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Opinion on buying a larger home within budget - sacrificing location.

Posted on 11/10/22 at 9:40 am
Posted by BayouBengal23
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Posted on 11/10/22 at 9:40 am
My wife (no pics) and I are quickly outgrowing our current home. We bring home 5k a month and she will probably be getting a new job soon that will bring us to 6k a month take home. We are needing to upsize but our location is so good that anything bigger in this area will double our mortgage. Which I'm scared of. lol

Current home: $800/mo with 2.9% interest rate. This is 16% of our take home currently. We live pretty comfortable like this. We will be keeping it as a rental to add to our portfolio under our LLC when we move out.

The homes that we are interested in, in our location are about 250k. That will put our mortgage at about 25% of our new take home pay. We don't have car notes and live pretty frugal except my sons daycare is $675/mo. Just dont know if I can bring myself to have a $1600/mo mortgage when we are bringing home 6k/month. I guess because I am spoiled to such a cheap mortgage currently?

What would TMB do?
Posted by WDE24
Member since Oct 2010
54132 posts
Posted on 11/10/22 at 9:42 am to
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our location is so good


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Current home: $800/mo with 2.9% interest rate.


Stay in the home you are in, is what I would do.
This post was edited on 11/10/22 at 9:44 am
Posted by I Love Bama
Alabama
Member since Nov 2007
37686 posts
Posted on 11/10/22 at 9:43 am to
I would keep your butt where you are.

What is your plan if you get this new mortgage and then one of you gets laid off? Will be a painful lesson.
Posted by BayouBengal23
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Member since Mar 2019
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Posted on 11/10/22 at 9:47 am to
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Stay in the home you are in, is what I would do.



Which is extremely tempting. The house is nice in a pretty nice older neighborhood. However its 1100 sq/ft and 2Bed 2Bath. With one kid and 2 larger dogs.

Its a great set up but we are outgrowing it...
Posted by tigersfan1989
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2018
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Posted on 11/10/22 at 10:02 am to
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This post was edited on 12/12/22 at 10:38 pm
Posted by Teddy Ruxpin
Member since Oct 2006
39545 posts
Posted on 11/10/22 at 10:02 am to
How old are the dogs?

I'd put the pets on a phase out plan. I have two kids under 4 and 2 dogs, and having the two kids plus the dog tasks is a lot, so they will not be replaced.
Posted by DaBeerz
Member since Sep 2004
16837 posts
Posted on 11/10/22 at 10:05 am to
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double our mortgage. Which I'm scared of


You answered your own question. I want to move cities and get a house with a pool but rates say keep your arse where you are for now
Posted by PhiTiger1764
Lurker since Aug 2003
Member since Oct 2009
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Posted on 11/10/22 at 10:40 am to
I was in a very similar situation to you recently. We bought the new house. Now we have a rental property that pays for itself and the home we want.

Your take home pay to mortgage costs appear reasonable. I’d consider it.

However, we were able to lock an ARM at 3.25% over the summer, so knowing we were not getting destroyed on interest rate helped us make the decision. I doubt you are getting an ARM anywhere close to that now.
This post was edited on 11/10/22 at 10:47 am
Posted by molsusports
Member since Jul 2004
36104 posts
Posted on 11/10/22 at 10:46 am to
Big beautiful homes in less popular areas are also much harder to sell and lose value more easily than starter homes in great areas
Posted by castorinho
13623 posts
Member since Nov 2010
82010 posts
Posted on 11/10/22 at 10:53 am to
The figures in the OP are kind of surprising to see in 2022

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Current home: $800/mo

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buying a larger home

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are about 250k.
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my sons daycare is $675/mo


Where the frick do you live



As others have pointed out, your current situation is pretty great.
However 250k home with 6k take home pay with your lifestyle would not be financially crippling at all. Even in the current rate environment.
So this really could go either way.
Posted by notsince98
KC, MO
Member since Oct 2012
17938 posts
Posted on 11/10/22 at 10:59 am to
You may not have car notes right now but you still have to pay for cars every now and then. Either that money comes out of your paycheck as cash to a savings account or it goes to a loan payment. Regardless, you have to budget for getting a new-to-you (new or used) car every now and then.

Be sure to look at increased utility costs, maintenance costs, repair costs, etc. associated with a larger home. It isn't just the mortgage payment that will go up. Everything associated with the house will go up.
Posted by Chucktown_Badger
The banks of the Ashley River
Member since May 2013
31018 posts
Posted on 11/10/22 at 11:01 am to
I’d suck it up for 6-8 months and let the interest rate hikes do their work on the housing market. And remember a recession is likely so one of your jobs may be going away.
Posted by BayouBengal23
BR
Member since Mar 2019
567 posts
Posted on 11/10/22 at 11:02 am to
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Where the frick do you live



As others have pointed out, your current situation is pretty great.
However 250k home with 6k take home pay with your lifestyle would not be financially crippling at all. Even in the current rate environment.
So this really could go either way.


Acadiana area
Posted by DaBeerz
Member since Sep 2004
16837 posts
Posted on 11/10/22 at 11:03 am to
Also, how will you have down payment if not selling the current home? What if you can’t find renters for periods of time and stuck with 2 mortgages?
Posted by PhiTiger1764
Lurker since Aug 2003
Member since Oct 2009
13846 posts
Posted on 11/10/22 at 11:03 am to
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And remember a recession is likely so one of your jobs may be going away.

Lol wtf
Posted by BayouBengal23
BR
Member since Mar 2019
567 posts
Posted on 11/10/22 at 11:08 am to
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Also, how will you have down payment if not selling the current home? What if you can’t find renters for periods of time and stuck with 2 mortgages?



Most homes in the area qualify for RD loan. 0% down
Posted by notsince98
KC, MO
Member since Oct 2012
17938 posts
Posted on 11/10/22 at 11:14 am to
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Most homes in the area qualify for RD loan. 0% down


So just stretch that monthly budget even thinner is the answer?

Yeah.....I'm going to put my vote on the side of dont do it. Doesn't sound like you are prepared yet.
Posted by TheWiz
Third World, LA
Member since Aug 2007
11665 posts
Posted on 11/10/22 at 11:22 am to
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I'd put the pets on a phase out plan. I have two kids under 4 and 2 dogs, and having the two kids plus the dog tasks is a lot, so they will not be replaced.



Brother, I am with you. Although I will probably lose the battle, I will try not to have a dog for a while. Life is just too busy.
Posted by Weekend Warrior79
Member since Aug 2014
16255 posts
Posted on 11/10/22 at 11:44 am to
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Just dont know if I can bring myself to have a $1600/mo mortgage when we are bringing home 6k/month.

Reality is, under this situation you have to be prepared for a $2,400 a month mortgage because there is no guarantee you'll get a renter or how long they will stay.

Then add in the "what if" situations of making repairs on new home, rental, 2 houses of potential appliances going out. Insurance rates will be different with renter, etc.

I would suggest you plan to stay another 2-3 years and track interest rates. Plus your situation may be a little better by then and you will feel a little more comfortable making the move.
Posted by Meauxjeaux
98836 posts including my alters
Member since Jun 2005
39819 posts
Posted on 11/10/22 at 2:12 pm to
I don’t see any discussion of homeowners insurance in this thread. Did I miss something?
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