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re: Legal battle over right-to-life of Lafayette man in vegetative state

Posted on 7/27/21 at 6:22 pm to
Posted by Ric Flair
Charlotte
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Posted on 7/27/21 at 6:22 pm to
Opinions/takeaway points:

A suicide attempt should always equal a DNR. It’s the purpose of the initial act (suicide), and anyone resuscitating is going against their wishes

If going thru a separation or divorce, make sure to designate a power of attorney who is not your estranged whore wife

If contemplating suicide attempt to get necessary rehab/detox, don’t do it in jail if it’s opiods. Maybe something life threatening like alcohol with seizures/delirium tremors, but not opioid withdrawal, which obviously sucks but is not life threatening.

Someone who says HBO will be effective three years out from an anoxic brain injury is a snake oil salesman who probably is trying to drum up business to pay off his hyperbaric oxygen chamber. It’s not like an ankle ulcer from pvd

Dr Phil still sucks
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 7/27/21 at 6:23 pm to
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And Josh literally told his mom he was going to commit suicide in jail beforehand.


That's what his mother said in the video clip of the Dr. Phil segment I watched. The mother's response was something like "do what you have to do". She said at the time that both she and the wife were in agreement that he should not be bailed out. She didn't mention anything about him sort of halfway attempting it to avoid detox. Alluv has not identified anyone to whom he made that statement.

I don't know that any of this matters with regard to the current situation, but it does bring doubt to some of the allegations being made here.

Josh is under a physician's care at the nursing home or so it has been said. What does that physician say? What do his nursing home records state?

Has the specialist Alluv says she apoke with reviewed all the medical records or was this just a conversation with Alluv's point of view given to the doctor? Seems odd that a doctor would commit to an opinion such as stated here just based on a conversation. Surely there were medical records provided and reviewed.

I'm not clicking on any tik toc links, but the few I looked at were not proof of anything one way or another.

Maybe a court will order Josh examined by a specialist who will actually provided an professional opinion. I'm not in the medical field, but he doesn't look alert at all to me. He looks empty and that's very sad for everyone.
This post was edited on 7/27/21 at 6:28 pm
Posted by Allluvnohate
Member since Jul 2021
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Posted on 7/27/21 at 6:27 pm to
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I’m glad that you found this thread. How did you come across it?


I was searching on Google about the new acticle that came out and came across this website. It took a couple days before I could get approved to post though.
Posted by AMS
Member since Apr 2016
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Posted on 7/27/21 at 6:28 pm to
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I disagree with you completely. And Josh will not be murdered by that evil monster. How on earth you came to the conclusion that his mom wanting to get him treatment and therapy is out of spite is beyond me


1st there is no murder anywhere in this case, its delayed consequences of an attempted suicide and police policy negligence.

I didn't say spite was 100% the reason, but you said it yourself, the wife is an evil monster. it probably could influence mom's decision to challenge. also IDC what the mom wants in 2021 there is no treatment or therapy to heal that man's anoxic brain injury years afterward.

sorry to burst your bubble but this case will not end how you want it to. Its established legally that spouse supersedes parents as medical proxy, the court already granted the spouse curatorship. the mom is only delaying the inevitable with legal stall tactics. No one is a hero here and that man is being victimized by prolongation of the fiasco.
Posted by TheeRealCarolina
Member since Aug 2018
17925 posts
Posted on 7/27/21 at 6:28 pm to
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Wives are first in line for a reason


They are also first in line for insurance payouts and lawsuits
Posted by OWLFAN86
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Posted on 7/27/21 at 6:29 pm to
just my opinion you're not helping by airing dirty laundry here
Posted by Mr Clean
New Iberia
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Posted on 7/27/21 at 6:29 pm to
Get off my lawn
Posted by OWLFAN86
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Member since Jun 2004
176142 posts
Posted on 7/27/21 at 6:34 pm to
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Get off my lawn

i will beat the shite out of you and then take Stella to doggie daycare to have her pampered her nails painted
Posted by Allluvnohate
Member since Jul 2021
168 posts
Posted on 7/27/21 at 6:37 pm to
quote:

Opinions/takeaway points:

A suicide attempt should always equal a DNR. It’s the purpose of the initial act (suicide), and anyone resuscitating is going against their wishes

If going thru a separation or divorce, make sure to designate a power of attorney who is not your estranged whore wife

If contemplating suicide attempt to get necessary rehab/detox, don’t do it in jail if it’s opiods. Maybe something life threatening like alcohol with seizures/delirium tremors, but not opioid withdrawal, which obviously sucks but is not life threatening.

Someone who says HBO will be effective three years out from an anoxic brain injury is a snake oil salesman who probably is trying to drum up business to pay off his hyperbaric oxygen chamber. It’s not like an ankle ulcer from pvd

Dr Phil still sucks


Josh was never resuscitated. He never stopped breathing.
The majority of people who survive a suicide attempt are grateful they survived.
I am in contact with several people who are doing hbot for their loved one with an anoxic brain injury and it is helping. Josh's current condition is from lack of any type of stimulation not from the original injury. If he would have been given therapy and treatment early on he most likely would be in a better condition. Nobody can guarantee how he would respond now.
My point is it was recommended he do about 2 months of hbot. Isn't his life valuable enough to give him the 2 months of treatment to know with absolute certainty how he responds? The money was already donated to pay for it.
Posted by AMS
Member since Apr 2016
6498 posts
Posted on 7/27/21 at 6:40 pm to
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A suicide attempt should always equal a DNR. It’s the purpose of the initial act (suicide), and anyone resuscitating is going against their wishes



not true, way too absolute of a claim. many suicide attempts are more like cries for attention rather than true intent to die. they could even be accidental, it would be difficult to know if it was even an attempt at suicide, or an attempt to avoid custody or something else in certain situations.
many are depressed/psychotic/intoxicated or otherwise in a condition where we would determine they did not have the capacity to make decisions.
I would agree if they had filed DNR/DNI paperwork, had copies of it with them and had DNR/DNI tattooed on them.

pretty much even arriving at the emergency room or hospital in a critical or severe condition is implied consent for treatment unless a proxy/documents are present to dictate otherwise.

Posted by Allluvnohate
Member since Jul 2021
168 posts
Posted on 7/27/21 at 6:41 pm to
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Alluv has not identified anyone to whom he made that statement.


Maegan made the statement. If you choose not to click on the link that's on you. It doesn't mean I haven't provided the evidence

LINK

LINK
Posted by Obtuse1
Westside Bodymore Yo
Member since Sep 2016
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Posted on 7/27/21 at 6:41 pm to
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OWLFAN86


You have gotten awfully froggy since your brain injury.
Posted by AMS
Member since Apr 2016
6498 posts
Posted on 7/27/21 at 6:43 pm to
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The money was already donated to pay for it.


a sucker is born everyday. weren't you just claiming the wife was doing fraudulent fundraisers and decided to support one yourself?
Posted by OWLFAN86
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Member since Jun 2004
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Posted on 7/27/21 at 6:44 pm to
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You have gotten awfully froggy since your brain injury.

I like fricking with Clean his replies are always so measured and reasonable
Posted by Allluvnohate
Member since Jul 2021
168 posts
Posted on 7/27/21 at 6:45 pm to
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sorry to burst your bubble but this case will not end how you want it to. Its established legally that spouse supersedes parents as medical proxy, the court already granted the spouse curatorship


She is going to lose it. She won't continue to have guardianship. There is information the lawyers have and no judge in their right mind would allow her to continue making decisions for him
Posted by beauchristopher
new orleans
Member since Jan 2008
66198 posts
Posted on 7/27/21 at 6:46 pm to
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Josh was never resuscitated. He never stopped breathing.
The majority of people who survive a suicide attempt are grateful they survived.


I agree.

To the poster earlier who said "all suicides should be DNR" I disagree.

I know of people in person who attempted suicide, survived, even atheists who found God and were certainly thankful for another chance in this one life we get.

I'm just not a fan of absolutes. I am not giving an opinion one way or another on this situation. I don't know enough about it. However, every situation should be treated uniquely, IMO.
Posted by Gravitiger
Member since Jun 2011
10451 posts
Posted on 7/27/21 at 6:49 pm to
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I contacted a hbot specialist and gave then all Josh's information and he gave me his professional opinion.
You don't know his current information. No one has evaluated him.
Posted by Allluvnohate
Member since Jul 2021
168 posts
Posted on 7/27/21 at 6:51 pm to
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quote:
The money was already donated to pay for it.



a sucker is born everyday. weren't you just claiming the wife was doing fraudulent fundraisers and decided to support one yourself?


Yes the money was donated and she took it but rest assured when the time comes she best have found a way to come up with the missing money or she will have criminal charges. She may even have charges sooner than that. Either way the money with be there to pay for treatment one way or another. The only thing stopping his treatment right now is her approval, which won't be needed soon
Posted by Dixierebel
Alexandria, La
Member since Dec 2016
534 posts
Posted on 7/27/21 at 7:15 pm to
So can he respond in any way shape or form? Can he blink to command, can he make any purposeful movement to command? What about his skin condition? What did the Neurologist say his potential mental/physical improvement? I still say he is suffering , he requires Tube feeding, suctioning because he cannot cough up his secretions. You cannot say he is not suffering because he is!


Posted by Ric Flair
Charlotte
Member since Oct 2005
13680 posts
Posted on 7/27/21 at 7:17 pm to
Hyperbaric oxygen to brain tissue that has been dead for three years is worthless. If done within days, maybe you can salvage the penumbra and have good clinical outcomes. After three years, you’re mainly relying on neuroplasticity for any functional improvements.
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