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re: Any males on here have a positive experience with a divorce?

Posted on 10/31/19 at 2:27 pm to
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
83236 posts
Posted on 10/31/19 at 2:27 pm to
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Okay so. If I drink like about a pint of vodka 2 times a week, is that going to kill me?


how tf do I know? I'm sure she drank more than that, never saw her without a wine or drink in her hands, she liked Jim Beam, never worked, bitter af, didn't even make 50
Posted by McLemore
Member since Dec 2003
33616 posts
Posted on 10/31/19 at 2:29 pm to
Had no kids and was in the middle of recession so assets were f'ed and in any event I kept everything intact. Was like a really bad breakup, except my own divorce atty ended up being a train wreck. I could write a book about him. I did all my own work and he kept the entire retainer, borrowed my truck and got shot at in it. That's just the start of the Barry Zuckercorn experience.

Posted by Uptowner
The OP
Member since Oct 2019
2030 posts
Posted on 10/31/19 at 2:30 pm to
Meh, it wasn't too bad for me. Uncontested, no children, real estate or anything else difficult to divide. Cost me a grand (years ago).
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
48625 posts
Posted on 10/31/19 at 3:00 pm to
quote:

I'm sure she drank more than that, never saw her without a wine or drink in her hands, she liked Jim Beam, never worked, bitter af, didn't even make 50


Okay good. That's what I was wondering.

Posted by Frankenstein Vol
Member since Oct 2019
707 posts
Posted on 10/31/19 at 3:01 pm to
Yes, that crazy bitch is gone.

Next?
Posted by AbitaFan08
Boston, MA
Member since Apr 2008
27697 posts
Posted on 10/31/19 at 3:03 pm to
quote:

It was just about then I realized my lawyer was a creature from the Paleozoic era...


Was this your divorce lawyer?

Posted by chinhoyang
Member since Jun 2011
25049 posts
Posted on 10/31/19 at 3:04 pm to
Got divorced

Ex goes to school for a year

Comes home

Everything cool now - ex wife in residence



Posted by CitizenK
BR
Member since Aug 2019
12092 posts
Posted on 10/31/19 at 3:14 pm to
Lost everything but the ex moved to Austin became a worshiper of Mother Gaia and huge Obama fan. She's now mooching off of relatives.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11532 posts
Posted on 10/31/19 at 3:19 pm to
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borrowed my truck and got shot at in it. That's just the start of the Barry Zuckercorn experience.


Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
144675 posts
Posted on 10/31/19 at 3:21 pm to
There is no way in hell you guys didn't marry a ton of red flags. No way these woment just up and turned crazy overnight. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
Posted by randybobandy
NOLA
Member since Mar 2015
2000 posts
Posted on 10/31/19 at 3:22 pm to
Prenup was worth it. Walked away with no losses except what she stole. Lesson learned= prenup is necessary to protect any/all assets.
Posted by 187undercover
Member since May 2019
1538 posts
Posted on 10/31/19 at 3:31 pm to
Of course.

Mine tried to get alimony.

Failed. I moved back to Monroe from Colorado.

Haven't seen that trash since and life has been so much better.

Praise God for divorce.
Posted by AZBadgerFan
Scottsdale, AZ
Member since May 2013
1735 posts
Posted on 10/31/19 at 3:34 pm to
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There is no way in hell you guys didn't marry a ton of red flags. No way these woment just up and turned crazy overnight. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.


My thoughts exactly. When reading these divorce threads there is never any accountability by the guy for putting on ring on the fingers of these chicks. This also goes for women who are always ragging on their ex's. They either didn't date long enough, overlooked the red flags or both and that's on you. Only one guy in this thread wishes his ex well. Not to be a dick but people need to choose better partners.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
130284 posts
Posted on 10/31/19 at 3:36 pm to
Well, I didn't want to get divorced, but ultimately it didn't cost me much other than her emptying out our bank account.

Luckily for me, my house was still in my name only, so I got to keep it.

I moved on and am happily married again.
Posted by 187undercover
Member since May 2019
1538 posts
Posted on 10/31/19 at 3:47 pm to
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My thoughts exactly. When reading these divorce threads there is never any accountability by the guy for putting on ring on the fingers of these chicks


You are correct.

I was very fortunate my stupidity and yoing desire for some good looking poon didn't cost me more.

I have yet to remarry although I have been in some relationships. I am respectful and haven't changed except for being patient and allowing time to show if she is crazy or not.

And I have yet to meet one I would come close to marry except for one. But, we went separate ways anyways. Good girl.

Too many men marry without vetting. Women don't vet. They don't have to. They vet your bank account and ability to make their lives easy. Who you are doesn't meant shite--that is all just talk.

If you can bank roll and yet still an addict they will take you. As long as you don't just abuse them or their kids to death you are a take regardless.
Posted by Rabbs and QStick
Texas
Member since Apr 2012
2987 posts
Posted on 10/31/19 at 3:52 pm to
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Got the kids and her out of my life (almost entirely). 100% positive from my perspective.


I'm hoping I read this wrong. I read it as you're happy you don't have the wife or the kids in your life anymore. I'm hoping it's really you have the kids and the wife is out. You're a shite dad if it's how I originally read this.
This post was edited on 10/31/19 at 3:53 pm
Posted by Bedhog
Denham Springs
Member since Apr 2019
3741 posts
Posted on 10/31/19 at 3:53 pm to
Crazy arse ex was stealing money from me, taking out loans in my name. Caught her cheating on video, judge in LP gave me the home, no alimony and minimal child support even though I pay 100% of anything our children need. Hate writing her those checks every month because our kids live with me 100% of the year. Figure it's best to just write those checks instead of bringing this shite back in front of a LP judge who almost always sides with the woman.
Posted by LSUMANINVA
West Virginia
Member since Sep 2004
8675 posts
Posted on 10/31/19 at 4:07 pm to
My friend appreciates all of the input.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
281997 posts
Posted on 10/31/19 at 4:19 pm to
Still care s lot about my past failed relationships. Way to much stuff to discuss here but I've split from a couple of really awesome women and there is good and bad. Funny I cant remember the bad much anymore.
Posted by LSU2001
Cut Off, La.
Member since Nov 2007
2388 posts
Posted on 10/31/19 at 4:36 pm to
Just a guess but I'd imagine that his lawyer from the paleozoic period was a tad bit more primitive than the caveman. LOL
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