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re: Narcissist Top Traits

Posted on 10/13/26 at 12:06 pm to
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
38238 posts
Posted on 10/13/26 at 12:06 pm to
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This describes my soon to be ex wife to a “T”.


How did you date her long enough to buy her a ring and marry her long enough to nut in her?

If this is true, these traits don’t just show up overnight.
Posted by McLemore
Member since Dec 2003
35672 posts
Posted on 10/13/26 at 12:13 pm to
quote:

Is this a troll?


If you can’t tell what a troll is then that’s on you pal. I’m way too important and busy to explain it to you. You should apologize for wasting my precious time and thumb power.

Eta: but freal, the first half of my post was sarcasm. The part about broader human nature being narcissistic was not.
This post was edited on 10/13/26 at 12:14 pm
Posted by SparkyWilson
Member since May 2026
521 posts
Posted on 10/13/26 at 12:13 pm to
My father nails all but number 4 in addition to being suspicious and insecure, and it took me 35 years to realize it. It's why I don't talk with him anymore.

Would demanding an apology when wronged despite never willing to do it when they are wrong number 11 or should it be 7b?

Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
64521 posts
Posted on 10/13/26 at 12:13 pm to
quote:

we have a toddler
with special needs together.


Your path

Love the toddler!

Where are they on the spectrum?

If it is genetics, may be in their DNA

If it is environment, you will have to be the positive mentor
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
76954 posts
Posted on 10/13/26 at 12:17 pm to
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Would demanding an apology when wronged despite never willing to do it when they are wrong number 11 or should it be 7b?
It gets filed under a general subset of “Rules for thee, not for me” that they ascribe to.
Posted by Breauxsif
Washington
Member since May 2012
23838 posts
Posted on 10/13/26 at 12:18 pm to
I've also noticed that narcissists have image issues and are always looking at plastic surgery as a means to correct "flaws"
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
64521 posts
Posted on 10/13/26 at 12:19 pm to
Thank you for the input. Sarcasm is my weakness, to the amusement of my closest friends for decades. I can understand gravity waves when others can not. I still have no clue on sarcasm. It is why I struggle with trolling as it never makes sense to me to do it in the first place.

As a really old guy, when you fight you go knuckle junction in split seconds, nowadays it seems all drama and posturing. Don't even get me started on old "wrasslin" and what passes for "wrasslin" starting in the 1980's.

Posted by BWHLSU
Member since Jul 2026
407 posts
Posted on 10/13/26 at 12:24 pm to
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Top 10 traits of narcissism

1. Lack of accountability — Has difficulty admitting mistakes, accepts responsibility only reluctantly, or blames others for problems they caused.

2. Extreme defensiveness — Takes ordinary feedback or disagreement as a personal attack and reacts with anger, excuses, or counterattacks.

3. Sense of entitlement — Believes they deserve special treatment or that rules and expectations should apply differently to them.

4. Needs to be right — Treats disagreements as contests to win rather than opportunities to understand another person's perspective.

6. Blaming and shifting responsibility — Turns the issue back on the other person. For example, "I wouldn't have gotten angry if you hadn't provoked me."

8. Sensitivity to criticism or perceived disrespect — Reacts disproportionately to correction, rejection, embarrassment, or perceived slights.

9. Need for control — Tries to dictate how disagreements are discussed, when they are resolved, or what the other person is allowed to feel or say.

10. Exploitation or manipulation — Uses guilt, intimidation, pressure, or selective versions of events to get their way, sometimes with little regard for the consequences to others.


Has BoarEd been by to yell at the OP for making a personal attack on him yet?
Posted by tooshea8
MS
Member since May 2007
2667 posts
Posted on 10/13/26 at 12:30 pm to
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How did you date her long enough to buy her a ring and marry her long enough to nut in her? If this is true, these traits don’t just show up overnight.


I made excuses for her nonstop. When times were good, they were really good. I found myself being alienated more and more from my family and friends in the last couple of years. She would even use the kids against me. I found myself saying “sorry” more and more for things I shouldn’t be sorry for, just to end the conflict. I started to understand that she thrived on that conflict and enjoyed the “WTF?” factor that she could get out of me. I have since gone to therapy and learned how to deal with narcissists. It all about limiting communication and when being forced to communicate, giving simple answers like “noted” or “acknowledged” that cannot be weaponized by her.
Posted by tooshea8
MS
Member since May 2007
2667 posts
Posted on 10/13/26 at 12:33 pm to
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Your path Love the toddler! Where are they on the spectrum? If it is genetics, may be in their DNA If it is environment, you will have to be the positive mentor


She has Down syndrome and is VERY high-functioning. She’s a daddy’s girl, and she is my world.
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
64521 posts
Posted on 10/13/26 at 12:38 pm to
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She has Down syndrome and is VERY high-functioning.


Good place to be in, does she have high math ability?

quote:

She’s a daddy’s girl, and she is my world.


You are going to have to walk the tightrope of wanting to spoil her and being the bettor mentor for not spoiling her.

Posted by KingOfTheWorld
South of heaven, west of hell
Member since Oct 2018
8185 posts
Posted on 10/13/26 at 12:53 pm to
Basically, most women. I’m sick of the narrative that men are the primary narcissists. It’s just not true. Just as many or more women would be diagnosed if they got examined. But, hormones and stuff.
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