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re: A pal of mine said his son wants to be a girl

Posted on 1/15/24 at 3:41 pm to
Posted by bayoubengals88
LA
Member since Sep 2007
18949 posts
Posted on 1/15/24 at 3:41 pm to
Make him realize that unchecked self expression will not provide happiness.
Posted by Dadren
Jawja
Member since Dec 2023
941 posts
Posted on 1/15/24 at 4:01 pm to
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You’re going to control another adult’s life? Sucks but it’s not your place.


What you want as a parent is to raise children in such a way that you have influence in their adult lives, not control over their adult lives.

If you do that, you have a chance to help guide them even as adults.
Posted by Porpus
Covington, LA
Member since Aug 2022
1643 posts
Posted on 1/15/24 at 4:02 pm to
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Out of curiosity, what is the sin he's committing by wanting to change genders?



I would point first at the selfishness of acting that way. This selfishness is especially obvious when the "trans" person has children.

Even without children, the statement made is profoundly selfish: "How I feel matters more than anything else. It matters more than the deep disappointment and discomfort it will cause others. It matters more than anything I might have accomplished using the body with which I was gifted. It matters more than my health and more than what my parents might have hoped for. It matters more than what I think rationally."

(And that may sound like the premise of a Disney movie, but it's still a sin.)

In fact, I think that interpretation is charitable. "How I feel" in my words above really stands in for "my fetish." That's what this is. It comes from watching pornography and chasing a deviancy rush.

I can't imagine an ethical system that would countenance letting a fetish take over one's life like that. It's a waste. It's insanity.
Posted by This GUN for HIRE
Member since May 2022
2913 posts
Posted on 1/15/24 at 4:08 pm to
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What should he do


Seems like he's done it already & failed him. Or the man has serious mental issues that need to be dealt with ASAP. I'm going with the parents fricked up, whether they want to admit it & he's got some mental issues.

My boy's, also grown men, would never want this crazy shite. I didn't fail them.
Posted by Barrister
Member since Jul 2012
4625 posts
Posted on 1/15/24 at 4:09 pm to
None of your business
Posted by Koach K
Member since Nov 2016
4093 posts
Posted on 1/15/24 at 4:13 pm to
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Kid seems to have his heels dug in.


Are you sure he doesn’t have his high heels dug in?
Posted by thefodgather
Member since Jan 2024
108 posts
Posted on 1/15/24 at 4:14 pm to
Tell him he owes it to you as the father that raised him to get his hormones checked before doing anything else. It's likely his hormones are wacked and a simple supplement will have him feeling like a man that wants to pound pussy like a jackhammer and he will be forever grateful you didn't blindly accept his desire to whack off his dick. But if his hormones are normal and he still wants to switch, let him/her go.
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
27443 posts
Posted on 1/15/24 at 4:20 pm to
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What should he do to change the kids mind?


You can't change the kid's mind.

A buddy has a daughter who came out as a lesbian when she was 11 or so. She was adamant about it, and has never once shown any interest in boys.

Her older sister said she was trans a few years ago, and of course her liberal mother supported it. ...but the lesbian daughter said it was a complete fabrication for attention.

She stood her ground the entire time constantly calling her out for being a liar. Was constantly punished by the mother. Never waivered one single bit.

Her older sister decided she doesn't want to be a boy anymore. And the younger one is now raising holy hell that she was punished for it

I made the comment that she will clearly be the man whenever she gets a girlfriend.

Her comment of, "well if one of these boys ever starts acting like a real man maybe I can stop dealing with these crazy bitches." might be the most alpha thing a woman has ever said.
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
203088 posts
Posted on 1/15/24 at 4:23 pm to
Can’t do much since he is 25. But therapy could help.. I have never understood why someone would want to change that way.
Posted by patnuh
South LA
Member since Sep 2005
6728 posts
Posted on 1/15/24 at 4:24 pm to
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Or maybe he wants to be Lesbian and lick carpet.


This is where I get confused. You wanna be a woman then date women? My 1980s brain can’t process that.
Posted by BoardReader
Arkansas
Member since Dec 2007
6932 posts
Posted on 1/15/24 at 4:31 pm to
He failed as a parent for 25 years.

There's no quick fix now.
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Posted by Dadren
Jawja
Member since Dec 2023
941 posts
Posted on 1/15/24 at 4:32 pm to
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A buddy has a daughter who came out as a lesbian

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Her older sister said she was trans a few years ago

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her liberal mother supported it

I think I see what’s going on here

Especially after the “lesbian” daughter says:
quote:

"well if one of these boys ever starts acting like a real man maybe I can stop dealing with these crazy bitches."

Daughter raised by liberal mom thinks lowly of men so she “becomes a lesbian”. Then, seeing this, younger sibling decides she’s trans (when she’s really not). Nope, no social conditioning or grooming going on in that house. No playbook whatsoever.

I’m convinced that the majority people (particularly women) claiming to be LGBTQ nowadays are doing it because it’s trendy or taught.
This post was edited on 1/15/24 at 4:36 pm
Posted by GetmorewithLes
UK Basketball Fan
Member since Jan 2011
19078 posts
Posted on 1/15/24 at 4:47 pm to
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What should he do to change the kids mind? 25 years old. Always had girlfriends growing up. Kid seems to have his heels dug in.


I have been healthy all my life but a couple yrs ago I started having aging issues like cholesterol, BP, arthritis, etc. Taking medicine even for maint issues sucks! I loved it when I never had to take anything.

So that makes me think that the people pushing the trans life have no fricking idea how bad these victims are going to feel having to take mouthfuls of highly complex meds every day with all sorts of unintended consequences especially as they get older. Taking meds is bad if you dont absolutely need it.
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
20162 posts
Posted on 1/15/24 at 4:58 pm to
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What should he do to change the kids mind? 25 years old. Always had girlfriends growing up. Kid seems to have his heels dug in.

Cut him off.
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
20162 posts
Posted on 1/15/24 at 4:59 pm to
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I have been healthy all my life but a couple yrs ago I started having aging issues like cholesterol, BP, arthritis, etc. Taking medicine even for maint issues sucks! I loved it when I never had to take anything.

How old are you?
Posted by ronricks
Member since Mar 2021
6877 posts
Posted on 1/15/24 at 5:00 pm to
His son is a Homosexual.
Posted by Undertow
Member since Sep 2016
7321 posts
Posted on 1/15/24 at 5:04 pm to
Start slipping him testosterone in his food.
Posted by tigersmanager
Member since Jun 2010
7408 posts
Posted on 1/15/24 at 5:06 pm to
democrats are mentally ill
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65751 posts
Posted on 1/15/24 at 5:06 pm to
Musta decided it was time to cut his cable?

Posted by Lsuhoohoo
Member since Sep 2007
94564 posts
Posted on 1/15/24 at 5:08 pm to
Delete social media. that's where this cancer comes from.

Tell me a person who didn't have access to social media and other toxic social culture would come up with this fairy tale bullshite otherwise.
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