Anyone have dark family secrets revealed by DNA testing??

So. I do a test. Get some matches. My family is on there. Aunts and uncles with 15-20% matches. Cousins with 8-11% matches. Then tons of 2nd and 3rd cousins. I'm part caveman. Mostly French even though always thought I was Italian... Yada Yada.

Months pass. One day I check and I got a new alert a new match.
10% match. A FIRST cousin.

I have 18 cousins abs know them all and know a few of my Oklahoma second cousins but my parents were wary around our Oklahoma siblings

See my Grandma was from Tulsa. Her father bought up tons of land in the dust bowl and was well off. But he hated everyone. Especially women. So his daughters got nothing his sins
Sons everything.
That's not where the family issues come in though. See the truth is, we are never told how much of a monster my great grandfather was.

See he not only hated women he abused them. But that was always rumor and while my grandma was alive no one spoke about it.

She past away and at her hospital bed some random guy shows up. My grandma flipped out and had him removed. Then she died the next day.
No one knew who that guy was.


Well until the DNA test I took.
This man older than my parents is supposedly my first cousin.
He was put up for adoption and was trying to find his parents.

Excited that I may have a new cousin and I'm not the oldest. I call my mom.
She tells me to stop talking to that guy right away.
Nothing else.

I confront her.... come to find out. My great grandfather used to rape his daughters. One had a baby and later killed herself way before I was born.

My great aunt is my 'cousin's mother.
The 10% match is because this guy's father shares a 50% DNA match with his mother. I mean the sickest most vile incest there is.

So I never met this guy. But I'm disgusted with my moms side of the family.

Though the claim is no one knew but my grandma and she believed in family loyalty.



So yeah. DNA testing shows the man who used to n let me drive his combine and would take me to the swimming holes in Oklahoma was a depraved monster..

Thanks 23 n me. I miss the ignorance.