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re: Being listed as a personal reference on a job application

Posted on 8/2/19 at 12:35 pm to
Posted by Booyow
Member since Mar 2010
4015 posts
Posted on 8/2/19 at 12:35 pm to
I know that references for potential LSP Academy candidates get called. I was a reference for a colleague who was a young, part-time college student. He ended up getting in.

Fast forward about 6 years...my wife, infant son, and I were heading back to BR from a family vacation to Florida where we had left really late. It’s about 1am and I’m rolling around 82 between Hammond and BR in a rental car with South Carolina plates. I come up on a trooper and had no time to slow down. He lit up and pulled me over then called out over his loudspeaker to step out of the vehicle. The spotlight was so bright that I couldn’t even hardly look in that direction. Next thing I hear is “Hey, Booyow Lastname, what’s up big daddy?”

I’d never been so happy to see that loggerhead fricker walk towards me.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
32895 posts
Posted on 8/2/19 at 12:37 pm to
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Calling references. Not sure where this got confusing.

He’s referring to the references answering questions when called. Most corporate places just verify dates of employment, rather than giving out specific information about past employees.
Posted by UGATiger26
Jacksonville, FL
Member since Dec 2009
9055 posts
Posted on 8/2/19 at 12:43 pm to
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He’s referring to the references answering questions when called. Most corporate places just verify dates of employment, rather than giving out specific information about past employees.


Ah, gotcha.
Posted by MaHittaMaHitta
Member since May 2014
3183 posts
Posted on 8/2/19 at 12:55 pm to
I never call professional references. 90% of the time it's their coworker or friend acting like a manager and they know about it.
Posted by JOHNN
Prairieville
Member since Nov 2008
4363 posts
Posted on 8/2/19 at 12:58 pm to
quote:

My organization has a dedicated HR department.

I couldn't imagine working for an organization that doesn't give its managers that latitude when making decisions about who to hire.


By law you can only confirm employment and if they are rehire-able or not.
Posted by Sweltering Chill
Member since Aug 2017
2150 posts
Posted on 8/2/19 at 1:19 pm to
quote:

I have lied to companies several times for friends to help them get jobs. I make them sound like amazing workers and they got the jobs the 3 times i have done it



Same here.. and i’ve had friends lie for me as well, to cover gaps in employment on my resume or whatever.. or just to give a glowing review for my performance, even if the company i worked for at the time was a dysfunctional mess that impeded financial success.

In today’s world, companies will cut you loose at the drop of a hat with zero notice, and there is no loyalty.. So in my opinion, if you aren’t hustling, then you aren’t trying.

Posted by TheAlmightySmash
New Orleans
Member since Jun 2014
5481 posts
Posted on 8/2/19 at 1:38 pm to
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ask if they could use me as a personal reference


quote:

my knowledge of their work ethic, computer skills, etcetera is not well known to me.


considering it's a personal reference and not a professional one i'd say you either can't read or are a bad reference
Posted by potent357
Prairieville
Member since Jan 2010
4042 posts
Posted on 8/2/19 at 1:50 pm to
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considering it's a personal reference and not a professional one i'd say you either can't read or are a bad reference
Personal, as in I am acquainted with this person and have interacted with her for years, Professional as in it is on a work level. If I were to fill out an application I would not put the president of "ABC Company" as a reference. He obviously knows who I am by the company I work for, but does not know me on a personal level.
Posted by Mr Clean
New Iberia
Member since Aug 2006
49866 posts
Posted on 8/2/19 at 2:18 pm to
They call references.

I applied for a job and then I heard from the company several months later.

In the interim, my references had changed and I actually am planning to kill one of the prior references.

I got stood up for the interview. I’m pretty sure they had called the guy after setting up the interview.
Posted by TheFonz
Somewhere in Louisiana
Member since Jul 2016
20563 posts
Posted on 8/2/19 at 2:21 pm to
The couple I’ve times I’ve been called for a reference, I just say “Tell that son of a bitch I’ve been looking for him, and he still owes me a hundred bucks!”
Posted by wasteland
City of peace
Member since Apr 2011
5607 posts
Posted on 8/2/19 at 2:24 pm to
Friend zooooooned
Posted by Henry Jones Jr
Member since Jun 2011
68774 posts
Posted on 8/2/19 at 2:56 pm to
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You really think a personal reference the applicant puts on a resume is going to say something bad about them?
You would be surprised. Ive had multiple people give me personal references that told me the applicant was nice but lazy and that I shouldn't hire them.
This post was edited on 8/2/19 at 2:59 pm
Posted by BulldogXero
Member since Oct 2011
9794 posts
Posted on 8/2/19 at 3:03 pm to
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You would be surprised. Ive had multiple people give me personal references that told me the applicant was nice but lazy and that I shouldn't hire them. This post was edited on 8/2 at 2:59 pm


I just can't understand why someone would agree to be a reference for someone then say bad things about them.
Posted by wadewilson
Member since Sep 2009
36726 posts
Posted on 8/2/19 at 3:41 pm to
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In the interim, my references had changed and I actually am planning to kill one of the prior references.



Woah
Posted by i am dan
NC
Member since Aug 2011
24975 posts
Posted on 8/2/19 at 4:07 pm to
I've had some not so great coworkers that when they asked our supervisor to be a reference, the supervisor told them it probably wasnt a good idea.
Posted by Tiger Roux
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
4941 posts
Posted on 8/2/19 at 4:24 pm to
I recently had to set aside 30 minutes to be a reference.
The questions were like I was being interviewed for the job.

It was kind of stressful, not wanting to mess-up this guys
chance at a good job.

He did get the job so I guess it went ok.
Posted by Klark Kent
Houston via BR
Member since Jan 2008
67051 posts
Posted on 8/2/19 at 4:39 pm to
Had a guy i knew in college, he was a class under me. Smart guy but sleezy and known to be a POS. In fact I’m fairly certain he got caught helping his fugly arse fat girlfriend in college. We were not friends in any way.

Anywho, I got hired by Company A, he desperately wanted to work for Company A too. So he, without informing me, me as a reference on his resume. When contacted I informed then Company A recruiting/hiring manager of this sneaky arse move. Dude somehow still got the job and it seriously upsets me still today that he pulled that shite
This post was edited on 8/2/19 at 4:42 pm
Posted by potent357
Prairieville
Member since Jan 2010
4042 posts
Posted on 8/2/19 at 5:25 pm to
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So he, without informing me, put me as a reference on his resume.
Wow. At least both of the girls I mentioned asked me first. I would not want to be blindsided by a call.
Posted by potent357
Prairieville
Member since Jan 2010
4042 posts
Posted on 8/2/19 at 5:28 pm to
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Friend zooooooned
That's a given. All aforementioned parties are currenty in marital bliss. None with each other. And actually mine is not bliss.
Posted by Henry Jones Jr
Member since Jun 2011
68774 posts
Posted on 8/2/19 at 6:16 pm to
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I just can't understand why someone would agree to be a reference for someone then say bad things about them.
People don't ask before putting them on their resume. They just assume it's ok
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