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Marriage/sex guidance
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:21 pm
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:21 pm
So I love my fiancé (no pics) Been together 4 years. Have a beautiful child. Getting married soon But to me our sex life isn’t great. She’s very “vanilla” I’d like it to be not that. We’ve talked about it. And she’s just not willing to explore kinks or different things. We also don’t have sex very often. And when we do, it’s like she just says wanna have sex. And that’s a turn off for me. Like rub on me do some foreplay something. I dnk what to do. Or I try and I get turned down, “I’m not in the mood, I’m tired, not now” and it makes me want to just say frick it and never try. She also neverrrr iniates it. It’s always me that does. Makes me feel shitty about myself. Before the kid, we had sex more often a few times a week. Now it’s once every couple weeks but again it’s pretty vanilla. Is this normal? Do other married folks have this issue?
This is not a troll post. I’m legit just trying to see others experience. Can you have a successful relationship with not being on the same page on this? She has so many great qualities. And I truly want to spend my life with her.
This is not a troll post. I’m legit just trying to see others experience. Can you have a successful relationship with not being on the same page on this? She has so many great qualities. And I truly want to spend my life with her.
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:22 pm to JackWuz
quote:trashy
Been together 4 years. Have a beautiful child. Getting married soon
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:22 pm to JackWuz
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This is not a troll post.
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Member since Aug 2020
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Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:22 pm to JackWuz
No advice, but you’ve come to the right place, baw.
This post was edited on 8/2/20 at 2:23 pm
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:24 pm to JackWuz
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This post was edited on 8/22/21 at 2:32 pm
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:24 pm to JackWuz
Either porn or a sex therapist is needed.
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:24 pm to JackWuz
Sounds like you’ve already been married about ten years.
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:24 pm to JackWuz
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Is this normal?
Yes.
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Do other married folks have this issue?
Almost everyone of them.
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:25 pm to JackWuz
I see you having an older mistress at work in your future
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:25 pm to JackWuz
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She’s very “vanilla” I’d like it to be not that. We’ve talked about it. And she’s just not willing to explore kinks or different things.
Maybe she would, just not with you.
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:25 pm to BuddyRoeaux
Is the kid under 12 months ?
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:26 pm to JackWuz
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And when we do, it’s like she just says wanna have sex
You won’t have to worry about that anymore once you get married.
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:26 pm to JackWuz
You are unhappy with your sex life and looking to get married. Sounds like a great plan baw.
This post was edited on 8/2/20 at 2:27 pm
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:26 pm to JackWuz
Tie her up forcibly without her permission and do some fifty shades of grey stuff on her and see how she takes it. Could go one of 2 ways. Worth a shot.
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:27 pm to JackWuz
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But to me our sex life isn’t great
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She’s very “vanilla”
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I’d like it to be not that
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And she’s just not willing to explore kinks or different things.
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We also don’t have sex very often
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I try and I get turned down, “I’m not in the mood, I’m tired, not now”
Y'all are married already and you don't even realize it. Good news is you'll be 100% prepared for married life.
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:27 pm to JackWuz
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sex sucks. doesn't like sex
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fiancé
L E A V E
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:27 pm to JackWuz
God gave you 2 hands and 1 dick for a reason.
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