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re: Any married guys had an affair?

Posted on 9/30/17 at 5:29 pm to
Posted by Pussykat
South Louisiana
Member since Oct 2016
3889 posts
Posted on 9/30/17 at 5:29 pm to
Where have I heard that before?
Posted by PortHudsonPlaya
Houston
Member since Jul 2017
3170 posts
Posted on 9/30/17 at 5:37 pm to
The second time was just blowing some male stripper at a bachelorette party. I don't even think the guy came. Should I have given up all the great times we've had since over some insecure pride.
Posted by StealthCalais11
Lurker since 2007
Member since Aug 2011
12445 posts
Posted on 9/30/17 at 5:39 pm to
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I will say this. If you have ever even thought that your wife was cheating or doing something "sneaky", she was.



This man speaks truth
Posted by Drew Orleans
Member since Mar 2010
21577 posts
Posted on 9/30/17 at 5:39 pm to
I'm amazed some people still believe you.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
61043 posts
Posted on 9/30/17 at 5:46 pm to
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The second time was just blowing some male stripper at a bachelorette party.



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I don't even think the guy came.


Are you one of those who likes being a cuckold? It almost sounds like you were there watching. To know what happened to that degree would set me ablaze to a point I don't want to think about.

Are you getting off on this thread right now because people are telling you how pathetic it is?




ETA: This is fake now. Nice troll baw.
This post was edited on 9/30/17 at 5:47 pm
Posted by LAS
Member since Aug 2017
477 posts
Posted on 9/30/17 at 5:50 pm to
Bro leave her now you don't have to live with that kind of person. Many more fish in the sea That You Can Trust Until They Prove You Wrong
Posted by cubsfinger
On The Road
Member since Mar 2017
1538 posts
Posted on 9/30/17 at 5:51 pm to
Lol read your comment to yourself. Just putting some guys junk on her tonsils and you better believe she swallowed that thick and creamy stuff, then came and kissed you. And yes dumbass, you give up e everything if she does that
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
110490 posts
Posted on 9/30/17 at 6:13 pm to
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How'd it go? I'm miserable. Wife cheated on me. Total mistake, but I can't move on. We have a great relationship and four boys . I don't want to mess up what we have, but an opportunity has presented itself and I'm torn. Rational me says no, emotional me says let's even the score. I'm dying here.

This is why I'd divorce my wife if she cheated.

As much as i'd maybe consider and it would probably be easier to stay together with 2 kids, I know every single time we got into a fight or even if I know I did something wrong, I'd just throw the cheating thing back as an argument ender. Or if an opportunity presented itself, I'd have a tough time turning it down knowing she cheated.

The only way to move on after one spouse cheats is basically to put it behind you and never speak on it or bring it up again...and I know for a fact I wouldn't be able to do that, it would be easiest for us to go our separate ways.
Posted by GeorgePaton
God's Country
Member since May 2017
4495 posts
Posted on 10/1/17 at 1:02 pm to
Nope. Forty-nine years, never crossed that line. Fell in love with her the first moment I laid my eyes on her. Been through a lot she and I. How'd we do it? God, my friend. With God all things are possible. Went to Church every Sunday for all of our married life, in good times and bad. Still do.

She is more beautiful today than when I first laid eyes on her. I see the totality of her being. Superimposed on her slightly wringled face, is the face of that blushing bride I was completely smitten with all those years ago.

How did I find her? I asked God to send her to me, and He did.

Love is a decision you make every single day.
This post was edited on 10/1/17 at 1:09 pm
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
61043 posts
Posted on 10/1/17 at 1:32 pm to
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Nope. Forty-nine years, never crossed that line. Fell in love with her the first moment I laid my eyes on her. Been through a lot she and I. How'd we do it? God, my friend. With God all things are possible. Went to Church every Sunday for all of our married life, in good times and bad. Still do.

She is more beautiful today than when I first laid eyes on her. I see the totality of her being. Superimposed on her slightly wringled face, is the face of that blushing bride I was completely smitten with all those years ago.

How did I find her? I asked God to send her to me, and He did.

Love is a decision you make every single day.




And now its been reduced to a checklist of materialistic origins and a swipe right. Yet people still wonder why marriages fail so often.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11197 posts
Posted on 10/1/17 at 1:34 pm to
That is awesome <3
Posted by LSU alum wannabe
Katy, TX
Member since Jan 2004
26957 posts
Posted on 10/1/17 at 2:02 pm to
Have an upvote sir.

My wife was cheated on a bunch in her previous relationship. I just always know that I never want to hurt her. I’ve had opportunities. Both sober and piss drunk. Luckily when piss drunk than one “don’t be a dick” brain cell fires and I step away.

I’m basically a Bassett Hound on a porch. I may make some noise, but I know how good I have it. I’m never climbing off that porch. And if the cat that Bassett Hound is barking at comes onto the porch, he/I will just walk back into the house and bark at the front door.
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
36940 posts
Posted on 10/1/17 at 2:10 pm to
To the OP, sorry to hear you are going through this. If you cheat on her... does it settle the score, or does it result in a nasty divorce? Keep that in mind.
Posted by LSUgirl4
Member since Sep 2009
39501 posts
Posted on 10/1/17 at 2:13 pm to
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Nope. Forty-nine years, never crossed that line. Fell in love with her the first moment I laid my eyes on her. Been through a lot she and I. How'd we do it? God, my friend. With God all things are possible. Went to Church every Sunday for all of our married life, in good times and bad. Still do.

She is more beautiful today than when I first laid eyes on her. I see the totality of her being. Superimposed on her slightly wringled face, is the face of that blushing bride I was completely smitten with all those years ago.

How did I find her? I asked God to send her to me, and He did.

Love is a decision you make every single day.
<3
Posted by arkiebrian
NWA
Member since Nov 2006
4166 posts
Posted on 10/1/17 at 2:21 pm to
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Rational me says no, emotional me says let's even the score.

Divorce not an option because of the lengthy servitude I get that 100 percent. Might as well stay in the loveless marriage and get even.

I was there at one point in my life and did pursue a side act at the end of my marriage. Plan was to just to have a side act but I ended up filing for divorce before anything happened anyway.

Tough situation. Be careful out there. There is no right answer.
Posted by tigerfan182
Franklin, Tn
Member since Sep 2009
2779 posts
Posted on 10/1/17 at 4:55 pm to
How many were your cousin?
Posted by Roaad
White Privilege Broker
Member since Aug 2006
76419 posts
Posted on 10/1/17 at 4:57 pm to
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I love my wife, so no.
Posted by cfa626
Member since Apr 2016
561 posts
Posted on 10/1/17 at 5:24 pm to
Don't do it. You'll pay for it in the end. Trust me. Mine was over as soon as it started and I regret it every day.
Posted by BRL79
Member since Mar 2014
2952 posts
Posted on 10/1/17 at 5:36 pm to
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Should I have given up all the great times we've had since over some insecure pride.

If she really cheated it isn't insecurity on your part.
This post was edited on 10/1/17 at 5:37 pm
Posted by Slagathor
Makin' jokes about your teeny tiny
Member since Jul 2007
37799 posts
Posted on 10/1/17 at 5:46 pm to
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I can't move on


quote:

We have a great relationship


doesn't sound like it if you truly value what you have, you may need to share all of this with your wife... maybe seek counseling?

if you want to even the score, give her the papers and be done.
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