, one of which was my mom. Some potential sibling matches on the mother side were found and the State contacted them to see if they'd be interested in talking. My half sister did and we started corresponding.

Long story short, Birth Dad met Birth Mom while in the Airforce in NY, where yours truly was conceived. Mom shipped off to FL later to deliver. I have 2 sisters and a brother on the Dad side. German and Polish descent. Have a sister and brother on the mom side. Syrian and Welsh descent. Both parents have been dead for years.

Not sure Dad ever knew I was born but he apparently suspected. Mom kept the secret to the grave but often alluded to herself as "the black sheep" of the family. Can't imagine ever having a child and not knowing what happened to them. The guilt must have been tremendous all those years.

The siblings on the Dad side don't seem to be interested in corresponding. The sister on the mother side is a wonderful person, so the wife (no pics) and I will probably go visit her and her family later in the year.

Now at least know my background, have pictures etc. First time I've told this story on the internet, but for the O-T, it just seemed fitting.
This post was edited on 5/28/21 at 2:30 pm
Posted by lachellie
LALA Land
Member since Aug 2012
1127 posts
Posted on 5/28/21 at 2:34 pm to
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My maternal side was always thought to be French, Spanish, & Italian and paternally English, Scottish, Irish, & Cherokee


France does not allow private DNA kits to be sold there, so the French gene pool is very under represented in all ethnicity estimates. Ancestry groups England and NW Europe together and that includes what they estimate would be French DNA if it were more accurately represented in their sampling pool. (I learned this from very informative FB groups that teach about DNA genealogy). There are quite a few countries that don’t allow the sale of these kits, with France being the one with the largest gap in the gene pool.

I believe I am descended from two different Norman French knights but no French ethnicity estimate results, presumably because of this. Of course, that was a thousand years ago and obviously many English people would have Norman and Breton ancestry.
This post was edited on 5/28/21 at 2:35 pm
Posted by southpawcock
Member since Oct 2015
17722 posts
Posted on 5/28/21 at 2:34 pm to
Man my shite is boring as hell compared to you:



My 23andMe specifies two regions of Germany (North Rhine-Westphalia and Hesse at 27.4% French & German) and I’m also 0.5% North African and 0.4% Sub-Saharan African. That’s about as exciting as it gets.
This post was edited on 5/28/21 at 2:36 pm
Posted by ElderTiger
Planet Earth
Member since Dec 2010
7780 posts
Posted on 5/28/21 at 2:47 pm to
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Then eventually petitioned the court in my home county to see if they'd agree with the State to open up the original birth records.


I was involved as a child in a stepparent adoption. Decades later, I at least wanted to see my adoption petition and anything else that might be interesting in the file. A local judge in the city where it took place was extremely helpful in getting me the information I wanted.
There were no real surprises but I at least now have this plus a copy of my biological father’s death certificate with his cause of death. I can’t thank that judge enough for the compassion she showed me.
Posted by Nole Man
Somewhere In Tennessee!
Member since May 2011
9091 posts
Posted on 5/28/21 at 2:51 pm to
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I was involved as a child in a stepparent adoption. Decades later, I at least wanted to see my adoption petition and anything else that might be interesting in the file. A local judge in the city where it took place was extremely helpful in getting me the information I wanted.
There were no real surprises but I at least now have this plus a copy of my biological father’s death certificate with his cause of death. I can’t thank that judge enough for the compassion she showed me


That's a great story. In Florida, you can contact the state and they'll share certain non-confidential items. You can't go in saying you want to know who your birth parents are because that's not a reason (go figure and unfair to adopted children, but..). I was looking for medical history. I had the altered birth certificate. The original one wasn't much different, only "the birth mother" (and she put a false name on it anyway). At least I have it and know my origins. Funny how I never cared until I went full bore trying to get answers. Without Ancestry, never would have ever happened.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 5/28/21 at 2:54 pm to
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Anyone have dark family secrets revealed by DNA testing??


Turns out I have a little Spanish in me, that I didn't know was there...

quote:

My great grandfather used to rape his daughters.


Oh. No. No, I do not.
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