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Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:35 pm to
Posted by NYNolaguy1
Member since May 2011
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Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:35 pm to
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my fiancé (no pics)




Posted by TomBuchanan
East Egg, Long Island
Member since Jul 2019
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Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:35 pm to
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This post was edited on 11/2/23 at 10:40 pm
Posted by JackWuz
Member since Aug 2020
6 posts
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:35 pm to
Thank you I’ll look into the hormone thing as I think that def plays a part. When I try to bring it up, she gets uncomfortable. And I believe communication is key
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136847 posts
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:36 pm to
quote:

JackWuz


You let this go on for too long

Will be a challenge to fix now. The standard has been set

Good luck
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
30622 posts
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:36 pm to
Sounds like a future divorce
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48791 posts
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:36 pm to
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This won’t get any better if she isn’t willing to try at all. You have to decide if it’s something you can accept.

Especially just dating/engaged. What's it going to be like after 10 years? I wouldn't marry someone that I didn't have good sex with.
Posted by JackWuz
Member since Aug 2020
6 posts
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:36 pm to
Thank you. That’s good advice
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
140462 posts
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:37 pm to
quote:



it does help being good looking enough that girls will do most anything to please you


quote:

TomBuchanan


Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11257 posts
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:37 pm to
quote:

SuperSaint


Hi! How are you and the wife doing? Baby still doing well?
Posted by AUriptide
Member since Aug 2009
7342 posts
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:37 pm to
Yeah, it can get kind of repetitive doing the same thing with the same partner.

Talk to her about spicing it up with some role play.

If that doesn't work, watch some pron and walk around the house naked with a good boner. That should get juices flowing.
This post was edited on 8/2/20 at 2:39 pm
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11257 posts
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:38 pm to
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Especially just dating/engaged. What's it going to be like after 10 years? I wouldn't marry someone that I didn't have good sex with.


It certainly contributed to my divorce. Feeling unwanted by your spouse is super damaging to a marriage.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
140462 posts
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:39 pm to
Yep, on the home stretch now.


Still haven’t agreed on a name for lil SS yet.


How are you?
Posted by LSUJML
BR
Member since May 2008
46250 posts
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:39 pm to
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Or I try and I get turned down, “I’m not in the mood, I’m tired, not now” and it makes me want to just say frick it and never try. She also neverrrr iniates it. It’s always me that does


Just got here
Has anyone said she’s someone else yet?
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
176150 posts
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:39 pm to
taking relationship advice from FR33.....

Posted by DomincDecoco
of no fixed abode
Member since Oct 2018
10907 posts
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:39 pm to
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ETA: I joke but legit have taught girls how to frick using this method.




Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48791 posts
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:40 pm to
If you stay together long enough you'll go through some sexual ruts. If it's important to both of you you'll figure it out though.
Posted by JackWuz
Member since Aug 2020
6 posts
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:41 pm to
I’m not under the allusion just bc I marry her our sex life is going to get better.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:41 pm to
4 years and a kid is a recipe for less sex than if you had no kids or just started dating. maybe get some couples therapy before you get married. don't get married until you are on the same page, as far as intimacy goes, because marriage won't make it any better. good luck.
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
44874 posts
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:42 pm to
You responded to the wrong part of his post
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
140462 posts
Posted on 8/2/20 at 2:42 pm to
quote:

taking relationship advice from FR33.....


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