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re: Am I the only one who doesn't understand stress or depression

Posted on 11/28/23 at 5:14 pm to
Posted by Mushroom1968
Member since Jun 2023
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Posted on 11/28/23 at 5:14 pm to
I'd like to be clear, I'm not in every person who says they are depressed should be coddled or anything crowd. I'm not speaking of people on social media clamoring they are depressed b/c they failed a test or great-grandpa died. Most people have stresses and handle them fine. You wouldn't know about 99.9%%%% of idiots blowing up if it weren't for internet. I don't typically see people lose their cool very often in public or anything like that, maybe outside of a homeless schizo or something.

The vast majority of people deal with elderly parents and grand-parents dying just fine. May take some time but they go back to work, raise their kids, do what they do. I just don't believe OPs take is the truth, I think he just spends a lot of time on social media and acts like those crazy people are the norm.

True depression is much deeper and has been talked about enough in this thread. Much different issue.
This post was edited on 11/28/23 at 5:21 pm
Posted by Python
Member since May 2008
6480 posts
Posted on 11/28/23 at 5:14 pm to
Clinical depression has nothing to do with your circumstances or anything going on in your life. Nothing at all. It comes out of nowhere and is crippling.
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
28700 posts
Posted on 11/28/23 at 5:16 pm to
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You even claim to have PTSD


An involuntary bioloigical reaction of elevated pulse and adrenaline spike when a vehicle attempts to pull out in front of me while I am traveling at a high rate of speed seems like a normal biological response.

Now... I could choose to let that cause stress and not drive, or put it behind me and move on.
Posted by EarlyCuyler3
Appalachia
Member since Nov 2017
27290 posts
Posted on 11/28/23 at 5:17 pm to
I see what the issue is here. You're just an idiot.
Posted by Mushroom1968
Member since Jun 2023
3664 posts
Posted on 11/28/23 at 5:17 pm to
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I asked if she was alive or passed as I was walking up by making eye contact with a paramedic on the front porch and making a thumbs up or thumbs down sign.

He made a thumbs down. Shook his head no. And then looked at me like a monster for being as callous as he was.


26 year paramedic here, he wasn't looking at you b/c he thought you were calloused, I'd bet the house he's way more calloused than you are, I can promise you I am also, even with my prior replies in this thread. He was probably just stressed about the situation of having to tell someone. Unless he was new, he didn't give 2 shits whether you cared or not.

ETA: In some ways I'm calloused. Seeing death I can be very callous. Overall very empathetic to people, always to the loved one's on scenes, much more than most of the other medics I worked with.
This post was edited on 11/28/23 at 5:24 pm
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
213320 posts
Posted on 11/28/23 at 5:18 pm to
You have zero clue.
Posted by Powerman
Member since Jan 2004
164961 posts
Posted on 11/28/23 at 5:18 pm to
quote:


An involuntary bioloigical reaction of elevated pulse and adrenaline spike when a vehicle attempts to pull out in front of me while I am traveling at a high rate of speed seems like a normal biological response.

Now... I could choose to let that cause stress and not drive, or put it behind me and move on.


I think what's clear is you don't actually know what PTSD is

Having an elevated heart rate after something like that isn't the same thing as PTSD and you're just making yourself sound dumber with every post in this thread.

And what's more ridiculous is this appears to be a "response" thread mocking people that are dealing with things that you don't understand
Posted by Duke
Dillon, CO
Member since Jan 2008
36408 posts
Posted on 11/28/23 at 5:20 pm to
Must be nice.
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
17955 posts
Posted on 11/28/23 at 5:20 pm to
quote:

An involuntary bioloigical reaction of elevated pulse and adrenaline spike when a vehicle attempts to pull out in front of me while I am traveling at a high rate of speed seems like a normal biological response.



Sounds pretty weak
Posted by pussywillows
Member since Dec 2009
6220 posts
Posted on 11/28/23 at 5:21 pm to
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intellectual disparity


wait...are you the one who took a 50 question multiple choice online test, scored a 38/50 and thought that equated to the 98% percentile?
Posted by EarlyCuyler3
Appalachia
Member since Nov 2017
27290 posts
Posted on 11/28/23 at 5:25 pm to
quote:

I can't say exactly what someone told me about this once, but they said they really wish they were dumb and did nothing but drink beer all day.


It's true, when you're stupid, you don't know what you don't know, therefore, you don't worry about it. Someone like that is literally too stupid to be depressed because they have no higher levels of thinking.
Posted by Loup
Ferriday
Member since Apr 2019
14178 posts
Posted on 11/28/23 at 5:26 pm to
I'm guessing that you have down syndrome?
Posted by GeauxTigers0107
South Louisiana
Member since Oct 2009
10307 posts
Posted on 11/28/23 at 5:26 pm to
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X123F45


I'm like you...or was. I always felt hey, we all have problems. You control your own emotions. You feel that way because you allow yourself to feel that way. Pull up your bootstraps and fix your problems. That's what men should do. Then a good friend took his life a month ago. Retired young. All the money he would ever need. Beautiful wife. Kid thriving in school, smart as a whip.

Then I found out he was suffering from depression. I was blown away. Like, how? I realized that there's a lot I don't know about depression. A whole lot. I still approach my problems with the mindset mentioned above but I have empathy for people battling depression now.
Posted by SteelerBravesDawg
Member since Sep 2020
43337 posts
Posted on 11/28/23 at 5:33 pm to
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Depression is a made up disease.

Jesus Christ.
Posted by Powerman
Member since Jan 2004
164961 posts
Posted on 11/28/23 at 5:35 pm to
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Someone like that is literally too stupid to be depressed because they have no higher levels of thinking.



Agreed

OP seems to be a perfect example

His interpretation of what PTSD is is the most ignorant thing imaginable
Posted by Hat Tricks
Member since Oct 2003
28773 posts
Posted on 11/28/23 at 5:38 pm to
quote:

Am I the only one who doesn't understand stress or depression No matter how rough a situation may be, because of too many responsibilities, tragedy, or loneliness, I don't let anything ruin my day. Take a deep breath, move on.


How old are you and what responsibilities do you actually have?
This post was edited on 11/28/23 at 5:41 pm
Posted by PennsTiger
Member since Feb 2020
281 posts
Posted on 11/28/23 at 5:41 pm to
And O-T
Posted by The Egg
Houston, TX
Member since Dec 2004
81801 posts
Posted on 11/28/23 at 5:45 pm to
I used to not understand it until I entered some pretty dark places myself.

Not everyone can just take a deep breath and move on...consider that to be a luxury of yours that you can enjoy while other may not be able to do the same.
Posted by kciDAtaE
Member since Apr 2017
16698 posts
Posted on 11/28/23 at 5:59 pm to
quote:

Days of real men like Gary Cooper are gone. Whatever happened to the strong, silent type?


Poor example. Dude was slaying pussy and a movie star for decades. He had nothing to complain about.
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
28700 posts
Posted on 11/28/23 at 6:01 pm to
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wait...are you the one who took a 50 question multiple choice online test, scored a 38/50 and thought that equated to the 98% percentile?


49 out 50.

However... 38/50 on a standford-binet would likely be in the 98th percentile of the population. The average is 25/50.

There was someone in that thread who claimed they were a genius because they scored a 30/50.
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